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Claris, 45

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About Me

I am the girl next door..Communication is essential for any relationship to be successful. Not only can I talk...but I also listen! We all, have a "type" of person we are attracted to. I happen to be attracted to your All American White Guy. If you are of another race I won't be your match also not a fan of the Rebel Flag loving men so please pass me by..and thank you so very much to all of you for writing to me anyway just in case I have suddenly changed my mind or OBVIOUSLY you can't or chose not to read what I have written.I have been Divorced for 7 years and would like to find a man that is somewhere in the same stratosphere relationship wise.My daughter is 13 and I share joint custody with her Dad, she is a nature lover and we can often be found in search of tadpoles, frogs and turtles...we have yearly passes to the Aquarium and Busch Gardens.Things I don't enjoy...camping in a tent, NASCAR, country music (makes my ears bleed).We will probably not be a match if you have a bathroom picture with your shirt off and your sunglasses on....so not cool anymore.A few facts- I can bait my own hook, and then take the fish off...I have changed the garbage disposal and the timer in my washing machine, hooked up my new HD Home theater system all by myself, and can really kick your butt in trivial pursuit! ;) Something I am not good at...hanging curtain rods, seems you are supposed to measure first! Newest to the list...I assembled a full bedroom set bought from IKEA for my 12 year old daughter, that's about a thousand pieces with only pictures..no words for directions!(Sarcasm ahead...)I also feel compelled to tell you that I do enjoy walks on the beach, sunsets, puppies, kittens, flowers and notes just randomly left for no reason....seems no profile is complete without this vital info. (end sarcasm) Another thing I wanted to add as it seems just about all of then men here are looking for the "one" that can go from the flirty black dress to the flip flops and jeans....I havegot that covered!What makes me someone you would want to get to know? I am a very loyal friend, I am candid and have no issues with expressing how I feel and am forever optimistic and according to my Father I was the best daughter...EVER!Couple of things....I am very proud of how I survived the economic crash of 06 so...if you are one of the many that have decided it was the cool thing to do and stop paying for your mortgage just because everyone else was doing it...we won't be a match....I am very responsible and have zero respect for system suckers or people trying to walk away from their obligations. In a nutshell, I have my act together...if this intimidates you...I am not the gal for you.I love to laugh....not just a chuckle....belly laugh until you can't breathe..that does a body and spirit good!I love to go to concerts, festivals, street fairs, museums, shows, movies, sporting events. I am a huge people watcher. Would love to start travelling more, there are so many interesting beautiful places to see.Looking for someone kind and honest who can match my sense of humor, carry on a meaningful conversation and has a real zest for life!Thank you again for taking the time to read all of this...best of luck to all of us. So many options, dinner at a quiet restaurant is always good, not too many distractions and we can see if there is any chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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