SIMILAR PEOPLE
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LilitaOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
About me...? Well, "What you see is what you get" is what those in the know would say in answer to that question. And that would be very true. I'm just authentically me. No games. No drama. No hidden agenda. No negativity... All of which seem to be everyone's concern today, mine included. Just a happy, fun-loving, grateful and compassionate person who tries to encourage the same in the people around me. My life so far, has taken me to some of the highest highs and some of the lowest lows, making it very easy to know what gives life meaning and depth, which, despite what many think, is not the latest gadget from Apple or Microsoft...cool as they may be.; a tent under a million stars or a 5-star hotel; taking a spa day or cheering at a Sens game; out in a crowd or at home snuggling with you on the couch. Wearing a little black dress and killer heels, a business suit and conservative pumps, jeans and work boots, tights and runners - depending upon what environment people meet me in, they tend to put me in a box. But these are all me. I really can't think of very many things that I don't like to do (or at least wouldn't try). I'm genuinely happy to be anywhere and will have a good time while I'm there. It may be cliche to say, but it truly is who you're with and your own personal attitude that matter. With those two things in check, the produce section at the grocery store can be the most romantic place on earth. You're pretty much as happy as you decide you're going to be, I think.I'm often told by people that they feel good just being around me, or that they feel better about a particular problem that they've got after having talked to me about it. I think that's such a great compliment! I care an awful lot about everyone and everything, I work hard, I laugh harder and I love harder than that. And, I'd like to share all of those "me's" I mentioned above with someone. Someone who will also just be themselves. I'll meet you where you are in life and we'll figure it out from there. As for you...well, I don't have a cookie cutter recipe for what I'm looking for...I've never been the girl with the checklist. I only know how I want to feel when I'm with you...and I can't describe that either. In fact, I think that to try and put it into words would diminish it somehow. I'll just know it when I feel it. I can tell you that I'm at a really good place in my life and don't come from a place of 'need', but one of 'want' of a relationship, with someone that adds to my life and me to theirs. I can also tell you that, of course, I want a person with integrity...dishonesty in all its forms is a deal breaker for me. Isn't it for everyone? (However, like all women, telling me my butt doesn't look big in my jeans is okay. :) But don't worry, I'll never put you in that position by asking the question in the first place.) I'm looking for someone who's emotionally generous, loves to both give and receive affection, is kind to others and understands that being happy is much better than being right. And they should have, or at least enjoy, a good sense of humor, as I love to laugh. I hope to make them laugh too. I'm an awfully simple girl really.....maybe not bacon - Ouch!), if plans get ruined, be spontaneous with me *** sulking, always opt for the ugly truth over a pretty lie, be kind, be tender, be grateful, accept those things in return...and I'm yours.This is such a huge leap of faith for me and certainly out of my comfort zone. But, life shrinks or expands in proportion to your courage, so proportionately, I look forward to seeing where this takes me. Life really is so short and I want to do the best I can while I'm here.Oh...and one last thing: If you've read all the way to this sentence, thanks for sticking with me! :) I don't think that there's a perfect first date...the two people involved is what makes it "perfect". That said, the point of a first date, to me anyway, is to see what, if anything, lies between us to warrant a second one. And so, meeting each other for the first time in a quieter place that lets us talk and get to know each other better to figure that out is always a great thing...a walk along the canal; a glass of wine at a quiet bar; dinner at a small restaurant...you get the picture. Having said all of this, I'm a very laid back chick, and so if you suggest bowling, or horseback riding, or a Sens game, or....I'm probably game. Let's decide together and also decide that no matter how it turns out, it'll be time well spent.
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NorineOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Hello... Ok, here's the good stuff - I'm Fun, kind and a bit sassy yet polite (oxymoron?). Self deprecating humor - ahh did I just say I laugh at myself? sometimes I get a little feisty and may laugh at you! I'd rather be outdoors participating in life and activities vs TV sports. Like the excitement of an occasional live game. I'm fun, flexible (okay stay focused :-)! Outgoing, outspoken (in a cute way) yet kind and compassionate. I love the outdoors. Mountains, hikes, lakes, beach, etc. nothing like a camp fire/camping - i can be the uptown girl with a fine hotel/B&B. Love exploring new people, places and things - I've tackled life's hurdles and have humbled along the way. With the right person I'm playful, fun and funny. Responsible, homeowner, financially stable. I believe if you know your strengths and weaknesses that's a great start to staying connected. I'm introspective and enjoy conversations as such . My downtime is tv and reading. Superficial intimacy is not my thing but with the right person I'm warm and affectionate. I connect with men who can carry a conversation, ask questions, play together/stay together and sometimes do nothing and silence together -- am open to new interests. Someone with similar morals and values - Whew, there's much more so write and find out! Few side notes.. I'm a morning person vs a night owl and rarely drink - the hangovers kill my next day! Summer vs winter and hope to move to a warmer climate some day. p.s.please have a photo for a response. . OK, don't hate me - I am ***photos are accurate. If we met,other than online, I don't think age would be a deterrent. Enough said on that - your choice Casual for first meeting - first date - we'll figure it out :-)
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ViOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Well I have did it I reached that big 50 mark but still 21 at heart been 21 since I was 21. lol . I Am mother of 3 boys and a grandmother of 5. I love spending time with my grand kids. I have 1 son who lives up there still and 2 grand kids which I do enjoy going up there and spending time with them when I can. I'm pretty much a home body and like to keep to myself for the most part.I enjoy all kinds of music from the 60's on up . I'm looking for either friends that may lead into more. I'm honest and am looking for the same thing in a guy. I am also a one man woman and would like a one woman man don't need no players .I'm not into head games PS If you are out for spooning, snuggling,cuddling, or anything more on the first date then *** profile also if you are under the age of 38 please *** profile. I'm pretty much spontaneous so it all depends on the moment more of a meet and greet out for a drink or lunch or just some where quiet so we can talk and get to know one an other.