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Tillie, 43

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About Me

I am a non smoking 40 something educated professional women. I have been divorced for several years. I have two VERY active boys; soccer, baseball, basketball, swimming, track so on.....They keep me on my toes. I also play a great deal of softball in my limited free time. I enjoy, dinners out and going to sporting events. I like to sit on the couch and watch a baseball (Tigers) game or a Lions or Steelers game. I like to camp, and go on the occaisional weekend get away. I love to be around friends, at a bon fire or a barbeque. I love the beach and the lake. I am a mood listener when it comes to music, I like all of it, but not necessarily RAP or hip hop. I can be a very sweet and caring person, but I am very protective of my children. I love to cook, and try new things. My favorite food is sushi, or a nice steak. I have had very little luck in dating, and relationships, so I figured I would try this for a bit...I don't want just a casual fling, so if that is all your interested in, please don't contact me, this is overwhelming enough! I don't want to have anymore children (um really) but I do want the man I meet to have children, family is VERY important to me! I would like a guy that knows when to have fun and when to be serious, and can function comfortably in all settings.....ie: play hard, and also be responsible.*****I am looking for a professional, someone who is comfortable with putting on dress pants and tie, and then the next day wearing jeans and casual shirt or clothes to play in the mud. Someone that is comfortable in any situation and is serious but knows how to let loose and have fun! ********** As flattered as I am, I really am not looking for someone alot younger. I can not have anymore kids, and I don't feel that it is fair, I have lived that portion of my life, I am looking for someone that is raising their children, or have raised them and moved on to another chapter. I am sorry (it does make me feel good though) I think the first date should be a dinner out, as it is the most casual, comfortable, and gives you time to talk and get to know each other. OR feel free to wisk me off to a tropical island for that drink at sunset! jk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marielle

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a great natured, intelligent,, attractive woman. I have happily moved back to N.C. After 14 years and can't wait to get out and explore my surroundings with someone. I am excited to head to the beach or get up to the mountains. I enjoy my down time. Having a good meal and sitting on the porch with a glass of wine, but I love to be active. Life is to short to sit in front of the T.V.New Season Just Started. I love good food, to garden,camp, and any kind of water. I like forms of expression so photography, art shows,music, and theater. I'm big into animals.I have been very fotunate to be well traveled***countries and counting) and love, love Ancient Cultures. I deeply enjoy learning new things and trying to acquire new talents. I like spending time with the person I'm with, and having fun with friends. I really like to dress up and go out, but I also have a little bit of tomboy in me and don't mind getting dirty. I drive a jeep and like dirt bikes, but I wouldn't say I'm into cars. A few things I'm not...I am not religious. I'm not someone who is largely into sports( I do really like Hockey though) I'm open to exploring sports, but if every Sunday includes Football or NASCAR I'm probably not the girl for you. Pls don't send me hate mail Lol....I know it's N.C. I'm just trying to be straight up.I don't have children. I like kids and respect how hard it is to be a parent, but I've been down that road,and it gets a little more complicated then most people would like to lead on.I would be open to dating someone with a teenager. If you do have kids...pls let me know an age range. People contact me , but they don't fill in that very important "blank" about their children. I would just prefer to be honest. Oh, did I say I'm honest, and that honesty and loyalty are very important to me. Well,that's a little about me. I look forward to hearing a little bit about you. Who do I hope to meet... I'll keep it simple. Someone close to my age and I can look up to physically ( taller then me) and emotionally. Someone within my own race. Someone who is attractive (inside and out) with intelligence, integrity, and a passion for having fun while we are working so hard to pay the bills. Who wants to laugh and has an understanding of the word Respect. Can I learn something from you? No pen pals pls. I did that in the third grade. I'm ready to meet someone.PS. If you think you could be out of my Age, Height, Weight range I will probably think that way too. Pls stay real. I look like my pic. I will not be going after some one who is too young for me. You shouldn't either. I love to go to the country, to camp, or go to the lake. I Am Not a country girl looking for a country boy. I won't respond to any comment that has sexy in it. Again, I am not looking for a pen pal.I've been on here for a few months now, and the above comments are not mean, but a frustration that I believe come with these type of sites. Still hopeful though.We cant respond to all everyone, but I do wish all of you Happy Fishing! Keep it simple. Or not.... if you are that creative. A meeting where we can talk.

  • Jeanice

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm generally a happy person and feel very grateful for all the blessings in my life, but still looking for the blessing of a good man...I try to appreciate or at least learn from everything life serves up (the bad as well as the good). I am interested in many things, including all sorts of music, yoga, good wine & food, sailing, hiking, reading, museums, beaches, traveling, discussing philosophy/spirituality and I'm always open to new experiences. I have, and appreciate in others, a good sense of humor, an out-of-the-box way of thinking, the ability to have an interesting conversation, a strong sense of integrity and honesty, a certain amount of annoyance with superficiality and people who don't think for themselves. I'm looking for a solid partnership - someone who'll support my growth as a person and let me support theirs. I have a tendency to think too much, so someone who's occasionally silly is probably good for me. Fun is important, as is lots of passion and physical chemistry.I tend to be most attracted to men who are intelligent, confident and well spoken. My ideal match should be similar enough to me so that we can communicate but not so similar that there's no 'fire.' I like a little bit of sparring every now and then, a little bit of wickedness. At the same time, (cliche alert!) we should be able to sit back by the fire on an autumn day and read the Times together pleasantly, too. It's really a matter of balance. Someone who likes to sail would be great. I prefer guys who aren't of small build (and no I'm not referring to THAT), I just like a guy that I feel like a little woman next to, somebody huggable and with whom I can roughhouse every now and then. No atheists/agnostics, please. A first date should be somewhere we can talk (without having to shout) and get to know each other a bit.

  • Santana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am newly single and looking for companionship/friendship (possibly relationship in future) and am very self sufficient. I have 2 grown sons and am a very hard worker and honest. My kids are very important in my life, so if you aren't wanting to deal with my adult children, then don't bother to read any further. Family is VERY important to me and I make all the time in the world to spend time with my sons. I have lived on a farm for over 20 years and now I am back in a small town. I really enjoy cattle and baby calves and being on a farm. Some of my hobbies are quilting, photography, genealogy, scrap booking, outdoors and other crafty things. I love country music and going to country concerts. I love being outdoors, riding bike, gardening and relaxing. I enjoy watching a movie and just hanging out together. My friends would say I am a very honest, caring, considerate and a real person. I am not looking for playing any games or any one night stands. I want someone to connect with and love me for who I am and I can love you for who you are. If you want to know anything more, just mesage me, I will tell you what you want to know. Thanks for reading my profile and send me a message if you are interested in meeting me. That is something can be discussed if it when it gets to this point. Ideally I just want to get to know you and have nice dinner and conversation, maybe a walk in a park, near a river or lake or a motorcycle ride or maybe just spending time together doing what you like. Just depends on what your interests are and what we decide together to do. I am pretty much up for anything.

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