SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Callie
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!
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Marylu
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
People describe me as being a nice, compassionate, and caring person with a sharp, yet sarcastic, sense of humor. I have a variety of interests with traveling, boating, and attending sporting events being my favorites. I would say that my greatest passion is helping others, and working with children each day gives me more joy and peace in my heart than I can express. There is a lot to be learned from the innocence of youth! My work occupies quite a bit of my time (except June & July), so my free time is very valuable. I rarely have nights free during the week. When I do get out, I enjoy quiet dinners with great conversation and nice wine.! I am not a big fan of movies (occasionally is fine) and if you don't like sports, especially baseball, then we probably won't be too compatible. One major deal-breaker is smoking and I agree with those of you who say chemistry is vital. I would say I am most attracted to stylish, confident men who are intelligent and have a good sense of humor. Anything non-threatening where either party has an easy "escape" if needed. :)
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Georgeann
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I'm an open book ask and I'll tell. Writing all about yourself on here takes all fun out of getting to know someone.What this thing says I have to write more well I really dont want to write more as I said it takes all the fun out of getting to know someone!!!!. What ever we decide is right