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Afton, 44

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About Me

I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a kind hearted, down to earth girl who appreciates the little things in life.I love animals of all kinds and have a pug who is a big part of my life.I also enjoy traveling and seeing new places.I value honesty, no game players please.I am looking for that special person who I can't wait to see and who I don't want to leave when I am with him. Someone who makes me smile just thinking about them..About you:You should be happy, have a good job, and be serious about finding a relationship.. You should be affectionate as I love to be hugged & kissed just because..You should want to take me out and show me things that u find interesting or that you think I would love to see..I love surprises!!You should want to know all about me..ask me to find out.You should be passionate, not angry..or a stalker!Bonus if you are good at fixing things around the house!! So if u have a good life and are just missing someone to share it with....I could be your girl.Keep in mind that I am looking for dedicated not desperate!!!Give me a reason to believe & I will do the same for you...Xoxo..

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Andrea

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My life is pretty good. I'm content and I enjoy hanging out with me, but sometimes, sharing the fun, good & bad of life with a genuine, flawed, wild, warm and wacky guy can be good too. I have a high I.Q., yet it took me years to figure out where the piles of cigarettes in parking lots come from... I have a very generous heart, once you lick away the hard candy shell... I'm not really a "girly-girl", and I'm not interested in superficial pursuits such as: pop culture, shopping, makeup or fashion trends. I almost always wear cargo pants. I don't carry a purse, neither should you... I'm "Low Maintenance", so please don't take longer in the bathroom than I do.I am voluptuous and well-proportioned (5'8" ***lbs.) with gorgeous blue eyes and long legs; can you handle an honest woman who doesn't inhibit her appetite(s)? About You:Do you have a good sense of humour and wit? Life is just too short, otherwise!I am *usually* attracted to:-Larger body types,-Blue collar guys or entrepreneurs, -Guys who don't necessarily follow the rules of society,-Independent thinkers, open-mindedness, old fashioned, and-Older men who are "rough around the edges" are greatly appreciated. The following are non-negotiable: I am not interested in: dating married men, "just intimate encounters", drama, lies, bullsh!+, BDSM-based relationships or any other form of games. A photo in your profile is a must.The Qualities & Attributes I Like in a Man:-Assertiveness (not aggression), -Intelligence (emotional, intellectual & street smarts),-Ability to communicate (initiate and or continue a written or spoken conversation),-Gentlemen (basic manners, not *necessarily* sophistication or culture), -Self-assuredness (not egotistical) and -Emotional Bravery / vulnerability (true strength)Re: so called "baggage": It's not about what life deals you, it's about how you deal with life. Drum lessons, crossbow shooting, the gun range, motorbike racing, or anything (else) fun we haven't done before! But seriously & more realistically for a 1st meeting: some apps and a drink or two, followed by a walk if we click...

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