SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Fransisca
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Okay... I'm not to fond of the so called "choices" that we're required to use as answers here, so I've decided to elaborate a bit further on some... Hope you don't mind. -My personality... To sum it up into a single word is impossible. I'm lighthearted and open with a great sense of humor (at least I think so).-Body type... Average these days is impossible to define. I'm curvy (Italians are curvy) in between average and a few extra lbs. I'm comfortable in my own skin. -Would I date someone who smokes... I would prefer they not, but it's not a total deal breaker. -Do you do drugs... OK WHAT! I find it hard to believe that someone would admit to being a junkie on a public site, but who knows. I guess they have their reasons for asking this info, but what those reasons are baffles me completely. Now for the novel;I'm just me. I don't pretend to be someone or something I'm not. I'm honest and straightforward. I don't play games and have no tolerance for those who do. I never ask for more than I'm willing to give. I'm careful when it comes to who I allow in my life. I accept someone for who they are, not who I think they should be. It's an all or nothing deal. I have a very playful/sarcastic sense of humor and love to laugh. I want someone who will laugh with me or even at me if it's deserved. Accept all of me just as I am that's all I ask. I'm human. I make mistakes, say stupid things without thinking first, and I can be forgetful at times. I've got a huge heart, and yes, people have taken advantage of that. But live and learn. I'm not perfect and I have no desire to be. Perfection is an illusion and I'm real. I'm real and I'm happy regardless of my flaws because all that is good within me greatly outweighs the other. I don't want a perfect relationship. I don't believe they exist. What I do believe is that if you're able to find middle ground you'll have more happiness than any so called "perfect relationship" could ever dream to have. I don't want perfect. I want worth it.My son is my world. He means everything to me.. He lives with me full time and do the every other weekend thing with his dad. Even still my life with him can sometimes be a bit demanding. Just be a bit patient with me, I always find a way to make things work.We've all made mistakes, I've made a ton of my own, but I've learned from every one of them. It's helped me realize what it is that I need, and more importantly, all the things I need to give more of. Don't just talk, communicate. Trust without making assumptions. Never take more than you're willing to give. I want to live my life with someone, not just co-exist. I believe that people these days don't realize what a privledge it is to grow old with someone. I believe if something's broke you fix it. You don't just throw it away. People are so quick to give up these days, not even try, just turn their backs and walk away. It's sad and weak. I'm to strong to be in a weak relationship. I don't want anything average. I want something better, something more and I deserve it simply because I'm willing to and I want to give all that I am...I love quotes and this is one of my favorites..."She's not perfect. You aren't either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if she can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if she admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She isn't going to quote poetry, she's not thinking about you every moment, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you could break. Don't hurt her. Don't change her, and don't expect more than she can give. Don't analyze. Smile when she makes you happy, yell when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect girls don't exist, but there's always one girl that is perfect for you." ~ Bob Marley Something on the relaxed casual side. The what and where part can be decided when ready. It's not about where I go, but rather who I'll be going with.
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Lauretta
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I have seen some strange and scary post by some of the men on here, so I will start with this to avoid any confusion....I am not on here to find sex, if you want to sleep with someone-thank you and good luck. I am a smoker. I do respect non-smokers but I will not quit for you, if you don't like smokers- thank you and good luck. I date a person I am interested in with now judging regardless if they are black, white or purple. I have two mixed children. If you judge me because my children are mixed- thank you and good luck. I am always on time and strive to do what I say I will. If you are the type that says they will call then doesn't, says they will be somewhere and are late or don't show-thank you and good luck.In my line of work I have seen it all. People that are lazy, lie, cheat, have no goals and so on. I am looking to meet someone that does not want to hang out in a bar all the time. Someone that works hard for what they have. Someone that takes pride in accomplishing things no matter how big or small. I am a little old fashioned in the way that I want to know someone and feel a connection- not just hook up. I am not a person that judges anyone for religion, race, job or past mistakes. I get to know people for who they are not where they have been and would like to find a similar person. I am dependable and a little opinionated. I like to read and have intelligent conversations with people who can speak proper English. I figure its better to get this all out in the open. Conversation and dinner or coffee
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Bailee
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
We are new to the area and looking for friends . We would like to find a lady to hang out with, participate in activities with. I am 41 and he is 36. We are fun and would love to hang out some time.