SIMILAR PEOPLE
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LilitaOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
About me...? Well, "What you see is what you get" is what those in the know would say in answer to that question. And that would be very true. I'm just authentically me. No games. No drama. No hidden agenda. No negativity... All of which seem to be everyone's concern today, mine included. Just a happy, fun-loving, grateful and compassionate person who tries to encourage the same in the people around me. My life so far, has taken me to some of the highest highs and some of the lowest lows, making it very easy to know what gives life meaning and depth, which, despite what many think, is not the latest gadget from Apple or Microsoft...cool as they may be.; a tent under a million stars or a 5-star hotel; taking a spa day or cheering at a Sens game; out in a crowd or at home snuggling with you on the couch. Wearing a little black dress and killer heels, a business suit and conservative pumps, jeans and work boots, tights and runners - depending upon what environment people meet me in, they tend to put me in a box. But these are all me. I really can't think of very many things that I don't like to do (or at least wouldn't try). I'm genuinely happy to be anywhere and will have a good time while I'm there. It may be cliche to say, but it truly is who you're with and your own personal attitude that matter. With those two things in check, the produce section at the grocery store can be the most romantic place on earth. You're pretty much as happy as you decide you're going to be, I think.I'm often told by people that they feel good just being around me, or that they feel better about a particular problem that they've got after having talked to me about it. I think that's such a great compliment! I care an awful lot about everyone and everything, I work hard, I laugh harder and I love harder than that. And, I'd like to share all of those "me's" I mentioned above with someone. Someone who will also just be themselves. I'll meet you where you are in life and we'll figure it out from there. As for you...well, I don't have a cookie cutter recipe for what I'm looking for...I've never been the girl with the checklist. I only know how I want to feel when I'm with you...and I can't describe that either. In fact, I think that to try and put it into words would diminish it somehow. I'll just know it when I feel it. I can tell you that I'm at a really good place in my life and don't come from a place of 'need', but one of 'want' of a relationship, with someone that adds to my life and me to theirs. I can also tell you that, of course, I want a person with integrity...dishonesty in all its forms is a deal breaker for me. Isn't it for everyone? (However, like all women, telling me my butt doesn't look big in my jeans is okay. :) But don't worry, I'll never put you in that position by asking the question in the first place.) I'm looking for someone who's emotionally generous, loves to both give and receive affection, is kind to others and understands that being happy is much better than being right. And they should have, or at least enjoy, a good sense of humor, as I love to laugh. I hope to make them laugh too. I'm an awfully simple girl really.....maybe not bacon - Ouch!), if plans get ruined, be spontaneous with me *** sulking, always opt for the ugly truth over a pretty lie, be kind, be tender, be grateful, accept those things in return...and I'm yours.This is such a huge leap of faith for me and certainly out of my comfort zone. But, life shrinks or expands in proportion to your courage, so proportionately, I look forward to seeing where this takes me. Life really is so short and I want to do the best I can while I'm here.Oh...and one last thing: If you've read all the way to this sentence, thanks for sticking with me! :) I don't think that there's a perfect first date...the two people involved is what makes it "perfect". That said, the point of a first date, to me anyway, is to see what, if anything, lies between us to warrant a second one. And so, meeting each other for the first time in a quieter place that lets us talk and get to know each other better to figure that out is always a great thing...a walk along the canal; a glass of wine at a quiet bar; dinner at a small restaurant...you get the picture. Having said all of this, I'm a very laid back chick, and so if you suggest bowling, or horseback riding, or a Sens game, or....I'm probably game. Let's decide together and also decide that no matter how it turns out, it'll be time well spent.
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StephOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I like traveling and visiting new places. I like nature, like to hike and explore , etc. I not a major camper but do enjoy being outdoors. I love going to the movies, out to eat, and good conversation. I like to meet new people and consider myself a people person. People watching can be fun too. I am patriotic but not real political. I enjoy athletic events spectating and participating in some. I really like walking outdoors and staying fit. I am a small town girl with values. I live in the country where it is quiet and enjoy that, but I did enjoy living in a big city too. My children and family are very important to my life. Volunteering is something I enjoy and I love helping people, surprising them, etc. I like to read, cook, play board games, learn new things and explore, and listen to music(most kinds). I like computers but are not the best at working on them. I am learning though. I love to travel but have not gotten to do a lot of that lately. I work more than one job so do not have lots of time but I like to stay busy. I love the elderly and work with them for my part time job . I work for the local Area Department of Aging teaching them exercise classes and getting people to volunteer for them. I do a lot of public speaking too. I am also a teacher for my full time job, so it is good that I love kids! I work with middle school students mainly teaching English and Math. IBesides loving other people's children, I have two wonderful sons, ages 16 and 24, of my own. Both sons have always been busy and active too. I do not have much time left of being taxi mom and sports/activities mom. I am finding myself with more time for socializing than I used to have. Though it is one of the toughest jobs that I know of , I love being a mom. I enjoy making new friends and dating. I would definitely be interested in a long term relationship with the right person. You can ask me anything, and I will be honest.. I feel that is necessary in any good relationship. I am also trustworthy, compassionate, loving, giving, caring, and good-hearted. Laughing and talking together to get to know someone is important. I believe that having a good sense of humor and being able to laugh at oneself is important too. I believe there needs to be some spark or chemistry for things to develop beyond a friendship. The physical attraction has to be there as well. Beauty is on the inside and the outside both, and what is beautiful to one is not necessarily beautiful to another. I am up for just about anything but I think that someplace loud is not the best for the initial meeting unless you plan for someplace quiet later in the date. I have had a lot of fun activity dates too. Just warn me what to wear. LOL
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GuillerminaOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Im a single woman lookin for a friend Iove out doors swim fishing I. Also like watchin movies cuddle together I listen to variety of music very easy get along with