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Abiah, 43

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About Me

First let me say my oldest son is 24 so if you are within 12 years of that age (which is 36 for the slow thinkers)...lol please do not contact me. It is definately not my cup of tea. Now with that being said... I love the sun and anywhere in or around the water makes me happy. My goal is to move to a bigger city and be successful at my career and my life. All the while hoping that I will eventually find that someone special and best friend to share my life with. My kids are grown, my divorce is final and I'm READY for the next chapter in my life where I get to write the Happy Ending. (not the one you are thinking)!! lol Life is too short to not be happy and I plan on living my life to the fullest. I am a very honest and down to earth but confident woman. I like to have fun and not take life too seriously. I love to travel and have been many places but know there are many more I would like to see and explore, but would like to have that someone special to share it with. I like to laugh and have fun but know when and where to be serious. I like and am open to all different types of activities. I am looking first and foremost for my best friend. Communication, honesty and being a gentleman are very important to me. I enjoy getting out on the town for dinner, movie, dancing or just hanging at home with that special someone.If you have read to this point - Here are important things regarding what I am looking for in a man: - Someone who is established in his "life" (no I'm not referring to having a lot of money***An established man to me is someone who knows what he wants to do with his life and is either doing so or has the plan in motion. - Has a faith & relationship with God. - Takes his role as a father very seriously. - Has his license (this is surprising to me that I even have to put this on here but apparently I do). :***Enjoys being in or around the water. - Likes to dance or will at least get out there and have fun with me if we go to see a live band and or club. - Has his own vehicle and is willing to use it. - Likes animals and children - Does not want anymore children because I am unable to have any more. - Has a good relationship with his family and friends. - Is a social person (but not a bar fly***Likes a variety of music (including country***Isn't afraid to be silly and spontaneous. - Wants to make me a priority in his life (no I don't expect to come first before your kids when you have them). - Someone who is health conscious (not a health fanatic, just someone that wants to make sure he will grow old with me). I don't want to fall in love and lose you right away because you arteries are all clogged up. - Loves to be in or around the water. - Likes to hold hands & even give me a kiss in public. - Likes to actually have a conversation and want to know about me (not just sit on the phone). - Enjoys traveling (even if its just for the weekend***Believes in compromise and team work. - Isn't afraid to speak his mind - If you think I look pretty, tell me. (I don't understand why it is so hard for some men to communicate their feelings). - Treats people with dignity and respect. I am sorry if this comes across in any other way than me sharing my thoughts but I am at an age and have lived enough life that I do not have time for games or men thinking that because I am on this site I am looking just for sex. You never know where you will find love and if it is on here then more power to us. If you have these attributes I hope to hear from you soon. If you would like to know more, just ***"Warning" Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do "not" have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee's, agent's, student's or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Thanks. I am pretty open to trying all different activities. I prefer for the man to plan the date. But here are a few things that appeal to me for a first date: Dinner, Drinks, shoot some pool.. just go somewhere to get to know each other - But Always in public. I will not come to your house to meet you for the first time (no matter how good of a cook you are). So please don't ask and then act offended when I say no.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Josephine

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ***for ***So my recent dating average is 0 for 4. As if I care. A date cancelled on me tonight and I was actually happy..lol. So my aunt says to me "good, aren't you glad you don't have to get dressed up and go out with someone you hope you'll like?!.." I said "Precisely! That's exactly what I was thinking." So my belly was full with eggplant parm pizza, and my cousin and I had the movie line up for the evening in order. I've decided I will only go on a date with someone if I *** weed out the freaks, pervs, jerks and idiots. For some chuckles, here's the last 4 dates I had: 1) nice guy - dinner, but no connection - great eggplant parmesan dinner though :) Love my peeps food 2) seemingly nice guy who let it be known that he was rich, and he took me to dinner - too bad money doesn't buy class 3) date 3 of the month was lined up - seemingly nice guy, polite, intelligent, respectful, relate-able, felt I could talk to him and was actually thinking I could have some chemistry with him, that is, until he texted me last night saying "I wanna see your breasts." lol...that didn't go over too big - NEXT 4) Cancelled on me via text saying he didn't feel we were a match - as if I care....I hate men with baggage anyways - a carry on will suffice, but I prefer to stay away from divorcees with kids anyways. I kill me.And so, I shall scroll through the channels now and see what's on late night TV - just had a nice girlie chat with my cousin. Oh and one last thing - if I see one more profile that says "I like to stay fit and work out 6x a week I think I'll scream." Granted you all have muscles, but do you have muscle where it really counts??!.....nite creatures. ***For some Laughs: So yesterday we had some workers over doing some chimney work on the outside of the house. They had to access the inside for certain prep work. So I go downstairs, only to smell the funny stuff that I thought only people smoked in the 60's and early 70's. So one of the members of the household had smoked some doobage with two of the workers...lol. Can't mention which household member this is, but she makes me laugh. We get along great, but I'm drug, smoke and alcohol free other than an occasional few Coors Lights, and she's the opposite. So when they leave, she's like "" lol...just funny that they got high together. And who knows what else went down but I don't ask... So the chimney work got done, and they had some fun. Went to the mall last night with my cousin and she is such a girlie girl. So we had to hit the Estee Lauder Cosmetics counter so she could get a make-over. I just whipped on some make-up for fun while she was getting made over. The woman at the counter says "you don't need me, you know what you're doing." I said "I surely do." the fact is that noone knows one's face better than oneself. I've put lipliner on every day of my life just about, so I don care how expert they claim they are, noone can do it as good as me. Nor can anyone put on mascara and play up my eyes as good as I can. Not that any of you care, but I'm just saying. But maybe you do care, as I've gotten many eye and lip compliments from you. Anyways, enjoy another lovely fall day. ***Tonight's #1 insult: "that is why you are nothing but a drop dead beautiful girl that i will never meet" you couldn't be more wrong buddy -.how's vanilla ice gonna get you???LOL....I am sooo sick of these insecure men trying to cut me down because they feel insecure about themselves. Oh you're 10 lbs overweight, you are drop dead hot but nothing else going for you....pal-eez. Have y'all looked in the mirror lately???***Thank You! I've just gotta say that I am so touched and utterly impressed by the compassion many of you have shown in your written expressions, thoughts, support and good wishes about my mother, parents, and what has been a truly emotionally brutal situation on me for many years now. It's enough to tear someone apart and every word of support, even simple ones help and mean a lot so I Thank those that have taken the time to support a complete stranger in an awful situation. Truly I mean that. I have more to say but gotta run for now. I had so much more to say yesterday but when I got home I was tired.***O-O-O, the Sweetest Thing -. just so cute. then I see this dog and his dad that I always see. They play fetch. This time the dad has this stick with a thing on the end, kind of like a goalie would use. I thought that was a good idea because although I know that dogs need their exercise, every time that dog brought the ball back it just gets slimier and slimier. So I thought, "good idea." That is a beautiful relationship and so adorable to see - man and his best friend sharing the day together. Those are just some of the Sweetest Things I saw today.***Brother Matt Goes to Bat - I'm really proud of my brother Matt for really stepping up to the plate with my mother's dementia worsening. We kind of have a bad family situation and he is surprisingly taking charge. My parents are divorced and living under the same roof - dad wants to sell the house because he now has a "chick" (can't imagine what she's like..lol***and mom doesn't want to sell the house. They are both miserable, especially my father, and misery loves company. He is taking out his whole situation with my mother on us kids. Imagine I am going through this in my 40's - this is pathetic and we won't stand for it. so I've been over the house pitching in making sure there's food, taking mom to the doctor and dentist, and doing whatever else I can. My friggin psychotic father (literally psychotic) is so miserable, he always has to harass or abuse someone - at least he tries. Doesn't get very far though. So the last two times I was there he started in with me. So I told my brother that I will not partake in helping out if he continues to harass me. Matt said the other night "don't worry I will take care of it - done - next topic." so he calls me today and tells me he told my father to not speak to me when I'm over the house, and not to look at me, just to go to his room and let me tend to caring for my mother. He told him that I am helping him (brother) out and we are teaming together to do the best we can.;don't look at her, don't talk to her, don't think about her - or I'll lay you out (b h1Since I now will not go on an internet without skyping a bit first, if I agree to a date it is usually a nice dinner at a nice restaurant. No Houlihan's guys. And dinner is sometimes awkward for a first date but not in this case, because I'd already have been speaking with you.

  • Joann

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a down-to-earth girl that loves life. Sounds kinda corny, huh? Well, I tend to think that I've put things into perspective and know what's important in life. I find happiness in the simple things. The sound of my son's out of control laugh, a walk on an autumn evening kicking fallen leaves, enjoying the company of friends and loved ones, sinfully rich chocolates, and curling up with a good book on a rainy afternoon are just a few things that bring a smile to my face. I'm a patient person that tries to see the best in people and holds on to hope. Don't get me wrong, I've lived enough and learned when to let go, but I still have to believe. What can I say, I'm a dreamer. I don't take myself too seriously and laugh easily.

  • Gene

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to LAUGH. Laughing with others, at myself, as well as being funny, finding humour in unlikely places…making the best of situations, smiling, hugging, holding, leaning, dancing, skipping, splashing...and laughing again.I am open and honest. I've never been married...was engaged once... a long time ago. With each new relationship I have lived a little more, loved more, laughed more, and learned more... about who I am, what I like, don't like and what I need and want in my life. I am genuine, gentle, sweet, loving, kind, usually always positive and usually always seeing the best in someone or something. I am a sensitive being, can be serious, but also playful and a little bratty sometimes too...but in a totally fun way. I have an athletic build that is a bit curvy and a few extra pounds. So i am not sure what i should have selected. I am pretty active once again.-Sep 22 this year), hiking, kayaking and am looking forward to doing more…lots more. I do not have children not because I did not want any, but timing was just what it was. I have a back ground in Child & Youth Care, coached recreational gymnastics for 11 years... and through friends and work colleagues, I get to enjoy kids that belong to other people. If it is meant to be, I will become involved with someone who already has children...or maybe even grand children.Family and close friends are important. They may not be perfect but neither am I. I love them anyway. Life happens but what matters most is not what happens...it is how you respond to it. So.....It is time to venture out and risk vulnerability...in search of a soul mate, a best friend, a lover. If you have a healthy approach to life, food, activity, friendship, family, are honest, open, not afraid of emotion, and enjoy some of the same interests...including conversation....about anything and nothing - Social, political, entertainment, feelings, friends, family, spirituality, community issues...concerns...likes, dislikes, doing quizzes to foster getting to know each other.....perhaps it is time to take a chance?Please post your photo - And if you say you are looking for a relationship but are really looking for a sexual encounter...keep fishing.Thanks! Meeting for coffee or tea or lemonade. Get the awkward stuff that did not get touched on - online or by *** of the way and see where it goes...maybe a walk or dinner...or...bowling...aquatic driving range....or mini golf????

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