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Afton, 44

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About Me

I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Isabela

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    OK NOT REAL SURE HOW OR WHAT TO SAY PRETTY NEW AT THIS, MY GIRLFRIEND HAS TALKED ME INTO IT!! SO HERE IT GOES... I LIKE AN ARRAY OF THINGSFROM COOKING,BAKING,GARDENING AND CAMPING TO TAKING LONG RIDES ON A MOTORCYCLE TO PLAYING BINGO YES I SAID BINGO!!! LOVE COUNTRYBUT ALSO 70S AND 80S MUSIC, I PREFER WARM WEATHER BUT ALSO LIKE TO CUDDLE UP ON THE COUCH ON A COLD WINTER NIGHTOR PLAYING CARDS WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS. AS MY CHILDREN WOULD SAY "IM OLD FASHIONED" SINCE I STILL BELIEVE IN RESPECTING YOUR ELDERS,HELPING YOUR NEIGHBORS,OPENING A DOOR FOR A STRANGER AND BEING TREATED LIKE A LADY(MOST OF THE TIME LOL!!!) IF YOU LIKE MY PROFILE OR JUST WANNA SAY HI YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO. Anything, maybe a glass of wine, somewhere that we can talk and get to know a little about each other.

  • Mae

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'll preface this by saying I'm crazy busy at work right now, and may not have time to respond to messages or to develop the type of relationship I eventually want, so I'm changing my goal here to "wants to date, but nothing serious." I'm not looking to jump into a relationship just to be in one. I'm ok being alone. I do hope to find someone to spend some time with, have a few laughs together, and hopefully someday I'll find true love. When I love, I love for good. I'm as loyal as an old hound dog, and just as stubborn. I miss having someone to share my day with. I miss having someone who I just can’t wait to tell that bit of good news to…and someone to comfort me when the news isn’t so good. I want to know that the guy I’m crazy about is mine and mine alone because I don’t like to share. I can go a long time on just the very minimum of affection - but I don't want to do that anymore. I want someone who makes me feel that I'm important to him. That being said, I'm going to be picky this go-round. Being alone isn't a bad thing, and I'm not desperate for a man. I used to respond to every message, but I'm not doing that anymore. If you message me and I don't respond, I'll thank you now for your interest, but I won't waste your time or mine by messaging back and forth. I’m not perfect. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m a bad housekeeper. I don’t organize my time well. I’m a bit of a homebody, though I’d love to get out more. I take a while to warm up to new people (guys, especially), but once I get to know you, I'm awful at playing hard to get. But, even though I have my faults, I'm still pretty darn great.Please have your sh*t together. By that, I mean, have reliable means of supporting yourself, be completely over any exes, take care of your kids if you have them, know how to use spell-check and punctuate a complete sentence, and be willing to consider a long term relationship with the right person. I have all of those qualities and more. We'll figure something out together.

  • Annelisa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like making candles and going to the races. I prefer my jeans and t's to dressing up, but I can look the part if I need to.I am upfront and honest and will not settle for anything less. I want a man not a child in a man's body! My kids are grown, but still my first priority. I don't like complicated things, I much prefer simple and easy going.Lets throw a fact out: I DO NOT NEED A MAN in my life. I chose to have one. I don't need you to support me or be a sugar daddy. I have been threw hell and back. I want a man to show me what I have battled to survive in life for. Do not let your first message to me be: Wow babe, your hot, or I want you. First, I am not some teeny bopper, I am a woman, respect that and no way in hell can you see my hot flashes threw a screen. Second, you want me? To do what, put my foot up your ass because you think all women are the same?Yeah I am a fiesty redhead, if you can't deal with someone who is honest and upfront, move on and don't waste my time. Something calm and relaxing

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