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Samella, 44

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About Me

Well I don't really know what to say right now. Briefly, an Army veteran (combat medical specialist), and an animal-lover. I have a crazy sense of humor, honest, quirky. I am independent, outgoing and a bit of wild side, but also quiet and gentle. I always try to leave things better than I found them and I don't give up easily. I always try to look for positive and humourous things in life or troubles, no matter how small and also to see both sides of a conflict. I am a very imaginative person, and free spirited. I am protective yet respectful of those those I care about. I am honest sometimes to fault, it does take some time for me to open up more but its' worth the wait and effort. Sometimes I have to learn cuz each person is different. All I can be is myself, and each day be a better me. AND THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THAT! Despite the disappointments, screwups, betrayals, misunderstandngs in my past, I still beleive in TRuE love and True Friends. I've learned that its not something easily done or found, it has be forged or learned. Oonce its there..hold onto it, appreciate, give back, and stick with even through the rough bumps of the road..talking or being quiet holding hands, enjoying the waves and horizons. A small, nothing fancy picnic there or in a grassy park where theres swingsets. Add a little music. To me the ideal first date is just somewhere where you can be yourselves and enjoy each others company.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anthia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    Looking for someone who is just as sexy & spontaneous as I am. You must be established as in have a job, goals, ambition, & know exactly what you want in life. Please do not come at me if you are looking for someone for you & your spouse as I am not even remotely interested. Life is short & I have absolutely no time for games. If you're over the age of 40, & you're looking to explore your options on the side, I'm not that woman either. If you've made it this far & are still interested, by all means say hello. Would love to hear from you! :) Surprise me & be creative! Pretty much game for anything within reason.

  • Michaela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    A Diamond is merely a lump of coal that did well under pressure....well all that glitter isnt gold...and to much is overkill...... I like all kinds of women as long as they are secure and fun and ambitious... I love music, theater, cooking, movies, and great wine. My dad was a chef so I cook my ass off, so I like girls who live on more than a crouton and some water....I hope you have a great sense of humor because I'm super funny....Im always the entertainer, I love MMA, Boxing, and UFC...I am a Virgo which means im independent, in life I set goals and make them happen, but in a good way, Im a femme on the outside but have my boi qualities...Im quite nurturing and thoughtful when it comes to dating, I pay attention like how you take your steak or what your favorite wine is. I love women who laugh and like to have fun, but not puking out the side window kind of fun....I dont frequent clubs much, I want a woman who isnt insecure, who loves to play around and laugh, I dont play games im a straight up kinda person if you ask my opinion be sure you're prepared for an honest answer, I also want to date someone because it may lead to something else, thats why you date right? To find someone who may lead you on a good path toward the future. I love to travel, road trips, a place called nowhere, I have a solid foundation, my inner core is good, I'm ambitious and driven, I want that same ambition and strength in my mate, she is solid and brave, strong and secure in who she is, I have a bit of wisdom with women...I guess u can say vanilla isn't in my vocabulary, exciting adventurous and a bit frayed at the edges calm but yet loose at the seams so to speak...The one that doesn't bat an eye when faced with obstacles...I just keep going...You get knocked down, get back up and say "That's the best you got?". Heaven didn't want me yet, and the Devil's afraid I'll take over...lol I love strong independent women who take care of themselves prefer a non smoker and someone who loves to travel because I do a lot of traveling..... I PREFER WHITE OR HISPANIC WOMEN PERSONAL PREFERENCE... NO BI WOMEN, NO COUPLES, NO SMOKERS, NO DRAMA DRUNK WOMEN, NO STILL LIVING WITH THE EX.... Meet someplace with a great wine list, and bring your smile...cuz im gonna make you laugh....and then see what happens...if nothing else you have made a new friend. No apologies, no excuses, no regrets

  • Celesta

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    About me: I have recently changed careers. It was quite daunting at first, but I was very successful. I bleed integrity and consistency. I am in sound mind and body, and steadfast in love and friendship. I am honest, loving, passionate, affectionate, romantic, caring, witty and fun. I am a direct no-nonsense woman. I have a long list of acquaintances, and only a handful of friends (by choice). I have a deep passion for pets. I had two female****r spaniels who i miss dearly and I have a female Calico Dashy. I enjoy all types of sports, and still try to participate in some. Photography is love of mine, only I don't seem to have enough time for it. I love the outdoors (biking, hiking, kayaking, camping, fishing, anything on the water). I am active in the gym at least 5 times per week. I competed in bodybuilding in ***ish. Surely, I no longer carry the same physique, but I'm in decent shape regardless. Music is essential to me (I enjoy a wide variety) especially when I need a pick me up, even more so a kick in the ass in the gym :)I am looking to build on a foundation of friendship first and foremost. Although two people don't share the same dynamics, some similarities would be nice to have in a potential partner. I am one who embraces the differences in someone, as I feel enhanced as a person in learning and trying new things from someone else. Everyone has baggage, I get that. I strongly prefer a non-smoker. However, I am unwavering in my search for the right woman that is sure of herself, independent, educated, employed, health conscious, athletic, fit, and one who is NOT conflicted about a relationship/commitment! I look forward to sharing these qualities with the right one. If this sounds like you, don't hesitate to reach out! :) Best of luck in your search! Coffee, A drink if appropriate.

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