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Shandra, 48

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About Me

I truly am a fun and light hearted person...yes, really! lol I just have to start with the faith match first. Other things outside of faith are negotiable.I am a Christian (I was raised Baptist). I am the school secretary at an elementary school. My son is 15 and is into longboard skateboarding, BMX bikes and the desert. I love with my whole heart. I mean what I say. I am an outgoing person, genuine, and honest. I am still a kid at heart. :)We are a family who shoots guns for entertainment purposes but I also have one for safety. I'm realizing guns offend some people, so I thought I'd include this so you are aware this is part of our lives.I am looking forward to hearing from a good man who's ready to be in a daily relationship, not just when we are in person.I'M LOOKING FOR...***Non-Smoker (yes, that includes cigars, hookah (unless 0 tobacco), pot, etc.***Love laughing, bbq's, friends, movies and relaxing together.I need my man to be walking with the Lord so I can respect him as the man he has stepped up to be. You are a man of strong (what would Jesus do?) godly morals and exercise them daily. I'm not looking for perfect....just perfect for me. lol Yes, I know this limits my dating choices. I enjoy meeting somewhere casual for coffee. It is not a big investment of time or money and allow us to put the face and personality with the profile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ivanna

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am looking for my best friend! A man of substance intrigues me. I want to find the love of my life and I am fiercely loyal. I love family life and many outdoor activities. I am a dedicated mother and would love to be a dedicated wife. I work hard, want to play harder. I can have fun doing anything with the right person. I am a lady and like being treated as such. I am not a barbie. I'd rather participate than watch sports. They have called me smart, witty, courageous, kind of shy, happy, athletic, competitive, inspiring, positive, determined, very organized, clean freak, slightly edgy, cool and very kind - focused & fiercely loyal. I am just as comfortable in a pair of high heels, as I am in cowgirl boots. I like who I am and have much to offer & know how to love. I know what I want. I find respect is a powerful component to any relationship be it self-respect or respect for others. I admire anyone who lives his creed, even if I disagree with the creed. I want a confident man who can lead in life. I want a man who knows what he likes and what he wants. I am discovering the power of balance in life. I love learning and seeking knowledge. I surround myself with good people. It is important to be grateful for each day of life. When you appreciate the sweet, you then know it was worth it to taste the bitter. It's very refining. Friendships are important to me. Close friends are timeless, as well as priceless. I believe God's greatest gifts to me are my children. Finding my Eternal Companion, that's just icing on my cake! Remember, never frown, even when you are sad because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile. :)-Beautifully stated--As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.~anon.~I hunt, pistol shoot, water/anything, love horses, walking, atvs, building things, business/investing, outdoors, family time, quiet time, yard work, mountains, romance, R.E., love a deal and love making a deal, volunteering, dominoes, sharing a smile, travel, culture, arts, sushi, bbq, Mexican food. Love the smell of rain in the mountains, as well as anything clean, sound of moving water, springtime, mornings. I choose to assertively live the rest of my life with passion. Enjoy the moment because you'll never get it back. You are writing the story of your life. I enjoy stimulating, deep conversation. Love a warm home, good friends and any kind of family time. I hope it's like this....When I saw you I fell in love...And you smiled because you knew. I know my wonderful man is looking for me. Life is good & would be better with my best friend at my side. Patriotic! My perfect day would start early and with gratitude in the arms of the man I love. Then, as I try and greet the day, I get pulled back into bed. Finally, I get up and get rolling with a smile! :) I would be at peace with my life, my love, health & wealth of the family....and have free time to do exactly anything I desired to do. Quality time with loved ones, helping others, learning something new.You attract what you are thinking about...so choose your thoughts wisely. I am manifesting love and happiness. I thrive on intensity...yet don't do drama. I feel if you are not smiling, you need to make a change. I don't drink and not interested in those who do. It would be nice if there was a filter on this item like there is on smoking. Both are deal breakers for me. I appreciate good health and a healthy life style. I am not medicated. :) I am contagious too. Thanks for stopping by and make it a great day! It's how we roll! One that would leave me wanting a second!

  • Kirstine

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi thanks fo stopping by i'm 5'4 out going love to take walks and even cuddle on the couch..I'm looking for mr. right... not mr. right now... not into games or just a hookup....if you like what you see then contact me.... :) text,talk then who knows :)

  • Magdalen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Sometimes what life has to offer is hard and challenging, but that is what makes everyone who they are. I have a great sense of humor, no personality defects, know what I want, love meeting new people, out going, dislike routine, passionate about everything I do, spontaneous and most importantly know how to treat a man and respect his space and life. Learning is very important to me in all that I am involved in. I believe in open and honest communication. I am a sincere, genuine, honest, caring, romantic, a dedicated and loyal woman. I am somewhat old fashioned, I like to put the special man in my life first whenever it is appropriate and comfortable for him. I am very supportive and I try to give all in a relationship. I don't like mind games so I don't play them. I am upbeat and positive. I try not to dwell on the past yet to learn and grow from it. I think a sense of humor is very important to help navigate through the more difficult times. I am active and take care of myself and desire that in a partner. I am looking for a man that is self assured, can laugh at himself, cares about family and friends, likes to take on new adventures, would allow me to respect his time and space but also let me be romantic. I am willing to give the emotional and caring that it takes to have a relationship. I would like to find a man who is not afraid to "dance in the rain;" and to see what life has to offer. I am open to many possibilities What is your suggestion that would sincerely capture my attention????

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