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Cate, 48
United States, Colorado, Sterling

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Life is a gift. It will always be my desire to love and be loved. Like most singles , the time moved from being admired by those I had no affection for, to pursuing with great earnest who I wanted - only to find that in the end it wasn't the match/compatibility that was good for both of us. I'm sure we've all been there. How it hurts at the time... but is remembered as a beautiful part of life learning years later. Looking for someone to share the rest of my days and nights with. Work full time day shift for the last 24 yrs in a chronic care nursing home.Adore my 2 teen boys 19 & 17, Love the elderly, and my co-workers which have become like family to me. I'm a well put together type person, avoid conflict, a very peaceful soul. My Core Motivation that guides me through life is "Peace." This is not referring to a political agenda or the absence of war. It is, however, an absence of inner conflict, much closer to the idea of serenity, and an acceptance of oneself and others. I have a strong and compelling need to keep things in balance in my life so as to maintain an internal feeling of tranquility and comfort. With this said though, I'm not a perfectionist, i am laid back, neat and tidy, but not uptight. I'm not happy around uptight people. People who stress over the smallest things...No thanks...life is too short....enjoy each moment! Make good memories! I am a loyal and honest person who appreciates the same in my partner. If you respect me and treat me with compassion, then I will always do the same for you. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy being around his woman, spending quiet times and enjoy what life has to offer. ****** Jokes to brighten your day! **** My silly side.....1, Man: Your place or mine?Woman: Both. You go to yours and I'll go to mine. 2, A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, "Mypenis," and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, "Error. Not long enough." Ha! 3, What did one saggy boob say to the other saggy boob? "We better get some support before someone thinks we're nuts!" :) 4, A blonde, a redhead, and a brunette were all lost in the desert. They found a lamp and rubbed it. A genie popped out and granted them each one wish. The redhead wished to be back home. Poof! She was back home. The brunette wished to be at home with her family. Poof! She was back home with her family. The blonde said, "Awwww, I wish my friends were here." ( my mushy side) My attitude: Feast on Life! Know yourself, and enjoy who you are. The time will comewhen, with elation,you will greet yourself arrivingat your own door, in your own mirrorand each will smile at the other's welcome,and say, sit here. Eat.You will love again the stranger who was your self.Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heartto itself, to the stranger who has loved youall your life, whom you ***, who knows you by heart.Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,the photographs, the desperate notes,peel your own image from the mirror.Sit. Feast on your life.There are so many reasons his poem is so moving: the idea of nurturing (instead of denying) yourself with food and drink, the idea of re-meeting who you were (and who you still are) despite all the years of disconnection due to ego and its insidious double, insecurity. Most of all I love this idea of feasting on your life, from the wonderful moments (the love letter) to the revealing moments (the photographs) to the painful moments (the desperate notes). Let's all feast today, even if that feast takes place while we're buying coffee filters or "making" a premade rotisserie chicken for dinner. Reflection happens everywhere—even in the aisle of the supermarket. When your ready come and get it.......:) . Something casual, just a coffee , keep it simple. Love to go out to see a movie, hang out with friends and family. A nice evening out for dinner would be nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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