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Valarie, 44

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About Me

I was married for 20 years, and have been divorced for for 2 years. I have been on a few dates here and there, but am really tired of men only wanting one thing from me. I am NOT looking for a one night stand or to be someones booty call, I am wanting a real gentleman that cares more talking to, spending time with me, and getting to know me more than getting in my pants. If you agree to these terms please read on.....I do have children and they are my life, everything I have done this far in my life has been for them. I like to talk, watch movies, & genealogy. When with someone I like to hold hands, go for walks, cuddle, and do just about anything that includes being together. I am hoping to find someone to grow old with eventually. My idea of a southern night includes swinging on the front porch with a glass of sweet tea and good company watching the stars & moon. I am a pony tail, glasses, and sweats get out and work country girl...so if all you want is classy that's not me, except if requested!If you are interested in getting to know me let me know. Casual night out catch drinks & talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jedidah

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I would like to meet a man who appreciates that I love to enjoy life! I am impressed by a gentleman with integrity***who opens doors, a bit old fashioned, and is polite in general. and FUN :) I love travel and explore new places. I like good restaurants, movies, concerts. I enjoy most types of music...Only respond if you have a pic and sincere interest/intentions. Not interested in weeks of texting or messages, prefer to talk or meet for coffee, etc... Coffee or appetizers/drink.

  • Nathalie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    .I enjoy the outdoor and love the water, camping, fishing, want to learn to shoot. I also enjoy family time and just staying home and watching a movie and having a cookout. I have 3 boys at home 14, 15 and 17 they are my life and what inspires me. I am constantly setting goals for myself and looking to improve myself to make our lives better. I have been single for the past 9 years, didn't really feel the need to have a relationship because I was focused on my children and trying to improve our lives. I have got to the point in my life where I know it would be good for my children and myself to have that special man around that would be a good influence to my children and a good companion for myself. My children are getting older and I don't look forward to the day that I will be by myself and think it would be good for my boys to have a man around, but for the most part I am looking for that person that I can spend the rest of my life with. I am not into the bar scene or sitting at home and drinking at night I am basically a very family orientated person don't need any drama or dishonesty.

  • Shamika

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

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