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Shemeka, 47

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About Me

It has taken me alot of thought as to what my personal message should say to all of you, so I decided to make it something positive for everyone. My thoughts are about life's changes. God knows I have been through alot of them this past year and I'm positive some of you have to. These are my personal thoughts and I will try to keep it short cause I hate to read a really long message. This relates to all aspects of life, relationships, work, etc...* Let go and trust what lays ahead of you, even when you have no idea what it is.* Think about what you can gain from change *** what you are losing.* What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine.* Fear you let build up in your mind is usually worse than the situation itself.* Think about what can go right *** what can go wrong.* When you change what you believe, you can change what you can do.* Don't over analyze or complicate things. I know I am my own #1 stresser.And finally, live life to the best of your ability and please don't forget to be happy and smile. Life is to short as it is and tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Have a most wonderful day today and everyday.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Miguelina

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    ...and thank goodness for that, maybe I'll get it right someday, lol ;)I am seeking a man who understands the meaning of taking things slowly...an old-fashioned getting to know someone's mind intimately and deliberately type of courtship. The best things in life cannot be rushed and I believe this is the mistake I have made too many times in the past. Honesty, patience, and baby steps are what's needed to make a relationship grow. Please be non-judgemental and genuine, quick with a smile and a deep laugh, great sense of humor, warm and sincere, kind to others, with a touch of romance in your soul. I am a witty and very down to earth and open minded woman who is passionate about people and things that matter to me. I love to laugh, be silly, sassy, sensuous and yet I know when to be deep and introspective. I am a curvy and voluptuous plus-size girl, so if you cannot appreciate that or its not your cup of tea, that's fine - I am who I am. I say what I mean and mean what I say and I am fiercely loyal to those who are important to me. I am a bit of an introvert and more of a homebody, so you won't find me hanging out in bars...I like nothing more than cooking in with someone special, talking about our day over a glass of wine or ice cold beer, then snuggling on the couch to watch a movie or t.v. and just chill out...If you can cook a mean steak on the grill, me love you long time, lol ;) . I love being outside at night by a fire pit, bundled up in a blanket with a glass of wine and talking and laughing with someone special...the little things in life and endearing moments are the best :) I love to converse on many topics and learn as much as I can from another...I am a work in progress and always willing to grow as a person. We all have our stories to tell...let's share and get to know one another.Please live in VB area only.. And just because I don't have children and have never been married doesn't mean I can't appreciate the role of a good and loving father...your kids come first and that's how it should be and I'm very cool with that. I also adore animals, so if you have pets, that's awesome. Thanks for reading....if you feel we have some things in common, please write and say hello :)

  • Helena

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Living happily ever after, with my 23 cats - just kidding about the cats, but I do have several other animals that I live with. Independent, optimistic, hard working and thankful.No interest in marriage. Just looking for a cute, fun guy in the neighborhood to have some laughs with. Meet and greet

  • Ellen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I’m a fairly easy going, romantic who is looking to have some fun. I’m a firm believer in living life to the fullest and cherish every moment on this big blue planet of ours. Life’s too short not to enjoy every minute whether it is good, bad, sweet or naughty. ;-) I have lots of interests, including music, (rock, jazz, pop, blues, some country, etc.) arts, theatre, traveling, and much more. If you want to know more about me, just ask. I’m looking for someone who can be exciting and spontaneous but also someone who enjoys just hanging out at home enjoying conversation, good food, a couple of adult beverages, and just hanging out enjoying each other’s company. If you think we have enough in common, drop me a line and we can see where things go. Fair is Fair….I only reply to those that have a photo.After being on here for a couple of weeks now and receiving lots of notes (and I thank you all for sending them), I feel the need to post a short update. While I'm sure this will sound a little vain and slightly *b***y, I want to be perfectly clear on what I'm looking for (sorry to be so blunt, but that's just me and how I roll..if you don't like it, thank you for reading and pass me by).Gentlemen....what is it with the sun glasses in the photos, or even photos that are 30 feet away...When you post a picture of yourself that is 30 feet away and your a tiny speck or only post a picture of yourself with sun glasses on, it makes me think that your hiding something and not wanting to show your true self. After all "Eyes are the Windows of the Soul". I would prefer to see pictures of you doing something fun with your friends and family, and a couple of close ups of your face, rather than a self portrait that is blurry, out of focus and could possibly be 10 year old picture (admit it, some of these blurry images are scans of old pictures of you 30 pounds lighter and 15 years younger) LOL! I will admit that there are some women on this site that are guilty of posting the same kind of pictures. Just to be clear, all of my pictures are current. :-)If I had to pick a "type" I tend to be drawn to the creative, artistic, adventurous, rock n roll bad boy with a passionate and soft heart. Not into sports (although I do like watching an occasional Titan's game). NASCAR and NHRA fans just need to pass me by. I love movies, love live theatre and music. I hope you enjoyed your swim around the pond and liked my profile. Some place casual with good food (I love sushi)that's got a great atmosphere, but not too loud, so we can just hang out and get to know each other.

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