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Sonia, 42

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About Me

I'm officially 41 now =( But since I didn't celebrate my birthday the last two years does that mean I can still cling on to 39? :)My core beliefs:I wrote the section below this one before my father passed away in ***...his passing only amplified my zest for life and trying to make the best one I can with the time left. LEt's face it, we all have an expiration date and we don't know when that is... Does that mean to go be irresponsible and stupid and party and be wreckless and lose all sense of morals,values,standards and ethics? Absolutely not. It's not a pink slip.... It does mean however that you need to re-evaluate your life n Identify what's missing and be open minded to really finding something, someone,that will enhance your life and bring more joy into your days. Someone you want to call the minute something trivial or monumental happens in your day. Someone you long to see at the end of the day...someone with whom you look forward to making plans with and doing nothing and everything with...anyway... here is a peek inside my heart, mind and soul.... : ...I believe when you are truly a friend to someone -you will make yourself tangible to them. We all need someone to hug, shoulders to cry on- and help...we all stumble and fall time after time,nobody's perfect we are all weak. As I age I see my parents can not always be there to help...and yes we should all stand alone, live alone,live well and live and love strong... but we all need a very best friend. Someone our OWN age or close to it -to grow old with and share life with. I also feel when you start something-you should finish it,no matter what obstacles cross the path of the task at hand. All we have is our word, and if we can't honor that- what do we have left. Help strangers, help the elderly,help children and those in need...lend an ear, time and elbow...make a difference in your life by making a difference in others and most importantly don't leave someone stranded...it's just not Christian. Put yourself before others esp. when you are more One step at a time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abbey

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Looking for someone to get to know, spend time with, is serious about a relationship. I love to go out whether it is to a concert, dinner, hang with friends, try new activities, etc. I'm a positive person because I have control over my own destiny and happiness. I try to live in the moment and put things into perspective; to not sweat the small things. If you're ready to live and move forward holding my hand, let me know. I look forward to meeting you, the possibilities are endless......ps if you have a cat, I'm sorry I am extremely allergic. I've been there, done that. A great first date would be a casual meeting to talk about each other, our interests, etc. and to if we click. No pressure. During the first date you pretty much know if you want to see someone again. A cup of coffee or a glass of wine, etc. and hopefully we will like each other. If not, no harm done.

  • Tommie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I want a good hearted man to settle down with. That can handle a strong woman. I dont want a man that has children but if he does the child has to be at least 14 and up .Sorry. I want to be treated like a queen!

  • Piety

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok, So let me start off with this.. Simple enough, right?? I am a BBW for now.. I am currently a work in progress. Now if you have a problem with the wrapping then you will definitely have a problem with the surprise inside. so STOP.. Read no further..Still here?? Well then, let's move on shall we?? ...What am I looking for you ask?? Well, let's see..Someone to date? Someone with values,morals?? Someone grown up??Honesty - The ability to be honest with me. Honesty builds trust. A key player in a relationship.Communication. - Yes... you are or should be able to hold a conversation with me that is not made up of. (Examples .. uh huh, yeah, ok.) In the entirety.And is another essential piece to the puzzle that a relationship is. A man who's. A man and not some trumped up player of a little boy. Because a real man won't play games unless their in bed. Then its fair game.Well. That seems simple enough. Right?Ok, so the ball is in your court.Message me or not. That choice is yours. But im a pretty cool lady if even as a friend.... So Be brave... I don't bite too hard.. LoL ;)Ok, So heres a side note.. I've been looking through profiles and theres alot of you unhappy fella's out here whineing how us women are complaining how we dont want this or dont want that or that we are playing games or how "WE" are too shallow to give a decent guy a chance because of his looks or attributes.. But "YOU" do the "same thing" if we arent pretty enough or skinny enough or whatever.My advice to you and my fellow women is this."Don't judge the book by it's cover". It's something i was always told. Because you may never know what truly lies inside until you open it. So, dont ask me what i'm looking for because this lady will give you the same answer every time. "I don't know" I can tell you what i "Think" i want or would like to have... But what i do know is this.. "IF and WHEN" i find whatever it is i'm looking for, then I will "KNOW"..and thats the plain truth. Take it or leave it. Because life is too precious to waste. Oh. And If I stop by to comment on your profile or your photos. Chalk that up to being nice. :) Because something must have caught my eye.Happy fishing to you. May you find the one that won't get away.. A meet up for coffee maybe a lunch or dinner . Who knows everyones taste are differnt. Message me and let's see where the road goes. Hopefully. Down the straight one. Although a few good twist's and turn's every now and then would sure keep it intresting.::::::: WARNING::::::::: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, or personal use-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile information or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. (It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.)

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