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UPDATE ***: Since you have to pay to hide your profile, I have met someone and will not be responding to anymore *** luck to the rest of you, I have actually found a wonderful man on here, it can work:)NO MORE CRAZY PLEASE!! If you are unemployed, psychotic, bi-polar, have multiple personalities, jealousy issues, or have any substance abuse problems, please do not read any further. I am an independent woman, with a full life. I am looking for someone to complete me, not change me. I love to travel, and would love to find someone that would like to see the world.I am passionate and loving and willing to try almost anything once. I am a funny, outgoing, sarcastic, and adventurous person, looking for the same. Good communication skills, honesty, and some semblance of normalcy are critical. I am an inner city English teacher, so nothing surprises me anymore, and good grammar and proper spelling don't hurt. :) If any of this sounds appealing, then I would love to hear from you.Update ***: I feel like I have to add to my profile, if you are looking for a stupid Barbie doll who has no opinion and only looks good on your arm, I am not the one. If you are looking to play games, and waste my time (I don't have much extra time anyway), please keep looking, and lastly if you are married, still hung up on your ex, have extra drama, are looking for a one night stand or booty call, and/or do not know how to be considerate of another persons feelings, please keep going!! Thank you!! Update ***: OMG, seriously are there any men out there that are a little bit normal? Someone who would like to actually date, have some fun, and maybe lead towards a healthy relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carleigh

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been divorced for a 3 years and have 2 children. One that's grown and one still at home. I am ready to move forward and be involved in a stable, respectful and loving relationship. I enjoy country dancing...I'll dance to the other stuff but only when I've had a few. ;). I'm very devoted to my family and friends and will expect whoever I end up with to respect myself as well as the others in my life. I'm a fun and loving person until you do me wrong. Then I tend to hold a grudge. If you have a bad temper, I'm not the girl for you. Been there done that. Would appreciate someone that has a real job and is responsible enough to pay his own bills. I don't want to be Mom to anyone other than my children.....or step children. I would appreciate someone with a sense of humor that can make me laugh but not in an obnoxious way. I want to have the utmost respect for my man and these are the qualities that would be required in order to do so. I should probably mention that I'm extremely affectionate so if you have a problem with your arm or chest being rubbed raw while we're watching a movie then I may not be your girl. Haha!

  • Pneuma

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love comedy & laughing! I love to camp & be outdoors. My goals include finishing my Masters, getting through this rough economy (seriously). Wish to meet a party soul and have much fun

  • Amari

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an early riser who likes to workout first thing in the morning. I have a lot of energy and like to fill my day as much as possible! I am a fan of P90X and Insanity! This summer I ran my first 5k and look forward to doing another one soon!I believe I have a good sense of humor and can take being teased. I love to be outside, especially in the summer! The warmer the better! I enjoy football in the fall and fireplaces in the winter! I would love to spend more time traveling. There are so many places in the world I would really like to see. I have 2 girls who keep me very busy and on the go! I like to read and often find that I will be reading 2 or 3 books at a time. Depending on what I am in the mood for that day will depend on which book I read! When flipping through magazines I always start from the back first. Not sure why, I guess this makes me a bit quirky! I am thoughtful and considerate and pay attention to those little details. I like a man who is polite, romantic, loving and affectionate. A good sense of humor is a must! Someone who is not afraid to say what they feel and mean what they say. A man who can recognize what is standing right in front of him and is not concerned with missing out on the "next big thing" to come along. Someone that wouldn't take me for granted and would appreciate all that I have to offer. I am a dreamer and believe that fairytales do come true. I would like to meet someone who could sweep me off my feet, but is very down to earth. Tall and well-built with an interest in staying healthy and fit. I think a man in uniform is very sexy and love it if you smell nice! If you can make me laugh you are someone who will always keep my attention!!! On a first date I think its most important to be able to get to know each other. Talk without a lot of distractions. Maybe meet for lunch or an ice cream at the beach. Nothing too high pressure. Just a couple of hours to see if there is any chemistry and an interest in meeting again. The impressive dates should be saved for someone special!

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