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Shandra, 48

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About Me

I truly am a fun and light hearted person...yes, really! lol I just have to start with the faith match first. Other things outside of faith are negotiable.I am a Christian (I was raised Baptist). I am the school secretary at an elementary school. My son is 15 and is into longboard skateboarding, BMX bikes and the desert. I love with my whole heart. I mean what I say. I am an outgoing person, genuine, and honest. I am still a kid at heart. :)We are a family who shoots guns for entertainment purposes but I also have one for safety. I'm realizing guns offend some people, so I thought I'd include this so you are aware this is part of our lives.I am looking forward to hearing from a good man who's ready to be in a daily relationship, not just when we are in person.I'M LOOKING FOR...***Non-Smoker (yes, that includes cigars, hookah (unless 0 tobacco), pot, etc.***Love laughing, bbq's, friends, movies and relaxing together.I need my man to be walking with the Lord so I can respect him as the man he has stepped up to be. You are a man of strong (what would Jesus do?) godly morals and exercise them daily. I'm not looking for perfect....just perfect for me. lol Yes, I know this limits my dating choices. I enjoy meeting somewhere casual for coffee. It is not a big investment of time or money and allow us to put the face and personality with the profile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karlene

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I enjoy all types of music and dancing, blues (my favorite), classic rock, latin, country, reggae, & jazz. (OK maybe not rap & techno) I have an active group of friends and we go camping, snorkeling, & snow skiing. I enjoy the arts and the outdoors and am involved in my community. I am a very warm and responsive woman and would like to meet a man who is comfortable sharing his interests and desires.I appreciate a man who is intelligent, witty, and can express himself well. If you want to capture my attention an *** more than three words is a terrific way to start off.I'm am looking for a companion to spend my free time with, traveling and enjoying the local flavor. Its a plus if you enjoy live music and dancing is a passion, so if it's not your thing, you'd have to be ok with watching me & my girlfriends cut loose on the dance floor. LOL I enjoy hiking and anything to do with water, snow skiing, snorkeling (too chicken to Scuba, but maybe you could convince me), or going to the coast/mountains for a long weekend. I was raised to be a pretty frugal girl, but my weaknesses are good food & travel. I'll look for a great deal, but even without it, will brownbag my lunch for a couple of weeks to splurge on some primo paella. LOLIf a gentleman is ever to become more than a casual friend, he'll have to like children because I come with 3 sons ***is out on his own & the other 2 are nearly grown, but they all 3 will always be a major part of my life. Here is my list of FYI to help you to know if I'm worth a further investment of your time:-My photos are current - most around the last 30 days. -I never date a smoker cuz kissing is just way too big a deal to me-- I like touch and closeness and the two kinda go together- You need to have a healthy imagination, a passion for life, and enough sexual confidence to be able to discuss your tastes and desires without assuming they'll be immediately acted upon. Trust and communication are the cornerstones to a good love life in my opinion.Thanks for taking the time to read all the way to the end. If you liked what you saw, please drop me a line or two :) We could go for a walk, morning coffee at the bagel shop or bookstore, farmer's market, or a drink after work. A relaxed environment where we can have a conversation and get a good look at one another. LOL

  • Mozelle

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I like country music, old rock n roll and pop..I have a 10 year old who keeps me hip, enjoy going to concerts, movies, good food and hanging out with good friends & family. I also like staying in with a yummy chardonnay and a good movie. I love warm sunny days hanging out on the water, wearing flip flops and shorts listening to the oldies. I'm looking for an honest, loyal, fun loving, stable person to share the second half of life with and who is willing to have a family lifestyle. I have a 10 year old son who lives with me full time and is my priority...not that I wouldn't make time for that someone special. I'm a young 50 and I want to find someone special to start over with and make new memories... life is too short to do it alone. So if you're interested in someone with integrity, loyal, honest, and fun loving and loves to laugh then I'm your girl ...Don't waste your time and mine if all your interested in is a hook up...not interested! I'm a person with substance and wants thesame in return. Can't wait to meet my Mr.Right...are you out there? Nice conversation, glass of wine on a patio watching the sunset.

  • Celsa

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a fun loving, down to earth, hard working, WYSIWYG (What You See Is What You Get) kind of person. I am loyal, trustworthy and believe in the golden rule and I have the cursed "good personality". I know, that's the kiss of death!!! LOLI am looking for a fun loving, trustworthy, good hearted, hard working person out to have some FUN!! I enjoy doing just about anything creative, from cooking and baking to crafts, from painting to woodworking, and quilling to amateur photography. I love traveling, movies, concerts, festivals, sporting events, dancing amoung lots of other things. I enjoy music, just about anything, but for me mostly country and old and new rock (but Rap is NOT in the equasion) and I love to Karaoki (i'm a good singer, honest!!). I enjoy spending time with friends, going out or spending a quiet night at home. I love kids, but have none of my own. I have helped raise about a dozen of my friends kids and enjoy spending time with them. I find that kids have a great take on life sometimes, and they can be a lot of fun!! If you ask my friends and family about me, they will tell you that I am friendly, sometimes quiet at first, but it doesn't take me long to warm up to people. I am sometimes loud and I like to laugh. I am honest, caring, loyal and a great listener. I have many different interests, so I'm always open to doing different things. I am a talker, but I will not try to hog the conversation!!Currently I am looking for someone to have fun with, if nothing else, we can never have too many friends, but I'd like to be in a relationship again. I miss the closeness of being with someone you care about. If you're an alcoholic, are into head games, lying, cheating, drugs or violence, please pass me by. Life is way to short for that stuff!! Not that I don't enjoy having drinks at the local pub, a good happy hour or when we're with friends or relaxing by the pool!! But if its your "full time occupation" please stay on your bar stool. I like a man who has some manners, but has a little bit of the bad boy in him. I like a guy that is very comfortable in jeans, but that can also dress up and go to a play or a nice restaurant. If I sound appealing, please contact me and maybe we can meet and get to know one another. Promise, I will let you get a word in!! LOLOLOL A first date when just meeting the person would probably meet for drinks or coffee and just get to know one another. A first REAL date, would probably be dinner and a movie or dancing, taking a walk or watching a football game at a local hangout, basically getting to know one another and having some fun!!WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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