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Tomoko, 44

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About Me

I'm a single Momma, with 3 wonderful kids. My life is usually busy with them. But I need adult companionship too. I am interested in making friends first. Not jumping into bed with someone right away! I like to go out, but also stay in. I love listening to live bands. I like most music;O.D, Stray Cats, list goes on. Just not much into rap or Death Metal.Hoping to meet someone local. But not opposed to farther away, if there's an attraction. But still a little old fashioned thinking; I don't think I should have to drive to you. At least for the initial meeting. I try to be a positive thinking person, even though life sometimes makes that very hard. I do not like negative attitude people. Don't need that. I have been "told" I'm stuck up or rude, because I don't reply to every message or request I get. I don't think that's me. I just don't see a point in wasting someones time, if I'm not interested. Let's face it; any relationship starts with an attraction. I don't take it personal when I don't get a response from someone.I don't consider myself a materialistic person. I work hard for what I have. Which is not alot by some standards. But we're content. I don't like people that think their material belongings define them. Don't get me wrong; I like to have nice things and good for those that can afford them. But I don't see a reason to live beyond your means. Just sayin' lol On a first date: it would be nice to be somewhere somewhat quiet. That way we could talk & get to know each other. Rather than yell over a crowd. Always time for crowds later. A nice dinner or maybe just coffee and a walk in the park. It wouldn't neccessarily have to be dressy. Casual is good also.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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