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Cathern, 46

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About Me

My life is great, it's full and exciting and I completely enjoy it, with that said, I'd just like to add a partner to share it all with. Someone who knows how to work hard and play hard, a drama free, sane, financially secure guy who isn't a lunatic stalker :) I realize I could be asking too much...I know there are good guys out there and I have even met a few of them but in reality if there's none of that key chemistry, then we'll never be more than friends and I am looking for a bit more than that. Don't get me wrong, friends are great and you can never have too many, but I want the romance as well.My perfect guy would be whom ever fits me just right and I fit him and we're best buddies! It's not something that I can specifically identify in words. It's all about the chemistry when two people meet and maintaining the interest long term. It's about having a life together and yet keeping your own individuality as well. I can't describe my perfect match exactly, probably because I haven't met him yet.I won't give you my twenty best traits because in reality those are the things that you need to decide about me. We all have different perceptions and how you see me is what's important to you. Something simple that can be short or long depending on how it's going. Happy hour or coffee are always good choices.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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