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Candie, 50

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About Me

I am an animal lover who is sensitive and caring. I am interested in meeting someone real who shares my interests and who is genuine and kind. I love live music whether it be classic rock, metal, grunge, country and alt country, Celtic, there just is not much I cannot embrace. What makes me unique? IDK, I am spiritual but not religious. I am older and slower than I used to be. I've worked hard all of my life and I cherish those that I love! I am cautious and private for the most part and choose my people very carefully. I was married 11 years and I have three grown children, the youngest of whom will continue to live with me until she receives her credential. I am an animal lover so I have pets and I have some ailments that lay me up on occasion so I am not capable of a lot of jet setting all over the place unfortunately. I am a homebody during the week unless I have a concert to go to which happens often. I do not dance unless I am led in a slow, sweet song which quite frankly "never happens"! I think I am funny in a corny and sometime inappropriate way, I love to laugh so whatever works! I am liberal in my convictions and doubt very seriously I could consider the conservative choice in a mate, who am I kidding it will never work gentlemen! I prefer a tall man because I'm 5' 8" and full figured therefore a man of larger stature enables me to feel dainty although I did have a boyfriend once who was 5' ***" and we are still on good terms to this day. I hope to find a laid back happy man who can love me unconditionally. A man who shares my political views and who will not impose his religion upon me because I have no use for it. I enjoy simple pleasures and I consider myself to be very low drama, I have no desire for emotional upheaval. It has been five years since I have considered attempting love again and still have not quite convinced myself I am ready but I hope to be when the right man comes along. I am not a gold digger and I much prefer blue jeans over stiletto's. I am plain and simple and unpretentious and I sincerely hope I will find my soul mate once our planets have aligned! Meeting a person for the first time should be a natural experience so a comfortable setting, like maybe meeting for a breakfast and simple conversation over coffee is nice or maybe meeting for a drink after work to see how it all goes. If it all goes well the sky is the limit, if not we can part company as friends.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maribeth

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Thanks for checking out my profile! FYI - Thanks for the winks and ***, but as stated in my preferences I date black men exclusively.....no insult, just a preference...it's a cultural thing. Good luck to everyone and thanks for the interest :) Now that the kids have moved on I am ready for the next phase! I am looking for a best friend, companion and lover. This may be a little too ambitious an expectation for online..... I have always wanted to live there and now I have the chance! I realize I am a little far out for most so am willing to do the driving until I move. About me...where to start? I am very grounded and down to earth.....superficial would never be a word used to describe me! I am very loyal and painfully honest and appreciate the same in others. I am in to trying anything once and have an adventurous spirit (maybe not skydiving ;) I love being active and out doors and even though you may not be able to see it through the makeup and heels...I am a tomboy at heart. I would much rather go to the batting cages or throw a football around than go shopping! I am a guys girl....meaning, I like guys and guy stuff better but I am religious with the hair and nail appointments. I love to learn and have a 5 year old's curiosity.....so I love books. I am not an intellectual snob however and appreciate street smarts as much as book smarts :) Now for the disclaimers! This is intended to be tongue in cheek so take it with a grain of salt. You can't imagine some of the guys on this site...or maybe you can since you have probably experienced some of the same things with the women :) We are not a match if: 1. You cannot say more than three sentences on the phone. 2. You are not open and emotionally accessible 3. You are judgmental and critical 4. You like to argue, yell and fight (We are adults...discussion works better if everyone is respectful) 5. You are not affectionate or PDA's bother you (I am very affectionate) 6. You are content to play the field 7. You are looking for another notch on your bedpost or are just looking for "Fun" 8. You don't like intellectual conversation 9. You are self absorbed- It's always been about you, you have always done what you wanted, when you wanted, how you wanted 10. You are not ready for a relationship 11. You are sedentary and don't stay in shape 12. If I am not really your type...too small, too big, too pale, too old, too young.....and are just biding your time until your type comes along.To sum up, I am looking for a man I can love, care about, take care of and spoil rotten. It takes a special guy to earn my trust and respect, and he must be willing to give back... but if he is....I will cater to his every need and desire.

  • Bess

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am single. I have 2 grown adult children and i have my wonderful 9yr old daughter. I'm fun, loving , relaxed and like good company around me:). There are alot of good qualities to me inside and out personality wise and as a human being.I'm new to this and the dating world again so im looking forward to wonderful moments and even greater possibilities. Im open

  • Aislin

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm at that point of my life where I'm ready to begin my" life "I'm a single mom of 5 children and the last one goes off to college next month.I've been single by choice for 13 years now. I've worked ***jobs last ***years to make sure my children didn't go without. I'm at peace with where I am spiritually and ready to start my next adventure. I am looking forward to spending time with that certain someone that's easy to talk to. Laugh with. Dance with and also say nothing at all at times . I'm not staying in OC and still undecided as to where I'm going to end up in the very near future. Hoping for a twist of fate to help me choose. But wouldn't want to live there. After living at the beach for so many years and owning a boat I can't imagine being anywhere not by the water!!!!I love cooking!!! Whether it's for a large group of people for a party (love to entertain ) or just dinner for 2 , of course great food should be accompanied by a great bottle of wine. ;)I'm looking forward to the holidays with all the decorations and baking and festive music ! And let's not forget all those Hallmark movies!! LolAnd yes , looking forward to meeting someone to spend the holidays with and many more after that.Dressing up!! Going out for dinner, dancing and friends!! Or sweats and a blanket, a great movie and cup of hot chocolate . I'm good with either.Thanks for taking time to read about me. I've left a lot out but when I find the certain someone I'm looking for ~~~I'll fill in the rest as we begin our journey together 3 Unpredictable. Depends on the person.

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