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Carry, 44

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About Me

A guy on here wanted to know why I'd try this "waste of time website," when I could find a decent, honest guy more easily in the supermarket or walking the dog (I don't have a dog :/ ). I responded that it makes sense, and sometimes I do meet guys shopping, but not my guy, I guess. I can, however, see how people can become really cynical around here.I've been divorced almost 7 yrs and had a couple of on again, off again relationships. Nothing too dramatic. My sons are 16 & 18, so get around on their own, leaving me with some free time, so long as there's something to eat and everything's clean. It can't hurt, though, right? Funny thing is, I see MANY of the same photos today as I did years ago. This can't be a good sign. Seriously, though, if your pics are the same as 7 years ago, ummm, just ask your kid or neighbor to click a couple and update your profile. I'm definitely not a serial dater. Personally, I find dating exhausting. If I'm going on a date, I have thought about it and give it my all. I do know some men AND women who date whenever possible with whomever will have them, just to get out and get a meal and maybe get lucky. I suppose if that's the game plan and everyone knows the rules, then who am I to judge. I'd rather chill at home and make dinner and go for a walk or order a movie. We all have to like our own company if anyone else is going to. As much as I, like most, want someone (just one) special in life, I'm not so desperate to just settle. We're not going to hit it off with everyone we meet, hence us 'POF repeaters.'Wanted: T*A*L*L, loyal, refined, funny, not-stuffy, attractive guy who's kind to kids, animals and the elderly, outgoing, been-there-done-that, appreciates when his girlfriend happily goes out of her way to accommodate him and handle all those little details and he reciprocates every so often with kind, thoughtful gestures (pick up a gal of milk, send a random cute text) and knows that life is just too short to hold a grudge (always kiss/make up same day)...and honest - with himself and others. Like your recliner? Then share it with me. I appreciate a man who's equally committed to family, friends, career and significant other, not necessarily in that order ;). I can be a girly-girl, but mostly enjoy being one of the guys in cool shoes. I could easily watch football all day Sunday, but will probably be in the kitchen during commercials. I can be really sarcastic, so know when it's just 'a funny.' I love to be at home, but love to get out and people-watch. Being out watching a game & eating fat food allows us to randomly talk to strangers and gain a new perspective and oftentimes appreciate home lol. I'll try anything once, except camping.Prefer not to view your selfies, half naked, in the bathroom or of dogs/cats/sunsets/gardens/your vehicle/tattoos/house-condo-apt/cropped out exes/children. Have unobstructed RECENT pics of YOU with your handsome face....take off the glasses and baseball cap. "Hi, Sexy" or "You're hot" or "Let's do this" or "Ohhh, baby!" are not attractive. We're all adults here... We can meet at the park and read the bible for a bit over some chai tea.Or...an adult beverage at a local pub over perverse conversation...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have been divorced for quite some time now and I'm at the age where I would like a permanent loving and healthy relationship. I have 2 daughters ***that are with me every other weekend. I'm not into the bar scene but its nice to go out once in a while. I enjoy different types of foods, fishing, a good cup of coffee, camping, the beach, road trips and live music and dancing. I mostly listen to country music, but I can handle almost everything else. Depends on the mood. Im not afraid of PDA, and neither should you. I'm a caring person and I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm open to suggestions...

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I Really just want to meet someone, get to know one another,and see what happens with no expectations. I would eventually like a committed relationship, but realize that takes time. I am an open minded person who lives by the golden rule. I value diversity in all aspects of my life. I am a very social and affectionate person, but I like my alone time as well. I consider myself to be fun loving and conservatively adventurous. Honesty is one of the few requirements I have. I find intelligent educated men very appealing. I like to try new things. I have a wide spectrum of interests and am looking for someone to share experiences with. Thanks and good luck to all. Probably meet for a drink in a not too loud place and see where it goes

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Well as you can tell from my profile info, I am a single mother of ***yr old). Would love to explore much more of the state as time allows. And would love to have someone explore it with us.I have my daughter full time except an occasional trips to see her dad out west once a year or so, so you have to want a kid in your life full time too - please actually think about this before you say yes. I am more than willing to have couple time alone but she will eventually factor in and be around most of the time.I have dated men of all different physiques and I have always found something to appreciate with all of them. From thin to teddy bear, just be ok with you and healthy/clean. I work every day to be ok with me but still work to be better. I am very serious about taking off my extra pounds and have made progress. I am eating healthier and have cut out the junk so it is helpful if this is your mindset too. I love to grill and do so several times per week; fish, chicken, vegetables etc. I'm friendly and easy to get along with. I am working on worrying less and having more fun.... a tough thing for a responsible single parent. I don't want/can't have more children but mixing families is good with me. I would like to be with someone who likes to be appreciated and also appreciates others. I think that being in a relationship means you spend quality time with each other and consider each other in most things.I am an affectionate person. Love to touch and be touched, without being obscene of course. I have finally figured out that I am sexy in and out of bed and enjoy the things that go with that. I would like to be with a man who can at least keep up with me when we get to that point. I am in my prime after all. I work in the healthcare field and I enjoy my work. I generally like people and find them interesting. I would love to have someone around to have another set of eyes to see the world around me with. I enjoy dating and going out but that does not mean that I would like to spend a lot of money every time we do something. I am open to a lot of different things. One of the reasons that I would like to date is to have someone always there to do those things with that come up all the time; like a comedy show, local music presentation, and holiday gatherings (like fireworks on the 4th). I also really enjoy movies and like to watch one in a theatre once in a while.I read a lot - share your favorites with me. ***\\***Please ***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile if***You Know***\\\***Someone ***\\***Who has Died ***\***or has been Affected ***\\\***By Cancer***\\\We miss you Max! For a first date I usually like to keep it simple and face to face.

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