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Amya, 43

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About Me

You only get one chance to make a first impression so I will be upfront and honest and I hope to find the same in return. I am a very casual, active, athletic person looking to meet people I can have fun with and enjoy this new lifestyle as a single woman. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a man and a relationship but it's not exactly something I can spell out in a profile. You either have it or you don't so all I ask is be yourself, be honest and let's see what happens. I'm not interested in a long back and forth *** do believe nothing replaces the natural chemistry you can only experience in person and I don't want to waste my time or yours unless we are actually going to meet. Putting your life on paper and in photographs only shows a small fraction of who you really are. My status is separated which I know can turn some people away but it's the truth. It's been over two year now and there is no chance we will be getting back together but for several reasons we have not finalized the official divorce yet. I have 3 boys ages 9, 12 and 16 that I am very grateful are with me most of the time and spend weekends with their father. They are a big part of my life but they are also very independent which allows me flexibilty to enjoy my life.It's time for me to really start living my life and I want someone to share that with. Please refer back to my opening line about first impressions and honesty. I would like to think there are still some gentlemen out there that know how to approach a woman properly and introduce themselves using complete sentences, those are the ones I will respond to. If you "want to meet me" please send me a message too. A first real date should come after a personal meeting in a casual setting to see if there is chemistry and a casual comfort together. After that I'm up for just about anything and appreciate a man who is comfortable and confident in himself to make the phone call and set up a real date. Confidence is very sexy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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