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Charla, 44

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About Me

Just the girl next door with a bit of a twist............I adore the theater, but abhor theatrics.I am a better guest then host.I seldom shout at an underdog.I have had as many misadventures as adventures in the arena of love.I can be almost-at-one-in-the-same-time smooth, awkward, mature, adolescent, sophisticated and gawking.For me, it is all or nothing, hot or cold; I do not just wet my toes but usually drench myself.I enjoy taking a gamble.With me, flattery will get you (almost) everywhere ; )I have pride but strive not to let it hurt others.I am often dynamic, generous, extravagant, stubborn, and impatient but usually not all at once.It's not easy for others to fool me but I've been known to make a fool of myself.I embrace positive change and enjoy variety.I am fiercely independent (yes, I can kill my own bugs).A few of my favorite things are.....Fall, turkey dinner, country drives and road trips, the Beatles, Kung Fu movies, brunch with friends, sleeping late Sundays, crosswords, old movies on rainy afternoons, the cultural diversity of our city, being Canadian, and any outdoor activities that involve getting from A to B.You should be...........-fairly fit or at least not a couch potatoe-honest, compassionate, loyal-down to earth -comfy in your own skin idiosyncracies and all-open to trying new stuff- a lot of fun.Bonus points if you love hockey, travelling and movies!!Please be local! Life is busy and I unfortunately and honestly I dont have time to commute to have coffee.Thanks for reading and good luck to everyone in their search!!! A pub, a Guinness and a game of darts....and you will win my heart.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Afton

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

  • Kolleen

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Ultimately I would like to work in a library or archival department. I have a good sense of humor and like to try new things. I think First Dates should be low-key and casual. It's an opportunity to get to know another person without too much pressure.

  • Wilda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Blahblahblah...read on if you want. Here are the salient points:1. I am, in general, a nice person; other people seem to like to include me in their plans.2.I have been handling my business since I was about 11 years old with a paper route. Draw from that any and all reasonable conclusions.3.I am well-adjusted, and overall a happy person, just doing my thing, living my life, looking to just keep rolling like that...It seems like shock value is the preferred mode of contact and communication...? The level of crazy I get hit with on here is enough to make this non~religious girl rethink my position on Christian Mingle...yea, I said it. Does this fly in person? Curious.. If you are just going to go that route, at least polish up your creative writing skills! It just reads as lazy....As much as I would love to crazy you right back, the problem is you would actually LIKE it..yawn.Clearly, you have all lost your minds;) To the ***hopefully that many?)of you left out there that haven't, let me respectfully acknowledge you, and please accept my apology. Of those 4, younger is totally cool. I have to draw the line if your current mode of transportation is either a skateboard or bmx bike or no transportation at all, unless, of course, you live in the city. Also, a job is super smoking hot!; immature boys, I am looking at YOU! Also, help a sister out; if you suspect that you are bats**t crazy, be nice and give me a heads~up on that, because, well, it's just the right thing to do. I don't have a set type, but hard core gym guys *kinda freak me out..will we be bonding over training for the Ironman? No. It annoys me to no end to even have to state this, but I am a size 10, and 100% cool with that.Moving on....You need a suit of armor, or in my case, a dress of armor(?), to even put your business on here for mass, anonomous, consumption and critique. (Mild to moderately creepy? You know it...oh God, just don 't dwell, girl...) We have all have been living under the misconception that everyone else finds us as infinitely interesting,hot, cool, smart, literate, pretty, cut, funny, unique, awesome, SANE, etc. as we find ourselves;) let this big, judge~y (yes, no, awww hell to the no, Maybe...)site clear that right up for you...ouch..that sucks, right?But, For everyone that you are feeling that's not feeling you, there is someone feeling you and you're not feeling them. See how that works? Feel better now? Quick, silent rejection, the great equalizer! Sweet.Finally, "Now, I ain't sayin she's a golddigger but, she ain't...." Ha! Calm down, Relax!that was a joke! I handle my own business;) I hate the word "date," but, whatever... I'm cool, lets go do what happens...one caveat; chain restaurants would be a deal breaker. Fair enough?

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