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Shila, 48

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About Me

Hi! I am a very secure, independent woman. love has taken me through the ringer a few times but was a good learning experience (hahaha, what doesnt kill you makes you stronger?). I have a great job that I love to get up and go to in the mornings. My kids are for the most part grown. The youngest is 18. there are 3 of them 27, 23 and 18. We are very close and they are my favorite people to hang out with. I like to camp, kayak, watch thunderstorms, create new things in the kitchen, go for sunday drives or an over nite get-away,work in the yard... I have been single for several years now and would like to start sharing things with someone special again. I dont need a man, but want that again in my life (there's a difference). Not much into the bar sceane..well i like to go out dancing and kickin it up now and then...but not really into meeting someone at a bar (ben there, done that..learning experience #2). I am easy to get along with, sincere,honest,funny, kind of wild once in awhile, but i say what i mean and mean what I say. I dont like drama or games and try to live peacefully. I work with horses so most of the time I come home after work pretty dirty. So if your looking for the 'secretary type" lady that wears heels to work, I'm probably not for you. However i do clean up mighty fine :) I like all kinds of music except rap and really heavy metal. My guy would be honest, compassionate,and have a soft spot for helping kids less fortunate then others might be (not my kids! they are self supportive and doing well). He would be comfortable lending a hand at the barn or dressing up and going somewhere fancy. If he has kids he would still be doing his part raising them (cant tolerate a man that tries to avoid child support). He would be comfortable chillin at the house as well as dancing the night away..and he may just own a cowboy hat :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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