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Amya, 43

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About Me

You only get one chance to make a first impression so I will be upfront and honest and I hope to find the same in return. I am a very casual, active, athletic person looking to meet people I can have fun with and enjoy this new lifestyle as a single woman. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a man and a relationship but it's not exactly something I can spell out in a profile. You either have it or you don't so all I ask is be yourself, be honest and let's see what happens. I'm not interested in a long back and forth *** do believe nothing replaces the natural chemistry you can only experience in person and I don't want to waste my time or yours unless we are actually going to meet. Putting your life on paper and in photographs only shows a small fraction of who you really are. My status is separated which I know can turn some people away but it's the truth. It's been over two year now and there is no chance we will be getting back together but for several reasons we have not finalized the official divorce yet. I have 3 boys ages 9, 12 and 16 that I am very grateful are with me most of the time and spend weekends with their father. They are a big part of my life but they are also very independent which allows me flexibilty to enjoy my life.It's time for me to really start living my life and I want someone to share that with. Please refer back to my opening line about first impressions and honesty. I would like to think there are still some gentlemen out there that know how to approach a woman properly and introduce themselves using complete sentences, those are the ones I will respond to. If you "want to meet me" please send me a message too. A first real date should come after a personal meeting in a casual setting to see if there is chemistry and a casual comfort together. After that I'm up for just about anything and appreciate a man who is comfortable and confident in himself to make the phone call and set up a real date. Confidence is very sexy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Afton

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

  • Alisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Open minded, intellectual, curious, adventure seeking woman living the charmed life in the Ozarks. I am seeking a fit, smart, kind and adventurous companion. I love canoeing, hiking, and day trips. The beach is one of my favorites for vacations. I enjoy reading and conversation. I enjoy movies and festivities with family and friends. My biggest turn offs are living life sitting in front of the television, judgmental people, or any any type of drug use or smoking. I am a bit old fashioned when it comes to manners and truly appreciate a gentleman. I love fine dining and cooking unusual recipes.

  • Mae

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'll preface this by saying I'm crazy busy at work right now, and may not have time to respond to messages or to develop the type of relationship I eventually want, so I'm changing my goal here to "wants to date, but nothing serious." I'm not looking to jump into a relationship just to be in one. I'm ok being alone. I do hope to find someone to spend some time with, have a few laughs together, and hopefully someday I'll find true love. When I love, I love for good. I'm as loyal as an old hound dog, and just as stubborn. I miss having someone to share my day with. I miss having someone who I just can’t wait to tell that bit of good news to…and someone to comfort me when the news isn’t so good. I want to know that the guy I’m crazy about is mine and mine alone because I don’t like to share. I can go a long time on just the very minimum of affection - but I don't want to do that anymore. I want someone who makes me feel that I'm important to him. That being said, I'm going to be picky this go-round. Being alone isn't a bad thing, and I'm not desperate for a man. I used to respond to every message, but I'm not doing that anymore. If you message me and I don't respond, I'll thank you now for your interest, but I won't waste your time or mine by messaging back and forth. I’m not perfect. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m a bad housekeeper. I don’t organize my time well. I’m a bit of a homebody, though I’d love to get out more. I take a while to warm up to new people (guys, especially), but once I get to know you, I'm awful at playing hard to get. But, even though I have my faults, I'm still pretty darn great.Please have your sh*t together. By that, I mean, have reliable means of supporting yourself, be completely over any exes, take care of your kids if you have them, know how to use spell-check and punctuate a complete sentence, and be willing to consider a long term relationship with the right person. I have all of those qualities and more. We'll figure something out together.

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