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Valarie, 44

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About Me

I was married for 20 years, and have been divorced for for 2 years. I have been on a few dates here and there, but am really tired of men only wanting one thing from me. I am NOT looking for a one night stand or to be someones booty call, I am wanting a real gentleman that cares more talking to, spending time with me, and getting to know me more than getting in my pants. If you agree to these terms please read on.....I do have children and they are my life, everything I have done this far in my life has been for them. I like to talk, watch movies, & genealogy. When with someone I like to hold hands, go for walks, cuddle, and do just about anything that includes being together. I am hoping to find someone to grow old with eventually. My idea of a southern night includes swinging on the front porch with a glass of sweet tea and good company watching the stars & moon. I am a pony tail, glasses, and sweats get out and work country girl...so if all you want is classy that's not me, except if requested!If you are interested in getting to know me let me know. Casual night out catch drinks & talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Patricia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    "; - Bob Marley( maybe my view of relationships is old fashioned. Maybe what I think is not too much to expect is asking way too much of the other person. I dont require anything that I myself do not give as well. Maybe alot of people have become desensitized by "internet dating". ) I am old fashioned in the sense that I believe in true Integrity in a relationship. Communication, consistency and making each other a priority. I also believe in maturity and mutual respect. I have made the mistake of forsaking my morals and had nothing to show for that but disregard and disrespect. It is a mistake I chose not to make again, so if you are not able to wait for sexual intimacy then I am not the one for you. )Strong, Mature, Low Maintenance, Very Hard Working Female. Would Like To Meet a Mature, Stabile, Self-Sufficient Man Who Is Not Insecure and Who Is Able To Handle Getting To Know a Woman and Knows How To Just Be Happy. A Man Who Knows How To Enjoy Moments.The World Is Stressful Enough. I Choose To be Happy In Spite of it All. Oh, and Mentally and Emotionally Healthy Would Be So Nice. I Am Also Seeking That Rare Genuine Man That Truly Loves Affection and Being Thoughtful and Who Appreciates It in Return. The Man Who Loves Walking Arm in Arm and Cuddling Up At Home. The man who is able to focus on One woman and build that indestructable bond. Who does not still have unfinished 'business' with the ex wife and ex girlfriends. I know how to make the man in my life a top of my list priority.. Can you make me your priority in return? If so I would love to hear from you. :)Smile At a Stranger Today. It May Be The Only Time Anyone Has Smiled At That Person In a Long Time. Make Eye Contact and Say Hello. It May Be the Only Time Anyone Has Acknowledged That Person In Ages. Help an Elderly or Impaired Person With Something We Younger Able Bodies With Our Good Vision and Clear Hearing Take For Granted Regularly.Be WellBe SafeHarm None We can decide together

  • Keli

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I've decided at this point in my life that I don't have time for stupidity and head games. I want to have a great time doing whatever I want and whatever happens, happens. I'm not desperate, and I want someone who is monogamous and is both my best friend and lover. I won't settle for less....I would type out all my wonderful and irresistable qualities, but are you really going to believe me? Doubtful. I bet you would believe my flaws though wouldn't you? so here you go...Im a woman so therefore I can be a bit emo at times, I am a procrastinator, I'm frequently late, and I hate making decisions.t on a shingle) or any other fashion of such. I love food and I used to be a real fatty. I have implemented a permanent repair to that situation--nope, I won't ever be fat again. I do my best to be an optimist, but often my pessimism gets in the way. Yes, I admit I have many other flaws but you can bet the bank I work on bettering myself every day.Moving on....I will do anything 3 times before I decide I won't do it, go there, or eat it again.I love bad boys but they always tear the he11 out of my heart-which is unfortunately worn very exposed on my sleeve. I love a hot sexy Harley and want one of my own. I love Geminis but they are bad for me, and I love Scorpios - no disclaimer for them except they can be just as ruthless as a Gemini can.I'm educated and articulate, and would appreciate the same in you.I have an extensive bucket list and Iove to travel. Unfortunately my passport has yet to receive its first stamp.If we meet, please be real, no fake front, I pinky promise to be my own GENUINE self.Please, serious inquiries only, I don't care to get a "pic of your dic" and casual sex is NOT a reason to contact me...... OK?Additionally, and I'm sorry for this, but FYI looks DO matter. (maybe I'm not so sorry, it's just the truth)Please don't bother with me if you are a psychopath, a sociopath, a criminal, a convict, or a sexual deviant, narcissists also need NOT apply!I would very much like if you had a FULL set of teeth, straight ones preferred but I do admit to being slightly flexible here.Please be able to spell. Additionally at the very least, understand the use of proper grammar.; ax is a noun, not a verb, and "Ima" is not a word. To, two, and too all have their place, as do their, there, and they're. Get my drift? If you are interested in striking up a conversation with me, please send me a REAL message.... find something better to say than cheap crap like "hi" "whats up" or "how you doin" ADDENDUM: IF WE GO OUT ON A DATE AND YOU HAVE THE NERVE TO BE SO RUDE AS TO TEXT AND TALK ON YOUR PHONE OR CHECK meetville ON YOUR PHONE WHILE WERE TOGETHER, THEN DON'T COUNT ON OUR DATE TO HAVE ANY REPEATS. You're the man, you make the plan....Show me your originality ;)And whatever it might be, simply make it fun.Show me what sets you apart from the masses of sh!t talkers and bullsh!tters.....

  • Shyla

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm seriously ready to settle down and find my best friend and partner in crime to share my life with.....I gotta be honest I am a humongous pain in the ass sometimes.I'm guarded and jaded and damaged but I think if you look past my imperfections you will see that I'm pretty friggen awesome! I'm sweet and silly and extremely sarcastic and I don't play games or deal with anyone's bullshit! Anyway......drop me a line if you're interested in getting to know me.P.S. I am in no way looking to hookup and I'm not interested in a F buddy so don't bother messaging me if that's what you're looking for!!! Grrrrrr!!! Dinner and drinks or coffee and conversation. Something fun and casual. Don't expect me to greet you with my vagina! I don't screw on the first date! Definitely the second date though. Lol

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