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Alyx, 43
United States, Idaho, Hayden

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About Me

Hard to do this without tooting your own horn and I'm not that kind of person. I prefer modesty, but let's give it a go....I'm an outgoing individual who loves to talk and has no trouble socializing. I also like taking it easy and relaxing, enjoying the comforting nature of just being together in a quiet place. I don't do the bar scene, never really enjoyed that. I'm very much a doer in that I believe you shouldn't talk about it, just do it. I am unable to relax if something needs doing and I don't like procrastinating. I believe in giving and enjoy doing things for others and surprising them with the unexpected. I believe giving is most important in a loving relationship, as both partners need to give as much as they can to the other. Doing things for the other person shows consideration, selflessness and love. I'm a firm believer in teamwork. I can tackle life's challenges but would prefer doing that together with a co-captain, afterall, we make a stronger team than each alone. Doing things together is fun....anything at all, but I also believe we need some time to ourselves. I'm not attached to anyone at the hip and time apart makes us appreciate our time together even more. We need to learn about eachother, but we can't forget who we are as individuals. We should bring that individuality into the relationship and I look forward to learning all about you and that's an adventure we'll do together. Family and friends are very important to me and sometimes, they are all you have, so go out of your way to help them, let them know how much you appreciate them, and love them. I have 2 great kids that challenge me all the time but they are my strength too. They are with me most of the time and therefore are a big part of my life, but I will still make time for that someone special. I am very expressive with my words and actions, showing my affection in public without concern for who may be watching. I certainly don't mean going overboard, but when I am with someone I love, a long kiss is not taboo and very much welcome. Loving touches and feels are a must all the time! This is really a method of communication and a pillar in a strong relationship. I love holding hands and I am a hopeless romantic.I love to laugh, so a good sense of humour is definitely a requirement. I have no problem laughing at myself, I'm comfortable enough in my own skin. I'm young at heart and believe that age is just a state of mind. I hope to meet someone that sparks my intellect and my heart. There must be mutual respect and mutual interests. Although they say opposites attract, I have to disagree when it comes to relationships...common goals, common interests and common values are very necessary for a successful relationship. I enjoy being active and playing some sports such as volleyball, baseball, basketball. I enjoy staying fit by cycling, spinning and doing weights. I'd like to be physically active with my special someone, allowing us to both keep eachother fit and enjoy the time exercising together. Life is short and we all need to be with someone special. I am looking for my best friend, as the best relationships start off as a friendship...love is strongest when you fall in love with your best friend. 5 IMPORTANT notes:1. I don't respond to profiles that have no photos. Sorry.2. I won't chat with someone unless I've communicated with them previously through messaging. Sorry.3. I read this and believe it's true - Everyone has baggage, the trick is to find that someone special who will help you go through it.M4. I try to reply to everyone, but if I don't, please understand it is because I don't believe we are a match.5. My profile is long as I have spent much time in expressing myself and I take this next step seriously. If you choose to message me, please take some time and effort in doing so....it means a lot."I'm just a girl, looking for a boy to love her." -;Love is....friendship set on fire." - Anonymous

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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