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Sonia, 42

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About Me

I'm officially 41 now =( But since I didn't celebrate my birthday the last two years does that mean I can still cling on to 39? :)My core beliefs:I wrote the section below this one before my father passed away in ***...his passing only amplified my zest for life and trying to make the best one I can with the time left. LEt's face it, we all have an expiration date and we don't know when that is... Does that mean to go be irresponsible and stupid and party and be wreckless and lose all sense of morals,values,standards and ethics? Absolutely not. It's not a pink slip.... It does mean however that you need to re-evaluate your life n Identify what's missing and be open minded to really finding something, someone,that will enhance your life and bring more joy into your days. Someone you want to call the minute something trivial or monumental happens in your day. Someone you long to see at the end of the day...someone with whom you look forward to making plans with and doing nothing and everything with...anyway... here is a peek inside my heart, mind and soul.... : ...I believe when you are truly a friend to someone -you will make yourself tangible to them. We all need someone to hug, shoulders to cry on- and help...we all stumble and fall time after time,nobody's perfect we are all weak. As I age I see my parents can not always be there to help...and yes we should all stand alone, live alone,live well and live and love strong... but we all need a very best friend. Someone our OWN age or close to it -to grow old with and share life with. I also feel when you start something-you should finish it,no matter what obstacles cross the path of the task at hand. All we have is our word, and if we can't honor that- what do we have left. Help strangers, help the elderly,help children and those in need...lend an ear, time and elbow...make a difference in your life by making a difference in others and most importantly don't leave someone stranded...it's just not Christian. Put yourself before others esp. when you are more One step at a time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Thea

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm tired of the games and the lies,besides Aren't we too old for games? Why do men hide if they meet and they decide they aren't compatable? Not all women are fragile or psycho, some of us more adult women will actually respect you for saying "I'm sorry its there won't be another date". So men suck it up and grow up and actually be the man you say you are. You'll at least have my respect. Because otherwise I will call you out on your b.s., I'm bold and honest and you'll get nothi ng less from me. I work in the telecommunications field in a call center. I love my job and seem to do rather well at it. I want to do some traveling now that my children are older and I am looking for someone genuine to spend some quality time with. I'd like to experience the things life has to offer. I don't need your money I have my own. I am not interested in what you own, they are only things, they do not make you who you are, but I am interested in you and what we could share together. I want to find someone I can be friends with first and get to know to build something lasting. (If you aren't interested in a friendship that could turn into a long term relationship please don't waste my time or yours.) I want to find someone to date who wants to put effort into getting to know me and doesn't want to keep fishing for something better because, really how do you really get to truly know someone and build a relationship when your still looking for someone else. You can't. If I'm not good enough that you'd need to continue looking then I'm not your filler woman till better is found. I won't make you a filler fish, don't make me your filler fish lol. Someone who wants to know how my day was or enjoys the daily Txt saying "have a nice day" or "I'm thinking of you" I don't want someone who is just looking for a sex friend. If that's you just keep moving and don't bother me. I saw this and thought it was rather fitting for how I feel. "I may not be the most beautiful or sexiest, nor do I have the"perfect body". I might not be someones first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I'm not proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away"Why sit idly by and let life pass you by? Live life to the fullest!! I look forward to talking you soon! A first date would be a great conversation getting to know each other over a cup of coffee,a drink or a good meal. Depending on the weather a walk in the park, a Tincaps game, or a Komets game. I love riding a motorcycle in nice weather.

  • Shaquita

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am who I am. Easy to get along with. Love meeting and getting to know others

  • Alessandra

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi, does anybody get off this site ? I have been off this site for a few months ( because i was sick of it , and not having any luck) and i think the same people are still on here - its kind of discouraging . Anyway Thanks for taking a look at my profile. Lets face it most of us are visual people my pictures are up to date and I hope yours are too. Lets face it we are never going to find the person that we have conjured in our minds. Let me ask you , do you enjoy the meaningless conversations, coming home to an empty house, cooking dinner for one? Lets face it our dog's don't care how are day went..Just maybe some of you should ask yourself's this one question... Would I date myself? I know for a fact I would date myself, I am fun , love to laugh, like sports (baseball being my favorite),camping, fishing,golfed for the first time last summer and really liked it ( hope to golf a bit more this summer, walks in the woods, and much more. And I don't complain ( you get what you get and you don't throw a fit) I am looking for the one to miss, I am looking for the one that intrigues me, that makes me think of him when we're not together, the man that I can have meet my children. I think he's out there..... I just have to find him. I am not looking for Mr. Perfect just perfect for me.P.S. IF YOU DON"T WANT TO TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW ME DON"T BOTHER SENDING ME AN *** may not be the most beautiful, or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be everyone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today .If your still reading this send me an *** , you never know until you try ......) lol... And just see what happens.

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