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About Me

I’m loud, even my hair is LOUD. I come from a big, loud, Italian family, I’m not a girly girl, I’m a woman. I drink whiskey and shoot pool and sing really loud and not very well sometimes and I don’t care if it sounds good or not. I have 2 grown boys who are my life, and they come first, if you have kids you get it. Even though they’re getting older, one in h.s., one out of school, I attend all their functions, games, etc..I’m a hands on Mom. I laugh, sometimes uncontrollably, and that’s loud too. Sometimes I laugh so hard tears fall and I can’t breathe. I think that kind of laughter is the best kind. I am honest to a fault, I have no reason to lie, about anything. I don’t make excuses. I’m opinionated and I say what’s on my mind –most times I don’t have a filter – at all. But I don’t use words to hurt people. I give out compliments like they’re candy. I tell people they are beautiful. I eat. Real food. I have curves, and I love them. I don’t believe a woman should be a stick figure. I don’’s not real. I like REAL. I’m not fat nor am I skinny, I have a woman’s body, not a rail thin supermodel, and I like it that way. I’d rather be on the beach. All day, until the sun sets. Summer is my favorite season, but I’m presently loving the fall right now. My friends call me a “hippie” because I prefer worn out faded bell bottoms and flip flops, but I like to dress up too when the need calls for it..I have my own style, I don’t follow fashion law, if I like it I wear it. I listen to all kinds of music, classic rock, metal, disco..and I dance like there’s no tomorrow. I like going out, as well as staying in. I can cook just about anything, and love entertaining my family and friends, my house is always open to everyone and I love when people just drop by. I love my friends, they are my family as well as my blood family. I still believe in love even after so much heartbreak and disappointment – but I don’t believe in love *** first sight. I believe in attraction, the "click"..But something deeper needs to grow from it to be sustainable. I believe kisses should be long and deep and eye contact is underrated. People should look at each other, into each other, MORE. I think missing someone is healthy. I think sadness and tears are healthy. I don’t believe in hiding or pushing emotions away. I think that’s toxic to a person’s soul. I think you should do what you’re afraid of. I believe women should be strong and soft, and men SHOULD cry and show their softer side while being strong at the same time. I think we should spend more time with our kids and the people we love. I don’t care if you’re rich or poor or what kind of car you drive..I only care about your insides, what makes you YOU, and that you are genuine, and real..I don’t do fake, I don’t do one night stands, I don’t do jealousy, I don’t do lying. Yea, as you can see, I write..a lot, and I talk, a lot..I’m real and whoever I’m with should be real too.. something easy, no pressure, where we can talk..drinks? coffee?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bridget

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    -to-earth values with me--my family and friends are very important to me. I love to laugh! A guy who makes me laugh holds the key to my heart. I am a strong optimist--my perception is usually the 'bottle is half-full rather than half-empty' line--I live by it. I find that I'm naturally empathetic and fun, and my style draws other people out in a crowded party or gathering. Happiest moments include catching up with friends, finding a great restaurant, dancing, art exhibits, listening to live music, and spending time with my niece and nephews. I am closer to family and looking to make new friends & perhaps find a long term relationship in the process.Some things I love to do include trying new restaurants (I love food and good wine!), seeing a live band or musician, playing pool or darts, going to movies, stand up paddleboarding and snowboarding. I am attracted to someone who knows who they are and what they want out of life and a relationship. I love to travel & have a global bucket list. Just so you know, I am actually 47 years old, but my profile says ***because I am an active person on par with a slightly younger man/friends. I've been contacted by men who are over 50 and find that we have little in common socially, music-wise, at the gym, and in outdoor activities. When you meet me you'll see what I mean.You=a full set of teeth, hair optional, tattoos preferred. If you're interested, drop me a line and say hello. I only reply to those with pictures and if your pics are more than a decade old and/or you are not over the awful things your ex did, please save us both the time--I'm not a shrink or elderly caregiver! Although I excel at caregiving... I'm pretty open for any ideas--dinner & conversation, concert, hiking/kayaking

  • Dixy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I love a good conversation, a shared meal, lots of laughter and then some.....I love to keep active, enjoy movies, a good book, art, music, animals, outdoors, the beach and so much more....I hope to find someone who will enjoy these with me and hopefully open new interests for me. Life is short.... Easy meet for a walk, coffee, or a meal

  • Joeann

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Not sure I am the dating kind anymore...... Maybe I expect too much, maybe new technology has taken the art of waiting by the phone away and I am justnot use to it....But I would love to meet a guy who didnt drown me in attention before the initial meeting, then expect me to suddenly accept the occasional text back or one word answers. ........ I deserve more. And with that, I would love to find someone to share time with... To cook for, to be true friends. Someone to understand that my responsibilities as a single mom will always come first. what ever makes us both happy, but the perfect first date is one that we both hope never ends

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