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Jaelyn, 48
United States, Colorado, Erie

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About Me

Let's go on an adventure together! I'm looking for a man who has and *makes* time to talk, meet and date. To develop a relationship. Not just *** text. I'm looking for face-to-face, in-each-others-presence time. I'm happy to make friends, but I'm looking for consistent, deepening intimacy and companionship in my life....are you? I realize, to get to that point, you need to meet potentials to see if there is a 'click' for more than friendship.But first, do you have time to date? To explore your own "backyard"? If you have a M-F job obligation (somewhat expected), coach/play sports/other commitment virtually every weekday evening, have your kids every weekend (I love kids and if you have them, would eventually like to get to the point of meeting them). The question is, when will WE have time to spend getting to know one another? My son is a young adult and in the next phase of his life, thus creating a new phase in mine... I am investigating where the next "chapter" of life will take me. This "book" of mine has been an interesting adventure, albeit one I never anticipated, so I am curious where it will go next! [Could you be part of the next chapter?? Or one day finish the book with me??]There may be plenty of fish, but I only need *one* to swim with me -- I'm a woman who can commit, love, cherish, listen and make life more fun than it already is! I'm seeking a man who can add just as much joy to my life as I can to his -- of course, this means you have a hobby or are interested in mine, and various interests; emotionally available, legally available (ha!), financially stable and mature in the way you live your life (we aren't in our 20's anymore!). It is impossible to know true chemistry or compatibility online, so I think meeting -- in person -- relatively quickly (after a couple ***, IMs and/or phone calls) makes sense, for both of us. I enjoy "real dates" but know sometimes a cuppa somethin' in the afternoon or a drink in the early evening is a good way to test the water. So, if I sound like someone you'd like to know more about, I am looking for a best friend (without 4 legs!), lover, confidante, partner. Get in touch -- let's see where this can go! Let's share our interests and introduce each other to new ones!I'm a gal who is ready to fall in love with the right man, one who is ready to fall in love with me. Let's be a team encouraging each other onward and upward -- growing together in faith, spirituality, learning and experiencing, increasing in understanding and love, as we go along in life -- it's a beautiful thing! I'm very affectionate and love holding hands, hugs and kisses, but I don't rush into heavy intimacy; because I'm worth it!My faith is an important part of my life. I know that I am far from perfect, so be ready for a gal who makes mistakes, but it's okay, because you'll make them too. Life can throw us some real curve balls, so I am looking for someone who has the courage to stand with me, when times might get difficult -- that's the team thing, two together are better than one!Let's......snuggle by a crackling fire...walk in the falling snow; in crunchy leaves; in sand under bright stars...go for a ride, hike or road trip and share a cool drink .....spend time together...hold handsand laugh! A cafe is always nice for a hot cup of coffee, chai or lunch. It is a good, relaxing environment that is conducive to private conversation and offers little "pressure/commitment" in regard to time or money spent. The date (or meet & greet) can be furthered or it can end there, depending upon how things progress! Each relationship is different and there are so many options; outdoor cafe, art shows, the choices seem endless...that is until you are pressed to think of something!Let's save movies and walks for our other dates. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Classical Rock Canadian Vietnamese Family & Kids Horror Sci-Fi
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a very down to earth easy going woman who is looking for someone special to share my life with. I enjoy doing most anything as long as its with someone i think is wonderful and makes me feel special. I have been concentrating on raising kids for a long time but i am ready to go and have some fun for myself now and find someone i can build a life with. I would love to go to the casinos and concerts or shopping and trying new foods and restaraunts. I love bookstores and antique shops or just going to the zoo and aquariums or themparks. I do need to say this to save anyone the trouble of messaging but..IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MY FATHER OR YOUNG ENOUGH TO BE MY SON IT WONT WORK...I ALSO ONLY DATE WITHIN MY RACE BUT THANK U ...IF U ONLY SAY HI OR HOW ARE YOU OR SOMETHING BORING I WONT REPLY..IM SORRY BUT EVEN IF THE MESSAGE IS BEAUTIFUL IF YOU LIVE TO FAR AWAY OR SMOKE OR DRINK OFTEN OR NON RELIGIOUS I DONT THINK WE SHOULD WASTE EACH OTHERS TIME. I would love to find an old fashion guy without a *** on al the dating sites. I mean come on!! How can anyone one woman compete with all the others on your *** one person is going to have everything you want and . you have to see these women in photos and daily talks you can't concentrate on who your supposed to be with.Right?Sooo I like the music I grew up with wich is 70s and 80s and some country and contemp Christian.I really have to have a physical attraction before I can even get to talking to someone but after that if the heart and chemistry aren't there then looks don't even matter. Not interested in cowboys or older men.I lke someone who takes care of himself and knows how to communicate and make you feel good about yourself. I'm hoping to find someone to grow old with and make a lot of fun memories to look back on!! This just depends on how much chatting and talking we have beforehand and the vibe that's set by then. But probably meeting for drinks or lunch somwhere that's fun but not crowded or noisy.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi...Thanks for deciding to read my profile. I'm a sincere, genuine, and passionate person. I love to smile, laugh, and have a sense of humor-a bit on the sarcastic side . . . but I do know when to be serious. My boys, family and friends are those that I surround myself with. I am easy to talk to.....not shy, but not overly aggressive. I am generally a very happy and optimistic person. I enjoy life and truly believe - Everyday is a Gift. I work full time and spend my free time chilling out or outings with family and friends. I'm looking for someone with a great sense of humor that makes me smile just by walking in the room. Bar scene-been there done that in my younger days-not that 48 should be considered over the hillalthough I do like to hit the dance floor every now and then, and do enjoy going out for dinner and drinks. Looking for someone that's going to make my heart skip a beat......definitely need to have an attraction. One of my favorite quotes:Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. Yes... I am somewhat of a hopeless romantic who enjoys moonlight walks, shared sunsets, candlelight conversations, the look in his eyes, his five o'clock shadow. I know you are out there......it's just a matter of time. ; )Good luck with your search....if you think we may connect send me an ***'d love to chat with you....but, PLEASE have a photo. Meet for a drink (coffe or cosmo) is fine with me. If there is a connection the rest will take care of itself.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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