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Nella, 41

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About Me

Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi! I'm a single white female,, who is attracted to younger guys. Please let me know if you would like to chat! I am a pretty open minded person. I think my first date with somebody would really depend on the person, and the mood we were in at the time. Dinner, drinks, a walk ? Whatever we feel like doing!

  • Candyce

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Charise

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm laid back, love to enjoy what life has to offer! I love the Lord and put Him first in everything I do!! I play guitar at my church and love it! Must have a partner who doesn't mind me playing. I used to play in bands at the clubs..80's 90's music..so yeah I can rock out too! I don't like the bar scene anymore. I like to ski, ride bicycles, bowl, go to the movies, see live bands, eat out, love theme parks, roller coasters, and anything adventurous. I like any kind of music! It's my passion :) I have a big heart and love doing things for others. Need a man who will appreciate that about me. I'm looking for someone who loves God and believes in living right. I need someone who enjoys spending time together and apart, as I like to have time with my friends too. There has to be an attraction when we meet.. If we have a lot in common and "click" it might be worth getting to know you. I do enjoy cuddling on the couch,watching a movie, kissing, long walks on the beach, and conversation to get to know one another :) Oh...I also love motorcycles! Must be responsible, have a job, independent, and not too clingy! If this describes you... msg me! Looking forward to meeting you! The first date depends on the person. What they are comfortable with. We would discuss it and see what best fits. I would definitely like to get to know the person a little before going on a date hoping that's the way he feels too!

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