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Jaelyn, 48
United States, Colorado, Erie

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Let's go on an adventure together! I'm looking for a man who has and *makes* time to talk, meet and date. To develop a relationship. Not just *** text. I'm looking for face-to-face, in-each-others-presence time. I'm happy to make friends, but I'm looking for consistent, deepening intimacy and companionship in my life....are you? I realize, to get to that point, you need to meet potentials to see if there is a 'click' for more than friendship.But first, do you have time to date? To explore your own "backyard"? If you have a M-F job obligation (somewhat expected), coach/play sports/other commitment virtually every weekday evening, have your kids every weekend (I love kids and if you have them, would eventually like to get to the point of meeting them). The question is, when will WE have time to spend getting to know one another? My son is a young adult and in the next phase of his life, thus creating a new phase in mine... I am investigating where the next "chapter" of life will take me. This "book" of mine has been an interesting adventure, albeit one I never anticipated, so I am curious where it will go next! [Could you be part of the next chapter?? Or one day finish the book with me??]There may be plenty of fish, but I only need *one* to swim with me -- I'm a woman who can commit, love, cherish, listen and make life more fun than it already is! I'm seeking a man who can add just as much joy to my life as I can to his -- of course, this means you have a hobby or are interested in mine, and various interests; emotionally available, legally available (ha!), financially stable and mature in the way you live your life (we aren't in our 20's anymore!). It is impossible to know true chemistry or compatibility online, so I think meeting -- in person -- relatively quickly (after a couple ***, IMs and/or phone calls) makes sense, for both of us. I enjoy "real dates" but know sometimes a cuppa somethin' in the afternoon or a drink in the early evening is a good way to test the water. So, if I sound like someone you'd like to know more about, I am looking for a best friend (without 4 legs!), lover, confidante, partner. Get in touch -- let's see where this can go! Let's share our interests and introduce each other to new ones!I'm a gal who is ready to fall in love with the right man, one who is ready to fall in love with me. Let's be a team encouraging each other onward and upward -- growing together in faith, spirituality, learning and experiencing, increasing in understanding and love, as we go along in life -- it's a beautiful thing! I'm very affectionate and love holding hands, hugs and kisses, but I don't rush into heavy intimacy; because I'm worth it!My faith is an important part of my life. I know that I am far from perfect, so be ready for a gal who makes mistakes, but it's okay, because you'll make them too. Life can throw us some real curve balls, so I am looking for someone who has the courage to stand with me, when times might get difficult -- that's the team thing, two together are better than one!Let's......snuggle by a crackling fire...walk in the falling snow; in crunchy leaves; in sand under bright stars...go for a ride, hike or road trip and share a cool drink .....spend time together...hold handsand laugh! A cafe is always nice for a hot cup of coffee, chai or lunch. It is a good, relaxing environment that is conducive to private conversation and offers little "pressure/commitment" in regard to time or money spent. The date (or meet & greet) can be furthered or it can end there, depending upon how things progress! Each relationship is different and there are so many options; outdoor cafe, art shows, the choices seem endless...that is until you are pressed to think of something!Let's save movies and walks for our other dates. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Classical Rock Canadian Vietnamese Family & Kids Horror Sci-Fi
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