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Alecia, 49

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About Me

Hi, I am very crafty and a bit artsy, I am in the health care field and I love my work.I am very sensitive and even emotional at times but it makes me very good at what I do.I love many different types of music but not rap and country only in small doses.I have been separated for over a year after 15 years and will be divorced soon. I have dated a bit and enjoy it on some level but eventually I would like to find someone special. I have 50% custody of our youngest son ( the only one at home now) so I find myself with free time and where as I love going out to eat and movies and love trying new things I also love just hanging at home watching movies or whatever.I'm looking for someone who is ok with kids although my youngest is 13 so no little ones. I'm ok if he has kids and would consider that a bonus. I want someone who is kind and honest as I always try to be and I don't like games. I'm a bit old school about dating meaning you make a date you keep a date and you expect it to be a chance to get to know someone and that's it, the rest must come naturally.I am not perfect and I am not looking for someone perfect. I work hard and I exercise as often as I can, I am pretty careful about what I eat but just like many middle aged people I battle with some excess weight. I have been told that I am very sweet and I am a good cook, I enjoy doing nice things for the people I care about. Coffee or a drink fallowed by a walk if its going well, I find it a really nice way to get to know somebody.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lilita

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    About me...? Well, "What you see is what you get" is what those in the know would say in answer to that question. And that would be very true. I'm just authentically me. No games. No drama. No hidden agenda. No negativity... All of which seem to be everyone's concern today, mine included. Just a happy, fun-loving, grateful and compassionate person who tries to encourage the same in the people around me. My life so far, has taken me to some of the highest highs and some of the lowest lows, making it very easy to know what gives life meaning and depth, which, despite what many think, is not the latest gadget from Apple or Microsoft...cool as they may be.; a tent under a million stars or a 5-star hotel; taking a spa day or cheering at a Sens game; out in a crowd or at home snuggling with you on the couch. Wearing a little black dress and killer heels, a business suit and conservative pumps, jeans and work boots, tights and runners - depending upon what environment people meet me in, they tend to put me in a box. But these are all me. I really can't think of very many things that I don't like to do (or at least wouldn't try). I'm genuinely happy to be anywhere and will have a good time while I'm there. It may be cliche to say, but it truly is who you're with and your own personal attitude that matter. With those two things in check, the produce section at the grocery store can be the most romantic place on earth. You're pretty much as happy as you decide you're going to be, I think.I'm often told by people that they feel good just being around me, or that they feel better about a particular problem that they've got after having talked to me about it. I think that's such a great compliment! I care an awful lot about everyone and everything, I work hard, I laugh harder and I love harder than that. And, I'd like to share all of those "me's" I mentioned above with someone. Someone who will also just be themselves. I'll meet you where you are in life and we'll figure it out from there. As for you...well, I don't have a cookie cutter recipe for what I'm looking for...I've never been the girl with the checklist. I only know how I want to feel when I'm with you...and I can't describe that either. In fact, I think that to try and put it into words would diminish it somehow. I'll just know it when I feel it. I can tell you that I'm at a really good place in my life and don't come from a place of 'need', but one of 'want' of a relationship, with someone that adds to my life and me to theirs. I can also tell you that, of course, I want a person with integrity...dishonesty in all its forms is a deal breaker for me. Isn't it for everyone? (However, like all women, telling me my butt doesn't look big in my jeans is okay. :) But don't worry, I'll never put you in that position by asking the question in the first place.) I'm looking for someone who's emotionally generous, loves to both give and receive affection, is kind to others and understands that being happy is much better than being right. And they should have, or at least enjoy, a good sense of humor, as I love to laugh. I hope to make them laugh too. I'm an awfully simple girl really.....maybe not bacon - Ouch!), if plans get ruined, be spontaneous with me *** sulking, always opt for the ugly truth over a pretty lie, be kind, be tender, be grateful, accept those things in return...and I'm yours.This is such a huge leap of faith for me and certainly out of my comfort zone. But, life shrinks or expands in proportion to your courage, so proportionately, I look forward to seeing where this takes me. Life really is so short and I want to do the best I can while I'm here.Oh...and one last thing: If you've read all the way to this sentence, thanks for sticking with me! :) I don't think that there's a perfect first date...the two people involved is what makes it "perfect". That said, the point of a first date, to me anyway, is to see what, if anything, lies between us to warrant a second one. And so, meeting each other for the first time in a quieter place that lets us talk and get to know each other better to figure that out is always a great thing...a walk along the canal; a glass of wine at a quiet bar; dinner at a small restaurant...you get the picture. Having said all of this, I'm a very laid back chick, and so if you suggest bowling, or horseback riding, or a Sens game, or....I'm probably game. Let's decide together and also decide that no matter how it turns out, it'll be time well spent.

  • Urbana

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hobbies - camping , fishing , enjoying the great outdoors ! Don't have a bike " but " Love to ride ! Looking for someone to finish this journey with I like old and new rock , blues and jazz { pretty much open } as long as its good !I'm unique - I'm not fake and I keep it real with a BIG heart and beautiful eyes to the soul !

  • Abbigayle

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello. Thanks for taking time to check out my profile. I am ready to find that ONE special person that can be my best friend first. I'm not sure it matters what I type here, you'll most likely look at my photo and age and base youre decision on that. So I will keep it short.I am not interested in dating a different person every night. I'm not a bar fly, so if you hang out in one frequently, keep looking. The guy that interests me, can support himself financially. I prefer the 'DIY ' type that can do repairs himself. Once we decide to meet, we can discuss this....

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