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Bessie, 41

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About Me

I am a 41 year old single mom of a 15 year old daughter. I currently attend school. I like tv, movies, some outdoor activities, music and just hanging out. I hope to graduate next year and am still undecided if I will pursue a bachelors degree. As for tv and movies, I like comedy and drama. Music? I'm mixed taste here but mostly rock.. Classic and new. Some country music, too. I have a fairly good sense of humor.. Have to in this life. I've been told its warped so.... I'm not into head games. So if that's where you're at? Drive on. I don't want or need them. I don't like dates. Or raisins either. First time out? Well, talking! Some where we can talk. Coffee? Quiet place for a meal. With talking! Yes I like to talk and I need to get to know you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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  • Leonore

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I was born in St. but grew up in NY. This defines me in a lot of ways, being raised with totally different values, goals and drive. I love politics and can discuss and argue for hours on the issues that interest me. And I am interested in everything! I love theater, cinema, ballet, opera. I am very well read in both languages and always have at least 2 books on my nightstand, one in each language. I am a designer, but really an artist at heart. Love museums, new shows, won't pass by the gallery, and like going to Gallery Openings. Passionate about music, can't live without it. I am always listening to something, love new anything that is coming out. Going to concerts in small clubs, discovering new musicians is my favorite things to do. I have one daughter who is the apple of my eye. She is all grown now, but for me she will always be the little girl holding on to my hand on her way to school. I am very close to my family and talk to them every day. I love to cook big meals for friends and family during holidays. My friends think I am too idealistic, but I call it believing that most people are good with the exception of some bad apples. Looking for a partner in crime. Someone who is fun, very energetic, great sense of humour, affectionate and is not shy to show it, spontaneous, young in spirit and at heart, age makes no difference, generous with his emotions. Free to experience life today. Someone who can laugh at himself, but is gentle with others. Someone who is kind to animals and kids. Someone who will not put down the hweak. A kind warrior.Once I find him, that will be a perfect date. Wherever it is.

  • Kristia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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