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Valerie, 46

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About Me

I am not one who likes the winter months. However, they go by quicker if you have someone special to share it with........I enjoy most anything and will try almost anything once....maybe even a second time to make sure I don't like it. I would say my favorite places to visit are places that are warm and have beaches. I am adventurous and I think life is too short to limit yourself to things that are possible. I find a man who takes care of himself attractive and sexy. I tend to be on the silly side at times, so a good sense of humor and a little bit of sarcasm is good too! I enjoy working out at the gym ***days a week and playing tennis. I have coached girls varsity tennis, cheerleading and gymnastics. I like watching and participating in most sports. I am not into the bar scene, so if you are, we would not be a good match. I meet my co-workers there on occasion, but not a place I hang out on a regular basis. I can be professional and lady-like when I need to be, but some of my friends tell me I have that quirky witty edge that makes them laugh and fun to be around. So if you can't take it or don't like a little orneriness and good fun sarcasm, I am afraid I would disappoint you. I can put on a dress and high heels when the situation calls for it, but I really like my jeans and t-shirts.... I am a very honest person and do not ask for a lot in return. The materialistic items are at the bottom of my list of wants, as well as being labeled "high maintenance". Honesty, respect, and faithfulness are definitely at the top, since that is what you will get in return. Good luck in your search and thanks for reading my profile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cate

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Life is a gift. It will always be my desire to love and be loved. Like most singles , the time moved from being admired by those I had no affection for, to pursuing with great earnest who I wanted - only to find that in the end it wasn't the match/compatibility that was good for both of us. I'm sure we've all been there. How it hurts at the time... but is remembered as a beautiful part of life learning years later. Looking for someone to share the rest of my days and nights with. Work full time day shift for the last 24 yrs in a chronic care nursing home.Adore my 2 teen boys 19 & 17, Love the elderly, and my co-workers which have become like family to me. I'm a well put together type person, avoid conflict, a very peaceful soul. My Core Motivation that guides me through life is "Peace." This is not referring to a political agenda or the absence of war. It is, however, an absence of inner conflict, much closer to the idea of serenity, and an acceptance of oneself and others. I have a strong and compelling need to keep things in balance in my life so as to maintain an internal feeling of tranquility and comfort. With this said though, I'm not a perfectionist, i am laid back, neat and tidy, but not uptight. I'm not happy around uptight people. People who stress over the smallest things...No thanks...life is too short....enjoy each moment! Make good memories! I am a loyal and honest person who appreciates the same in my partner. If you respect me and treat me with compassion, then I will always do the same for you. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy being around his woman, spending quiet times and enjoy what life has to offer. ****** Jokes to brighten your day! **** My silly side.....1, Man: Your place or mine?Woman: Both. You go to yours and I'll go to mine. 2, A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, "Mypenis," and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, "Error. Not long enough." Ha! 3, What did one saggy boob say to the other saggy boob? "We better get some support before someone thinks we're nuts!" :) 4, A blonde, a redhead, and a brunette were all lost in the desert. They found a lamp and rubbed it. A genie popped out and granted them each one wish. The redhead wished to be back home. Poof! She was back home. The brunette wished to be at home with her family. Poof! She was back home with her family. The blonde said, "Awwww, I wish my friends were here." ( my mushy side) My attitude: Feast on Life! Know yourself, and enjoy who you are. The time will comewhen, with elation,you will greet yourself arrivingat your own door, in your own mirrorand each will smile at the other's welcome,and say, sit here. Eat.You will love again the stranger who was your self.Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heartto itself, to the stranger who has loved youall your life, whom you ***, who knows you by heart.Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,the photographs, the desperate notes,peel your own image from the mirror.Sit. Feast on your life.There are so many reasons his poem is so moving: the idea of nurturing (instead of denying) yourself with food and drink, the idea of re-meeting who you were (and who you still are) despite all the years of disconnection due to ego and its insidious double, insecurity. Most of all I love this idea of feasting on your life, from the wonderful moments (the love letter) to the revealing moments (the photographs) to the painful moments (the desperate notes). Let's all feast today, even if that feast takes place while we're buying coffee filters or "making" a premade rotisserie chicken for dinner. Reflection happens everywhere—even in the aisle of the supermarket. When your ready come and get it.......:) . Something casual, just a coffee , keep it simple. Love to go out to see a movie, hang out with friends and family. A nice evening out for dinner would be nice.

  • Shala

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I go out with friends once or twice a week and workout twice a week with a trainer. Recently went on a cruise for the first time and had a great time. Looking forward to traveling more next year.I am always honest and sincere. I think that I have a lot to offer a potential mate, it is just a matter of finding the right person. I have met a lot of good men in my life just not the right person for me. I am attractive with a pretty good body. Most of my curves are in the right places. Men seem to like my legs, my smile, my hair, and my chest. Maybe not in that order!! ;-) Most guys that meet me say that I look better than my pictures and younger than my age.I have a very good job and enjoy my work. I have been there for a while and have things set up the way I want them so I don't have to work long hours. I am looking for the boy next door a/k/a average Joe. O.k. maybe I should clarify this a little, how about the cute single boy next door a/k/a the slightly above average Joe with straight white teeth and no hair sticking out his nose or ears. You laugh but the fact that I had to mention that tells you that it has happened!I like a guy who has a great smile and one who I can laugh with. Someone REAL! Someone who makes going to Lowe's fun. One who I can just be myself with. And one who I can respect. I am not perfect by any means and don't expect that out of my partner. I need someone who doesn't care that I can't stop on my inline skates and understands that I would die before hitting the ground if I tried to jump out of an airplane. I need someone who is ok with the fact that flinging myself off the side of a mountain on skis is not my idea of a good time. If you like to play golf on Saturday and leave me to do my thing than you might just be my man. i have a niece and nephew that I adore. They live an hour away but I still make it to most of their games, etc. My nephews coach even mistook me for his mom since I am always there cheering him on. This past year I was Team Mom for his baseball team.I would like to meet a guy who really knows what he is looking for. Someone who is nice and down to earth. The guy who like me wants to be in a relationship but just hasn't found the right person. Just dinner and conversation.

  • Tu

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a successful professional single Mom with a great career and family. I love playing Ice Hockey and Golf, spending time with my two kids, going to the movies and doing anything outdoors when the weather is beautiful. I am looking for someone to share my life with that will also enjoy spending time as a family.

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