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Stevie, 48
United States, Colorado, Erie

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About Me

I am divorced 5 years with two children (son 13 and daughter ***that are the joy of my life. If I had to describe myself, I would say that I am intelligent, fun, caring almost to a fault, sensitive, romantic, artistic and with a bit of harmless sarcasm. I LOVE romance. I have integrity, character, passion for life, and I believe you should never sweat the small stuff. I'm definitely the one avoiding drama! On the physical appearance subject - I'm a tall 5'8" and I jokingly say I'm 6 feet with heels and hair! So to the the men that say they are 5'10" (and under) I may possibly end up taller than you when and if we meet! You have been warned! :) Hey -.. if you didn't like her then... there really is... Just. No. Hope! LOL! I am a blend of old fashioned values with my own style. My ideal date can range from watching a football game to a candlelight dinner with lots of laughter. A healthy dose of flirting is a requirement for all activities! ;) I have varied interests that range from horse back riding to sports enthusiast. I rode horses professionally all over the country for 25 years and loved it. I've learned to love watching football since my son started playing almost 7 years ago. I didn't know what I was missing! I've worked out my entire life, mainly due to my former profession, and I still carve out about an hour and a half everyday to run and workout--don't feel right if I don't do it. I enjoy the benefits of staying fit. I enjoy working in the yard, watching my son's sports activities and anything outdoors. My life is pretty normal and and I'm looking for someone to share it with. There is plenty of room for someone special. My daughter is 18 and in college on full scholarship. My son is 13 and plays just about every sport (FOOTBALL season is finally here AGAIN!) so I spend a lot of time in my lawn chair watching games/practices and I thoroughly enjoy it. I admit, I probably spend more of the game talking than watching (except, of course, when my son is playing) And for you football fanatics, my son is a starter both sides full back and linebacker. I am looking for someone that appreciates and notices the little things that make a difference in a friendship first, then maybe more. I'm quite romantic and affectionate and am looking for the same. I'd like to meet a genuine, honest, fun person who will let me be a "real woman" because I sooo love being a girl. I am also very independent and am not looking for a relationship to define my being. We both must have our own interests and hobbies while supporting the other in their interests. I know looks aren't everything (but they sure do help! LOL!***but it's how the other person makes you feel. The qualities that I find attractive in a man are honesty, integrity, self assurance, ability to laugh at themselves and being comfortable in their own skin. I respect someone that can be strong and choose the high road in any situation. He must have a strong moral compass and smell good too... (Just threw that one in there to wake you up) LOL! Basically I'm looking for someone who has their priorities in order and knows how to treat a lady. I want to find someone that carries on a conversation where we both ask each other questions ***sided conversations are just too much work! It's take two! When I find him or he spots me, he will be treated so very well and we will have so much FUN!!If you have similar interests and aren't afraid of an independent thinker that is compassionate, giving, affectionate and fun I'd love to hear from you. IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: If you don't have a photo posted I won't respond- I like to see who I'm talking to. And to the 20-.. Just say no! Don't *** just saying. After an initial short meeting, I prefer a first date to be dinner at a more casual restaurant with a lighter atmosphere. The candle light dinner with soft lighting can wait... I'd like us to be able to talk and laugh and get to know each other with no pressure. This is where the healthy dose of flirting would come in handy. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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