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Sonia, 42

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About Me

I'm officially 41 now =( But since I didn't celebrate my birthday the last two years does that mean I can still cling on to 39? :)My core beliefs:I wrote the section below this one before my father passed away in ***...his passing only amplified my zest for life and trying to make the best one I can with the time left. LEt's face it, we all have an expiration date and we don't know when that is... Does that mean to go be irresponsible and stupid and party and be wreckless and lose all sense of morals,values,standards and ethics? Absolutely not. It's not a pink slip.... It does mean however that you need to re-evaluate your life n Identify what's missing and be open minded to really finding something, someone,that will enhance your life and bring more joy into your days. Someone you want to call the minute something trivial or monumental happens in your day. Someone you long to see at the end of the day...someone with whom you look forward to making plans with and doing nothing and everything with...anyway... here is a peek inside my heart, mind and soul.... : ...I believe when you are truly a friend to someone -you will make yourself tangible to them. We all need someone to hug, shoulders to cry on- and help...we all stumble and fall time after time,nobody's perfect we are all weak. As I age I see my parents can not always be there to help...and yes we should all stand alone, live alone,live well and live and love strong... but we all need a very best friend. Someone our OWN age or close to it -to grow old with and share life with. I also feel when you start something-you should finish it,no matter what obstacles cross the path of the task at hand. All we have is our word, and if we can't honor that- what do we have left. Help strangers, help the elderly,help children and those in need...lend an ear, time and elbow...make a difference in your life by making a difference in others and most importantly don't leave someone stranded...it's just not Christian. Put yourself before others esp. when you are more One step at a time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Novella

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well I love the outdoors , love to ride horses , camp , fish and hunt . Love to travel and try exciting different things . My goals are to find my soulmate , see Europe and live in my dream cabin or Farm house . Born and raised on a farm I love it . The city Is not for me to many people and not enough privacy .... I am a very simple woman , I live a simple life I am not a high maint. woman . Just the sweet thoughtful things in life make me happy . I like to joke and play around . I like all kinds of music . Just not the screaming and hard rap . I want a man that is not tied down, can travel and have fun . Also can not live without me and wake up everyday thinking about me . And the same feelings for me :) I also love amusement parks , the zoo, historic places .I am just looking for long term . I want love in my life. Listen I am not on here just for sex ! If that is all you are looking for MOVE ON !!!! I really would like a country guy that will ride horses and is adventurous . Good luck to ya ?? Maybe go for a walk if all is going well :) dinner ? Ziplinning ? Ride horses ? I like doing fun and exciting things .

  • Nella

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

  • Babette

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi. I'm looking for my one and only true love, my last first kiss. I'm an awesome woman looking for an awesome man. I don't play games and I don't want to be played. I'm not into one night stands. I love the outdoors, anything you can do I can do better. Lol, not really, but I'll try. I am a grandma, I love my granddaughters dearly. I have a big close family (with quite a few kids) that I love to do things with. I love to cook, I make everything homemade, which means I love a healthy eater (no picky eaters). I love romance and I love to romance my special man. I love animals, I have 3 dogs and a cat. There's a lot more to say, but if you want to know more you'll have to message me. I look forward to hearing from you.

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