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Ila, 41

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About Me

I am shy. I am simply me. I live life and love to be happy!If you are looking for a hookup or one night stand please pass me by!If you are a heavy drinker please pass me by!If you think it is sexy to pick a fight so you can make up , by All means pass me by!Drama with your ex, pass me by!If you have a total dislike or loath for mental illness, pass me by because that is my profession and I am not into validating why I choose to work with or believe in mental health!!!!!I just want a simple life where I am happy. I don't think that is too much to ask for! I am very independent and not looking for a man to keep me up, looking for a companion to enjoy life with!!! I love drawing, photography, traveling, sports, good movies, just about anything fun and legal. I am not materialistic, hate to argue, not jealous , and won't nag! All I ask if you you to be truthful, honest and real. If you don't ever plan on meeting don't bother messaging me. I am real and know what I want and will not play games or be on an emotional roller coaster! I am so easy to get along with! Wish all the best! Some place quiet!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Magda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Fun-loving mom of 3 in search of someone to spend fun times with :) Dining out, shows, weekends away, ...seeking someone who is not just alive but living life! I love bands (big country music lover), dogs, kids, beaches...

  • Victorina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi I'm trying this again. I'm looking for someone to grow old with. I want to meet someone who understands that a successful relationship starts with being friends first. I want someone who understands communication and honestly is key. I want someone to understand no one is perfect; we all have our own faults, someone who isn't afraid to try something new even if it scares them. What is a relationship to me: At first it is chatting, texting and ***; then the dreaded first date; then its up in the air. I am the type of person who expects a lot of communication - even if its just a quick text saying hi - I just need to know your interested. I'm a hard working, strong, independent woman. But I wear my heart on my sleeve. I understand everyone has a past and the past is what makes us who we are today. My friends would describe me as fun, witty, loyal, easy going and very honest. I'm not looking to change anyone nor do I want someone to change me. Respect and honesty are very important to me. I'm not a "girlie girl" - I don't like shopping or cleaning. I prefer to be outside in the yard/hiking/fishing/etc. rather then inside cleaning. Don't get me wrong I've been told do clean up nicely.I can be very blunt but I will never lie to you. I'm old fashion in the sense that I'm not looking to date several people at once. I do understand not everyone is like that; just be honest with me and I don't have an issue with it. Don't get me wrong; if the relationship does progress into something - the others will need to go - lol. I try to live life to the fullest and treat everyone like I would like to be treated myself.If any of this interests you, certainly drop me a note. Lets see what can happen, trust me there's more to everyone then just few paragraphs in a profile. Not into the bar scene. Maybe take a walk on the beach, a hike or a quite place to chat, eat and get to know each other.

  • Lili

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi! I have never signed up for any of the internet dating sites, so this is a little weird for me. I guess first things first... a little about me...I am 40 years old. I am a Christian. I have been divorced for two years and I am ready to get back into the dating scene. I am the mother of two. I worked in corrections and the court system for about 15 years. My God and my kids are the most important things in my life. I love to scrapbook, read, camp out, fish, watch football, and ride horses. I go to a Cowboy Church and we often have activities that involve riding. I just started learning to ride about two months ago. Right now it is my passion. I enjoy going to rodeos and watching my kids play sports. I also love a good sense of humor because I love to laugh.My goals right now are just to raise my kids the best way I know how. Their father is involved in their lives, so I am not looking for anyone to help me raise them. I just miss adult companionship. I thought this might be a place to start.I think I am unique because I am not the type of woman to shy away from activities that some women wouldn't care for. I mentioned above that some of my favorite activities include fishing, football, and camping. I think I am just the right mix of country girl and girly girl. I am not too much of one or the other. I am certainly not high maintenance or hard to please. I do like some romance and special attention sometimes, just like all women do.I love all types of music. I grew up in the ***s so I love all of the big "hair" bands. I love pop music, rock and roll, and most country. Date? What is a date? Seriously, it has been a while. I think a first date should be somewhere fun, but also somewhere where we can talk and get to know one another. Maybe go out to eat either at a restaurant or a picnic in the park so we could sit down and really talk. But like I said before, I am not high maintenance or hard to please. You pick the place and I am most likely going to be content with it.

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