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Nella, 41

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About Me

Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jovan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just going to keep this short for now.....here are some of the basics. I love my job, which is for an agency that provides residential services for adults with intellectual disabilities. I love to laugh....that's important to me, a man that can make me laugh, and I in return enjoy making people laugh (once I feel comfortable around you). Not going to lie, but looks do matter to me, but personality is just as important. I appreciate honesty in a person as well as discernment. In regards to music...I'm not a huge fan of country, or an avid listener to the oldies, which for my generation, is classic rock. Basically, I listen to music that has clever lyrics, a good beat, or simply what appeals to me and the mood. Hmmm, hobbies? Dislike that phrase, as well as "interests" If this comes off as boring, do not judge by the following: I enjoy cooking (seriously, I really do), baking, reading, card games (still need to learn poker). Not a team sportsy kinda girl, but I do enjoy getting out and doing whatever. Basically, If you want to do something, I'm a good sport and am always looking for a new interest to learn. Well, that's enough for now... ;-)

  • Rizpah

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy taking long walks and enjoying the surroundings. I love watching football college or professional, movies, camping, traveling, and long car rides. I love to dance to all kinds of music even if I might be that good but we need to enjoy life and live it to the fullest. Would love to have someone that is hard working and is willing to work together to reach our goals, not along for a free ride. I am living life to the fullest and looking for someone that is willing to have some fun but don't mind sitting home and enjoying each others company. I work 2 jobs so don't mind working hard. I have a very big heart and go the extra mile to help those I care about so they don't have alot of heartache. I give everything my all and don't hold back. I love all kinds of music and depends on my mood what I listen to. I enjoy concerts and musical too.

  • Nancey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Lets try this again....I am looking for the one who completes me. I am a fun loving, laid back, with a sense of humor. Maybe we can talk....

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