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Jena, 42

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About Me

I'm a single mom of two children over 18. I've worked in the hospitality business for 20 plus years and I finally did what I wanted to do for a long time and that was start my own business. I started from scratch and my business is finally taken off.! I am looking for a guy who is happy in life and in their own skin. I'm very loyal to those I care about. Please don't waste my time with some BS about what your into when in fact the only thing your into is yourself! Also, If your the type of man when in a relationship communicates and or ends friendships or relationships via text messaging or *** you don't have the maturity to do it in person like an adult don't waste my time!! Life is to short!!!!! It is what it is... You either have it or you don't and most probably don't. But, I wont hate you for trying! I want a man for who he is not what he has!! Just like I said... I want a man, I don't need a man!!! Big difference... I love life and being happy and as long as you can keep a smile on my face then everything else will fall in place. If you have no picture please don't even waste your time leaving me a message cause I am just going to delete it!!!! Sorry! Hmmmmmmmmmmm, we'll talk about that when and if that time comes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gillian

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been single for 3 years and haven't been in the dating world for quite some time. So I figured I can try this site out and see what happens I am a decent,honest, loving and caring woman and I would like to have a man to share my life with. I'm not into the bar scene!! So this makes it quite difficult to meet people. I'm tired of being alone and would like to have a man to go out with occasionally and see where it goes.I am not looking for a man to save me. I'd like to find someone that enjoys similar things and can introduce me to some new things. I'm always up for trying new things. I don't always want to go out,I also enjoy just relaxing at home watching a movie. I enjoy the outdoors. I like kayaking,I use to own 2 kayaks but unfortunately had to sell them 6 years ago. I like fishing, although I'm not very good at it. I also like going to the movies,or going to see live bands. One thing i have always liked no matter where I've lived is just getting in the car and going for long rides to no place in particular and if possible take back roads to get there.I'm pretty laid back and down to earth.I want to meet a man that is honest,not passive aggressive shows affection and likes to go out and enjoy life.I hate drama and playing games.. Also, I prefer not to date men with small children. All 3 of my kids are over 18 and I have heard horror stories from single friends that dated men with small children and ended up being part of major drama because of the ex-wife/girlfriend not wanting her kids around another woman.So if any of this sounds like someone you would like to meet, send me a message.Take Care First date,Go get coffee or go somewhere that we could talk and see if there is any chemistry. I don't believe in long complicated first dates just in case there is no chemistry neither person would feel obligated to finish date just to be polite.

  • Elfriede

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi there! Last time I was out here I didn't want anything serious...since then, things have changed. I am a very outgoing person and have two great kids who I have full custody of. I have an awesome job and a nice car and my own home. I enjoy hiking, riding motorcycles, and doing things with my kids. My kids are my world, and most of my time is spent at football, basketball, baseball, wrestling, cheerleading and dance practices, but I do have a little spare time that I would love to spend with someone special. I enjoy music of all kinds and like reality TV shows. I'm very outgoing and I have a lot of friends...both men and women...so if you get jealous easily, you probably shouldn't talk to me. I refuse to change for anyone...what you see is what you get. I don't speak in riddles and I mean what I say.Here's the thing...last time I was on this site, I heard from guys who were only looking for one thing. That's not me, so if that's what you want, please don't waste my time. Below is what I'm looking for:I would like to find someone who can be spontaneous. I don't have a lot of free time, so I need someone who can just pick up and go at a moments notice. If you have a motorcycle, that's a plus...if you have TWO motorcycles, well, that's even better! You must have your own vehicle...preferably a nice car or a nice 4 wheel drive truck (I'm a country girl at heart), and have your own place. I will not date black men, and will not date anyone who is separated or still married. You must be single. I prefer someone who is at least 4 inches taller than me with kind eyes. I believe that the eyes are the window to the soul, so your eyes are important to me. I'm overweight, but not unattractive, so I expect the same in a partner. You must be educated...speak correctly and spell correctly. If you send me a message that has a ton of misspelled words...don't expect a response from me. Don't expect to be around my kids for a while...my kids have been through too much over the last 2 years so I have no plans on introducing them to anyone until I know that person will be around for more than a few months.I will probably update this again in the next few days, but this is me in a nutshell. Although it was work related, I think it was then that I truly realized that I need someone in my life. I had so much fun in the evenings after work and I would love to have been able to share that experience with someone. I plan on taking a 2 week vacation next year and driving West with my kids with no set plans. I want my kids to get to see what is out there if they work hard and never stop believing they can accomplish anything if they set their mind to it. I would love to be able to share the whole experience with that special someone as well.Here's the thing...my schedule is pretty jam packed. Basketball has already started and baseball will be starting in November. As I've said before, my kids are my world and I would give my life for them. I was talking to a couple of friends this past week and realized that what I need is a "companion". I don't mind living alone because I'm an extremely independent woman, but I want someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, but someone who isn't going to get mad if I don't call them back right away. Someone who I can pick up the phone and call and say "Hey, you want to meet me for dinner and a movie tonight?" and they will ask where and when. Since I don't have a lot of free time, I just can't plan too far ahead. I usually work ***hours a day (I do work from home), so I don't get to go out much for adult fun. My life truly does revolve around my kids. But, I'm faithful. I don't lie, cheat, or steal and I expect the same from you. If you have taken the time to read all of this...drop me a line and lets see where it goes! :) I haven't been on a first date in a while...maybe meet at Starbucks for coffee to get to know each other then go from there.

  • Jacquetta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Comment se décrire soi-même en quelques paragraphes? Voilà je me lance... J'aime la lecture, regarder de bons films, écouter de la musique et danser, aller voir des spectacles (humour, pièces de théâtre, musique), voyager et m'occuper de mes petites bêtes bien sûr, mon chien est d'ailleurs très important pour moi et je n'accepterais pas de m'en départir. J'aime aussi beaucoup la nature, la campagne et le plein air. J'aimerais rencontrer quelqu'un de dynamique et énergique avec qui faire toutes les activités que j'ai mentionnées plus haut, qui m'encouragerait à me dépasser moi-même et à toujours aller plus loin. Un homme sportif mais sans exagération, c'est-à-dire qui tient à se garder en forme mais sans toutefois passer tout son temps libre à ne faire que des sports. Qu'est-ce qui me rend unique? Je crois que c'est mon excellent sens de l'humour, ma joie de vivre, mon ouverture d'esprit et mon amour de la vie... même lorsqu'elle n'est pas facile, je me dis toujours que ce n'est qu'un mauvais moment à passer et que çôt. La musique... j'aime plusieurs styles de musique - vieilles chansons d'amour françaises, musique des années 50, des années ***, disco, jazz, blues, etc. J'aime la danse sociale, je me cherche aussi un partenaire à ce niveau mais, je dirais que ce n'est pas un prérequis absolu. Là-ère quand même... j'espère vous rencontrez bientôt mes chers. Pour une première rencontre, j'aime que cela reste simple et amical. Par exemple, cela peut être dans un petit restaurant, devant un bon repas et une bonne bouteille de vin rouge. La discussion et les liens peuvent ainsi se tisser naturellement. J'apprécie un homme qui a un bon esprit d'initiative et qui sait faire les premiers pas dans une relation tout en restant naturel, sans forcer les choses... Je suis bien sûr ouverte à d'autres suggestions... il n'en tient à vous messieurs.

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