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Ellen, 47

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About Me

I’m a fairly easy going, romantic who is looking to have some fun. I’m a firm believer in living life to the fullest and cherish every moment on this big blue planet of ours. Life’s too short not to enjoy every minute whether it is good, bad, sweet or naughty. ;-) I have lots of interests, including music, (rock, jazz, pop, blues, some country, etc.) arts, theatre, traveling, and much more. If you want to know more about me, just ask. I’m looking for someone who can be exciting and spontaneous but also someone who enjoys just hanging out at home enjoying conversation, good food, a couple of adult beverages, and just hanging out enjoying each other’s company. If you think we have enough in common, drop me a line and we can see where things go. Fair is Fair….I only reply to those that have a photo.After being on here for a couple of weeks now and receiving lots of notes (and I thank you all for sending them), I feel the need to post a short update. While I'm sure this will sound a little vain and slightly *b***y, I want to be perfectly clear on what I'm looking for (sorry to be so blunt, but that's just me and how I roll..if you don't like it, thank you for reading and pass me by).Gentlemen....what is it with the sun glasses in the photos, or even photos that are 30 feet away...When you post a picture of yourself that is 30 feet away and your a tiny speck or only post a picture of yourself with sun glasses on, it makes me think that your hiding something and not wanting to show your true self. After all "Eyes are the Windows of the Soul". I would prefer to see pictures of you doing something fun with your friends and family, and a couple of close ups of your face, rather than a self portrait that is blurry, out of focus and could possibly be 10 year old picture (admit it, some of these blurry images are scans of old pictures of you 30 pounds lighter and 15 years younger) LOL! I will admit that there are some women on this site that are guilty of posting the same kind of pictures. Just to be clear, all of my pictures are current. :-)If I had to pick a "type" I tend to be drawn to the creative, artistic, adventurous, rock n roll bad boy with a passionate and soft heart. Not into sports (although I do like watching an occasional Titan's game). NASCAR and NHRA fans just need to pass me by. I love movies, love live theatre and music. I hope you enjoyed your swim around the pond and liked my profile. Some place casual with good food (I love sushi)that's got a great atmosphere, but not too loud, so we can just hang out and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lilita

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    About me...? Well, "What you see is what you get" is what those in the know would say in answer to that question. And that would be very true. I'm just authentically me. No games. No drama. No hidden agenda. No negativity... All of which seem to be everyone's concern today, mine included. Just a happy, fun-loving, grateful and compassionate person who tries to encourage the same in the people around me. My life so far, has taken me to some of the highest highs and some of the lowest lows, making it very easy to know what gives life meaning and depth, which, despite what many think, is not the latest gadget from Apple or Microsoft...cool as they may be.; a tent under a million stars or a 5-star hotel; taking a spa day or cheering at a Sens game; out in a crowd or at home snuggling with you on the couch. Wearing a little black dress and killer heels, a business suit and conservative pumps, jeans and work boots, tights and runners - depending upon what environment people meet me in, they tend to put me in a box. But these are all me. I really can't think of very many things that I don't like to do (or at least wouldn't try). I'm genuinely happy to be anywhere and will have a good time while I'm there. It may be cliche to say, but it truly is who you're with and your own personal attitude that matter. With those two things in check, the produce section at the grocery store can be the most romantic place on earth. You're pretty much as happy as you decide you're going to be, I think.I'm often told by people that they feel good just being around me, or that they feel better about a particular problem that they've got after having talked to me about it. I think that's such a great compliment! I care an awful lot about everyone and everything, I work hard, I laugh harder and I love harder than that. And, I'd like to share all of those "me's" I mentioned above with someone. Someone who will also just be themselves. I'll meet you where you are in life and we'll figure it out from there. As for you...well, I don't have a cookie cutter recipe for what I'm looking for...I've never been the girl with the checklist. I only know how I want to feel when I'm with you...and I can't describe that either. In fact, I think that to try and put it into words would diminish it somehow. I'll just know it when I feel it. I can tell you that I'm at a really good place in my life and don't come from a place of 'need', but one of 'want' of a relationship, with someone that adds to my life and me to theirs. I can also tell you that, of course, I want a person with integrity...dishonesty in all its forms is a deal breaker for me. Isn't it for everyone? (However, like all women, telling me my butt doesn't look big in my jeans is okay. :) But don't worry, I'll never put you in that position by asking the question in the first place.) I'm looking for someone who's emotionally generous, loves to both give and receive affection, is kind to others and understands that being happy is much better than being right. And they should have, or at least enjoy, a good sense of humor, as I love to laugh. I hope to make them laugh too. I'm an awfully simple girl really.....maybe not bacon - Ouch!), if plans get ruined, be spontaneous with me *** sulking, always opt for the ugly truth over a pretty lie, be kind, be tender, be grateful, accept those things in return...and I'm yours.This is such a huge leap of faith for me and certainly out of my comfort zone. But, life shrinks or expands in proportion to your courage, so proportionately, I look forward to seeing where this takes me. Life really is so short and I want to do the best I can while I'm here.Oh...and one last thing: If you've read all the way to this sentence, thanks for sticking with me! :) I don't think that there's a perfect first date...the two people involved is what makes it "perfect". That said, the point of a first date, to me anyway, is to see what, if anything, lies between us to warrant a second one. And so, meeting each other for the first time in a quieter place that lets us talk and get to know each other better to figure that out is always a great thing...a walk along the canal; a glass of wine at a quiet bar; dinner at a small restaurant...you get the picture. Having said all of this, I'm a very laid back chick, and so if you suggest bowling, or horseback riding, or a Sens game, or....I'm probably game. Let's decide together and also decide that no matter how it turns out, it'll be time well spent.

  • Jennette

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I find it hard to describe myself. But I guess the most important thing to know is my family and friends are very important to me and I guard those relationships. I am honest and loyal and as my friends would say.... sometimes to a fault. I like to see the best in everyone and always sure the right decision will be made....not always the case. But won't give up on believing the best in people....just raised that way. Sure that has something to do with my beliefs and great parents. I have lived the country and big city life and the country life wins. Something about people waving to each other and always sharing a smile. That’s the thing I love when I go home.I love to go out dancing and enjoy all types of music but country is my favorite especially cheek to cheek. I like to cook and discover new things to make. Would love to find a partner that wouldn't mind cooking with me in the kitchen and maybe take a few spins around the island if the right song came on. I can be silly and love to laugh but very serious when it’s needed. I am the one who will do cartwheels in the front yard just to see if I still can. Love dogs and mine is spoiled rotten so if you are not a dog lover …need not apply…..lol. I am a hopeless romantic and do believe you can love someone at 80 as you did when you first met. Yes "The Notebook" every woman’s dream. It’s the little things in a relationship like holding hands, a kiss on the cheek, a hug for no reason that will always mean more than any one big thing. Little pieces of romance everyday.I love a little banter here and there so you have to be able to hold your own...we are both sure to laugh. I have a very out going personality and quick wit...so if your shy and quiet don't think we will be a match. But hey….they say opposites attract. Not into golf but I have no problem racing the golf cart.....hey life is too short....race the darn cart!!!! Enjoy going to the gym and would love a work out partner. I love food and need someone to keep me on track and of course getting off track with me. I make a mean peach cobbler!!!....I am ready to find my special someone. As they say...the one who completes me...the one that makes my heart smile and who can talk to me without saying a word. We all deserve love and the one who makes everyday brighter. Good luck in your search and never give up....your special someone is out there..... My first date I would like to be casual. dinner and drinks filled with lots of conversation and laughs. Just taking the time to get to know eachother and enjoying the moment.

  • Fanny

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a Christian gal looking for Christian guy, or at least a believer. I recently went on a date with a very nice man. While out, as we discussed our likes of music and beliefs. I realized in order for me to have the long term relationship I am looking for, they have to have the same faith!I am Blonde, Blue eyed, 47 and full figured. I have 3 kids, all grown. I am very close to my adult children. I read a lot. I love to swim in my pool. I am not a judgmental person. I love kids!I am an animal lover with a golden retriever & a mixed mini dog. I have cats that live here too. I recently began living Gluten free, and I am reaping the rewards of the switch. However, I have many friends and family who eat normally around me. This is my choice, I am not trying to convert anyone's diet.I listen to Country music, Christian, old soft rock, Classical and pop, not punk and NOT RAP!My biggest hobby is reading. I love to read some Para-Normal and Regency Historical. I love the outdoors. I like to camp sometimes, and go boating. I love seeing Art. I love kids and would have been happy to have had more. I have 3 grown kids. 1 professional golfer. 1 professional artist, and 1 nurse. I have been divorced since ***. I didn't try to find someone to share my life with when my kids were home because of all the drama bull with my ex. But now that they are all gone, I want to share my life with someone who is looking for the same! Don't select the "meet me" because I won't even look. If you are interested, *** we can talk.I want to find someone to share time and my life with. Meet in a public place to visit & see if we want to date?

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