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Kenda, 44

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About Me

I am looking for a man that doesn't do drugs or constantly drink. You can't be dependent on your parents, and you should have your own transportation. Some sort of income is important too, preferably via a legal job. I'm not looking for a "mama's boy", nor do I want baby mama drama. I'm not opposed to a man that has children, but don't want to get caught up in domestic disputes. Hair and eye color are not important, but he needs to be at least 5'8" tall and between the ages of 40 and 50. He must like animals, as I have a total of 10. I have a degree as a Veterinary Technician and am also a Disabled Veteran. Disabled does not automatically mean lack of or loss of use of legs and arms, and Veteran does not automatically mean PTSD. If you know what this means, you're probably a shoe in. LOL! I spent ***years in the Air Force.I enjoy scrap booking, cooking, and taking care of my animals. I love to hang out with my friends, and joke around. I'm not into head games or drama. I think the secret of life is laughing a lot and loving life!I own my house, and want to do some remodeling as time and money allow. I like lots of different kinds of music, mostly 80's pop, classic rock and country. I enjoy some rap, hip hop and R&B. Just don't ask me to dance the polka. LOL!! I like comedies, romance, and some action.I'm not looking for anything serious right now, but if it turns into something serious later, I'm not opposed to that. I believe two people must get to know each other before jumping into that decision.P.S. I changed "smoking" to "Ocassionally" because I have been just over 1 week smoke free. I am using E-cigarettes to quit, and am doing very well. :) Dinner and a movie are cliche' but a nice start. But to help take the tension off, meeting at a park for a picnic lunch, or meeting for coffee is nice too. I'd like to have a chance to talk with my date and learn who they are. Also allow them a chance to learn who I am.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katerine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    UPDATE – I guess there have been some men burned by women in the past; on and off dating sites. I’ve met some ‘interesting’WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR:1. Absolutely NO one-night stands. I do NOT want to be your bed buddy. Thanks for the compliment, but move on if this is your interest. 2. Absolutely NO drugs.3. If you still live with your folks, I’m not for you. I don’t want to support you, any more than I want you to support me. 4. Traffic in this city is the pits, commuting more than an hour to see your date, seems like a waste of the free time we have. 5. I take pride in my smile and would like the same from you. Not expecting a perfect pearly whites but at least have a clean mouth. Please provide at least one photo showing your teeth. This is a turnoff for me. 6. Impress me with your intelligence, not your wallet. I save and spend equally and live within my means. Please have a job, you don’t have to LOVE it but you have to be able to support yourself. 7. No offense to anyone, I prefer to date within my own skin tone. 8. I am NOT looking for a clingy, needy man. I do NOT want to be your mother or your maid. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR: if you've made it this far.1. An honest, genuine individual who likes to have a good time and loves to laugh; laughter is important to me. 2. I would like someone who is positive. I get up thankful for all that I have and want to make the day better than the last.3. Someone who likes to get out and do fun things and still want to curl up on the sofa and watch a movie sometimes.4. I’m a pretty good cook, and would love to get to the point where I can provide a meal or two. It would be nice, if you would like to cook for me too. You cook, I clean and vice versa! 5. Someone that will go to the gym with me and help keep one another motivated in living a healthy lifestyle. 6. I don’t expect my partner to be interested in EVERYTHING I do, and hope that you don’t expect the same. I believe we all need HIS time and HER time, along with plenty of US time. We certainly need to have common interests, definitely gives us something to do together and talk about.7. Bottom line… I want someone who is willing to accept me as I am right now. I’m far from perfect and not expecting you to be either. However, learning to accept that we all have flaws, allows us to grow and be better people. What you see on the outside, is only the shell of the true person that resides within.Now that we got the ‘nasty stuff’ out of the way!!My family and friends would describe me as loyal, honest and dependable. I choose to live my life by the Golden Rule. I am a genuine person; I have a down-to-earth attitude, open minded and a good moral compass and good values. Will not pretend to be something I'm not. I love to laugh and find humor in everyday things. My sense of humor can be sarcastic; I'm quite adept at laughing at myself. I like to have fun; life is short, so I want to enjoy it. I am at a good place in my life and ready for the next chapter.I enjoy walking, camping, going to concerts, going to a baseball or football game, but not a sports nut. I love to be outside and enjoying nature; a good hike through the woods is always a welcomed activity. I enjoy being active, but also like to spend some time watching a little mind numbing TV to relax – this excludes reality TV! I enjoy getting out of town for weekend excursions. Science and history fascinate me. I’m willing to try new things...at least once. I love to learn and I would love to share an intellectual conversation from time to time. If you're looking for an athletic body type, that is not me; if looking for BBW, that is not me either. However, I am working to get back into shape and get to the gym ***times a week. I do not believe that I will ever be a thin, svelte woman; I do like some of my curves. I choose to live a healthy lifestyle.Let’s start as friends, no need to complicate things. I am a simple person and live a simple life, but I am looking to share this life with someone special. I'm truly not interested in mind games or drama; I'm too old for that crap. Bottom line: I'm single, but not desperate and willing to wait for the right one. Our pasts define who we are today and hopefully we've all learned where things went wrong and are making strives to improve. Being honest and open to communication enables both parties to know where they stand and provides an equal playing field. Trust has to be earned.IF YOU'RE STILL READING….BRAVO, perhaps something made you keep reading; and I thank you for taking the time to read my profile, if anything I've said has sparked your interest, please send a message, would love more than just 'Hello', but that's okay too. If not, best of luck in finding that person you're searching for. I believe that it’s okay to start via the meetville messaging, but at some point it has to come off the internet and into the real world. Meeting face-to-face is the only true way to know if there is a connection. Some place simple and quiet, where we can meet and talk to see if there is a connection; perhaps over a cup of coffee or drinks.

  • Persephone

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    ....work in progress, like owner....I like the city and I like the country and everything in between! I love to go hiking or walks on the beach, fishing or swimming, I love Zumba and Yoga; I'm a pretty good cook but I don't like to shop! I love dogs! I love to couples dance and have taken classes in the past. I like world & American history and have an appreciation of older things. I dislike reality television and refuse to eat peas:)I like laughter and good friends with great conversationWhen it comes to music I pretty much listen to country music....well now that I go through my playlists... I pretty much like everything except pop & hip-hop.I find that I have the chance now to sit down and really look at who I want in a significant other. And that person should be trustworthy, honest and sincere - funny and can get along with any type of person!!!!I think having similar interests and also varied interests would make life interesting! ...and if they like baseball that's okay:(. I won't even hold it against you if your not a Steelers fan!We don't have to love all the same hockey teams, football teams and all the other interests ***that's what makes the spice of life!* sorry but I only date within my race and gentleman that are taller than me. * I use voice recognition on my iPhone so please don't think I'm uneducated if the VR comes across wrong. Well it just depends let me say first date could be just coffee at Starbucks ......or it could be a wonderful seafood restaurant with a walk on the beach........ or something very creative heck! I've been known to jump out of perfectly good airplanes;)**I guess it just depends on how much we've gotten to know each other and if there's any chemistry before hand, am I right?

  • Ja

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hey there, I’m an easy going confident woman who doesn’t sweat the small things. I'm a true extravert but do enjoy "me" time. I open doors for people, acknowledge courteous drivers and love animals. I'm a Bomber & Jets fan and have been active in all types of sports my whole life. As easily as I can hang with the boys I'm a true girl at heart. I'm comfortable in my own skin, love to laugh, has a great sense of humor and takes the glass is half full approach.A night out dancing, beer on a patio or staying in to watch a movie are just a few of the things I enjoy. I lead an active lifestyle & love weekend getaways. I have 2 very fulfilling jobs and would say my family and friends are the corner stone of what keeps me grounded. I'm looking for someone who has integrity, loves to kiss & genuinely wants to meet someone. I appreciate intelligent conversation and someone who doesn't take himself too seriously. Don't be shy. Really. I appreciate condor and honesty no matter what you have to say so please don't waste my time.Cheers! Something original.

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