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At the moment, I am putting a lot of time into progressing my career in the HR field, specifically recruiting. I'm very interested in becoming an independent recruiter in about 3 years. I'm a very independent person with strong family values. My children are the most important thing in the world to me. I'm pretty laid back but believes in respect as I believe you get what you give. Although I'm in my 40's, I consider myself very young at heart but not immature. I like all types of music, Rap/R&B since Im frm NY, country (currently learning to line dance!!!!), top 40 dance and some newer metal. I also like old school metal every once in a while!! I've been in two long term relationships and although not in those any longer, I strive to maintain a good balance between my Exs, their families and myself for the sake of our children.Now, I'm trying to fit some "me time" in to this crazy thing they call life...I have so much to be grateful for and my free time is limited but wouldn't mind sharing it with someone special that might have the same crazy life style that I have...I'm not high maintenance nor do I demand a lot of time but I do demand respect!! I'm not down for games or any drama so if you're carrying any of that with you or if you happen to be married or have a steady girlfriend and you're looking for a fling, save both of us the time and move along to someone else. Bring on ***!! Coffee in a quiet shop somewhere so we can chat & get to know each other before a real first date....better this way in case we don't hit it off....saves the awkwardness of a dinner with someone you don't really want to spend time with :) Can you tell I've done this a few times before????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bithiah

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Im at a point in my life my childern are on there own. Im very blessed to have three childern that are amazing people and im very lucky to be able to be called there mother and their friend. Having had said that I have realized that this is my time. Im really lucky to have the greatest friends who convinced me to do this due to my schedule. I love the outdoors,swimming,biking,racquet ball,cooking,dancing and hanging out with friends and just laughing. I love all music!!!!! I have been told that im a very passionate person about everything I do as well as a very loyal friend which I feel like that is true success when your friends feel the way about you. i love to travel I was really lucky to have worked for Carnival Cruise line Decorating there Cruise ships while they were in port so I have been some really great places for work as well as fun.. I love anything that involves the Sun and Water. I owned a Restaurant and A Tanning Salon up until about 10 months ago,I spent my life wanting to own my own restaurant I had managed a Fine Dining restaurant for 4 years and thought it would be amazing. Lets just say becareful what you wish for, you get it.I would never change the experience but it was a very hard decision to leave the business. I have changed alot in my life since then and went back to work in the Insurance and Finance Business alot less stress alot more time.(Maybe too much after working 70 hrs a week). A Great Date would be anything in the form of an outdoor event to a nice dinner for two.

  • Hildegard

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I like to have fun and enjoy life...dancing, dining out, movies, travel,the beach, cuddling with the right person at home, festivals,and shopping of course...I prefer being in a relationship..but dating someone is a start. I love romance, affection and the desire to be with someone that you enjoy mentally and physically....Variety in activities are nice, otherwise life tends to fall into a routine. I am very picky about the men I become involved with. There has to be some chemistry. I don't date someone just to say I can get a date..lookin for that spark and attraction! I am not into datin multiple men at the same time that gets too confusing. If you make past a few dates then I must like u... . I am prissy, repairs at my house are done with duct tape.. I have a great job but for fun I am a certified zumba teacher...but I also take Zumba classes two or three times a week, go to the gym. I am in a competition dance group like sr rockettes. .However, dancing is a hobby for me not a lifestyle or a requirement of the man I am involved with.. I am a little older then the profile age, but if you like the pictures you will like me. I have been told I look much better in person....I really don't take good pictures...Don't bother contacting me if u are seeking the following:If u are seeking a chat buddy cause your bored If you don't have a picture and have no intent of providing oneIf u don't look like your pictures. If u are seekin a friend with benefits only ,I m not seekin a booty call onlyIf you are a really far from my location as in a 3 hour driveIf you think it turns me on to know u look at my pics and take care of ur physical needs....tmiIf ur a dating machine..Well that covers some of the mail I have received so I m still lookin lolWe come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. For a first date....I would just like to meet for a drink or coffee is fine....we can go from there...:-)

  • Vernell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    As I said , I'm single mom who needs pampered... I spend all my time working and with my little girl ...mini me ...lol I would love to meet someone and see where it may go , the best relationship has to start with friendship ! I am a very honest (sometimes too honest) woman , I love the outdoors , I love to cook , I love to have fun .....just missing that special someone to share moments with ! The first date is always the most awkward ...so a nice dinner , drinks and conversation . I'm pretty easy to listen to.....lol ....I talk alot at times :) But at the same time ....a great listener !

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