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Afton, 44

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About Me

I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chantay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi Guys..... A bit about me: I am a petite, fun and down to earth type of person. With me what you see is what you get....I’m honest, genuine, am outgoing, love to laugh and live life to its fullest and enjoy the good things that life has to offer. I believe life is too short to sweat the small stuff and that you should treat others the way you expect to be treated !I am a woman who feels comfortable in a t-shirt and jeans or dressing up for a night on the town. I am always up for trying new and adventuress things. I like cooking for my family and friends, dinner parties, trying new restaurants, wine tasting, doing different activities outdoors, traveling, long walks or sometimes just chilling out & doing nothing like curling up on the couch and watching a good movie. I can be spontaneous at times, like last minute weekend getaways or just decide in the morning that I want to take a day road trip (maybe you can join). My family and friends are very important to me and are a big part of my life. What I am looking for:Since I know what I am looking for, I am looking for the same. Someone who also knows what he wants, is ready for it and is not afraid to go after it. Someone with similar interests to mine and someone who is attractive both inside and out. I want someone that can be my friend as well as being my lover, someone who is active, takes care of themselves inside and out, is fun and outgoing, as well as being romantic, chivalrous, sincere, honest and of course a good sense of humor is a must. A man that sweeps me off my feet better know how to keep me on my toes :)I'm not here for games so please be serious, if I've peeked your interest and you what to know more, just send me a message :DPS..I am not interested in never-ending e-mails. I much prefer to talk over the phone and if the chemistry is there let’s meet and see where it goes. Just keep it simple...meet for a late casual lunch, go for a walk and then wind up at a cool cafe or lounge. All this coupled with great conversation and laughter. A date that when the day or night ends, you can not wait to see other again

  • Deadra

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ****please take no offense...because it is just my preference...I only date Caucasian men********And...I AM NOT interested in dating someone my parents age...so if you're more than 10 years older then me...thanks but that's too creepy for me****I don't think it's necessary to put up your personal "resume"...I believe all someone needs to know at the start is that I am an amazing woman looking for an amazing man...I love what I do...I have an incredible family & awesome friends. I am very fortunate to have a good life...and I am very happy in most every aspect of it...except for one. I am just looking to share my life with someone wonderful...someone that will be my lover/best friend...is that you? If my profile at all piques your interest...drop me a line =)Thank you =} Whatever sounds good...I'm in =)

  • Gene

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to LAUGH. Laughing with others, at myself, as well as being funny, finding humour in unlikely places…making the best of situations, smiling, hugging, holding, leaning, dancing, skipping, splashing...and laughing again.I am open and honest. I've never been married...was engaged once... a long time ago. With each new relationship I have lived a little more, loved more, laughed more, and learned more... about who I am, what I like, don't like and what I need and want in my life. I am genuine, gentle, sweet, loving, kind, usually always positive and usually always seeing the best in someone or something. I am a sensitive being, can be serious, but also playful and a little bratty sometimes too...but in a totally fun way. I have an athletic build that is a bit curvy and a few extra pounds. So i am not sure what i should have selected. I am pretty active once again.-Sep 22 this year), hiking, kayaking and am looking forward to doing more…lots more. I do not have children not because I did not want any, but timing was just what it was. I have a back ground in Child & Youth Care, coached recreational gymnastics for 11 years... and through friends and work colleagues, I get to enjoy kids that belong to other people. If it is meant to be, I will become involved with someone who already has children...or maybe even grand children.Family and close friends are important. They may not be perfect but neither am I. I love them anyway. Life happens but what matters most is not what happens...it is how you respond to it. So.....It is time to venture out and risk vulnerability...in search of a soul mate, a best friend, a lover. If you have a healthy approach to life, food, activity, friendship, family, are honest, open, not afraid of emotion, and enjoy some of the same interests...including conversation....about anything and nothing - Social, political, entertainment, feelings, friends, family, spirituality, community issues...concerns...likes, dislikes, doing quizzes to foster getting to know each other.....perhaps it is time to take a chance?Please post your photo - And if you say you are looking for a relationship but are really looking for a sexual encounter...keep fishing.Thanks! Meeting for coffee or tea or lemonade. Get the awkward stuff that did not get touched on - online or by *** of the way and see where it goes...maybe a walk or dinner...or...bowling...aquatic driving range....or mini golf????

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