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Gillian, 41

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About Me

I have been single for 3 years and haven't been in the dating world for quite some time. So I figured I can try this site out and see what happens I am a decent,honest, loving and caring woman and I would like to have a man to share my life with. I'm not into the bar scene!! So this makes it quite difficult to meet people. I'm tired of being alone and would like to have a man to go out with occasionally and see where it goes.I am not looking for a man to save me. I'd like to find someone that enjoys similar things and can introduce me to some new things. I'm always up for trying new things. I don't always want to go out,I also enjoy just relaxing at home watching a movie. I enjoy the outdoors. I like kayaking,I use to own 2 kayaks but unfortunately had to sell them 6 years ago. I like fishing, although I'm not very good at it. I also like going to the movies,or going to see live bands. One thing i have always liked no matter where I've lived is just getting in the car and going for long rides to no place in particular and if possible take back roads to get there.I'm pretty laid back and down to earth.I want to meet a man that is honest,not passive aggressive shows affection and likes to go out and enjoy life.I hate drama and playing games.. Also, I prefer not to date men with small children. All 3 of my kids are over 18 and I have heard horror stories from single friends that dated men with small children and ended up being part of major drama because of the ex-wife/girlfriend not wanting her kids around another woman.So if any of this sounds like someone you would like to meet, send me a message.Take Care First date,Go get coffee or go somewhere that we could talk and see if there is any chemistry. I don't believe in long complicated first dates just in case there is no chemistry neither person would feel obligated to finish date just to be polite.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    (NOTE*: If you state in your profile that you're actively looking for a relationship but then advise you are not looking for anything serious, please move onto the next profile. Being in a Relationship and being serious go hand in hand! In saying that, relationships cannot be achieved overnight...it takes time. Time to get to know one another and see if you do want a relationship with that person, but don't waste someone's time when your intentions are not genuine in seeking a relationship). Now to me or should I say us. :-)I'm a petite, brunette who stands at exactly five feet tall who has a European background and has never been married or has any children. I have everything I want in my life and I'm only missing one thing! The warmth and comfort of having a male (ONLY 1) companion to enjoy life with.This profile might sound harsh and I apologize in advance!! But after swimming in this pond for to long I know what I want. What I'm looking for is a man who is OVER the age of 40 of European heritage, educated, who has everything he wants in his life (his home, work, friends, hobbies etc) but is missing that one special lady to share it with. I need someone who has all is ducks in a row (sort of speak). Who is financially and emotionally secure, who is honest, loyal, a great communicator, has a great sense of humour, who is comfortable in any enviornment and is genuinely seeking someone to share his life with. A man who was raised with traditional values which he still follows but is also modern in many ways about life. I'm looking for someone to compliment me NOT complete me! I'm searching for that special person who can give me that missing tingle you fell when you think about them.Please do not contact me if you are separated and going through a bitter divorce. I need someone who has let go of his past and is ready to move forward and begin something new and exciting!!Good luck to everyone!!PS ***last comment (or observation) I need to add....do men actually think that posing shirtless, flexing their biceps in front of a bathroom mirror (or any mirror for that matter) is going to get them more messages/dates? Really? Leave something to our imagination! The "first" date would occur after the "first" meeting. Once we meet and there is a mutual connection and we both would like to see each other again, hopefully the first date would follow with something unique and memorable. Meeting face to face for the first time over a cup of coffee or drink is not a date.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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