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About Me

A guy on here wanted to know why I'd try this "waste of time website," when I could find a decent, honest guy more easily in the supermarket or walking the dog (I don't have a dog :/ ). I responded that it makes sense, and sometimes I do meet guys shopping, but not my guy, I guess. I can, however, see how people can become really cynical around here.I've been divorced almost 7 yrs and had a couple of on again, off again relationships. Nothing too dramatic. My sons are 16 & 18, so get around on their own, leaving me with some free time, so long as there's something to eat and everything's clean. It can't hurt, though, right? Funny thing is, I see MANY of the same photos today as I did years ago. This can't be a good sign. Seriously, though, if your pics are the same as 7 years ago, ummm, just ask your kid or neighbor to click a couple and update your profile. I'm definitely not a serial dater. Personally, I find dating exhausting. If I'm going on a date, I have thought about it and give it my all. I do know some men AND women who date whenever possible with whomever will have them, just to get out and get a meal and maybe get lucky. I suppose if that's the game plan and everyone knows the rules, then who am I to judge. I'd rather chill at home and make dinner and go for a walk or order a movie. We all have to like our own company if anyone else is going to. As much as I, like most, want someone (just one) special in life, I'm not so desperate to just settle. We're not going to hit it off with everyone we meet, hence us 'POF repeaters.'Wanted: T*A*L*L, loyal, refined, funny, not-stuffy, attractive guy who's kind to kids, animals and the elderly, outgoing, been-there-done-that, appreciates when his girlfriend happily goes out of her way to accommodate him and handle all those little details and he reciprocates every so often with kind, thoughtful gestures (pick up a gal of milk, send a random cute text) and knows that life is just too short to hold a grudge (always kiss/make up same day)...and honest - with himself and others. Like your recliner? Then share it with me. I appreciate a man who's equally committed to family, friends, career and significant other, not necessarily in that order ;). I can be a girly-girl, but mostly enjoy being one of the guys in cool shoes. I could easily watch football all day Sunday, but will probably be in the kitchen during commercials. I can be really sarcastic, so know when it's just 'a funny.' I love to be at home, but love to get out and people-watch. Being out watching a game & eating fat food allows us to randomly talk to strangers and gain a new perspective and oftentimes appreciate home lol. I'll try anything once, except camping.Prefer not to view your selfies, half naked, in the bathroom or of dogs/cats/sunsets/gardens/your vehicle/tattoos/house-condo-apt/cropped out exes/children. Have unobstructed RECENT pics of YOU with your handsome face....take off the glasses and baseball cap. "Hi, Sexy" or "You're hot" or "Let's do this" or "Ohhh, baby!" are not attractive. We're all adults here... We can meet at the park and read the bible for a bit over some chai tea.Or...an adult beverage at a local pub over perverse conversation...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stefany

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an honest, sweet, kind hearted girl. I like spending time with my daughter, movies, BBQ's by the pool, getting a room at the beach, sports, shopping, talking on the phone, playing WII and whatever else comes my way. I have a stable job and I am independent. I don't like fake people, dishonest pepole, or selfish people. I am over the club scene, but enjoy sports bars and drinking and hanging out with friends. I think a good first date would be at a sports bar like Chilis or Applebees.

  • Shreya

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi handsome fish! Thought I'd give meetville a try to meet new people, have fun dating, and hope that someone I meet along the journey will be my forever best friend. I hope to find someone that can be my play mate, friend, encouragement, and eventually my forever love. Being the realist that I am I know that all of that takes time. Our world seems to be so busy and meeting people so difficult. But quite frankly, the whole process is sort of stressful and not natural. Anyone else feel that way? Anyway, I'll give it a shot.I'm the professional during the week and come Friday I like to have my fun through the weekend. Not that I don't have fun any other time, just time seems more limited. Most of us that work I think are that way. I take time for myself, working out, spending time with my dog, and building my business while I still have a full time job. Saying that, I hope that I can find someone that is not just a weekend relationship but also can fit time in for us during the week. I love quality time with that someone special. If you like to get out for bike rides, walk, go to the dog beach, paddle board, or other active outdoor activities that can be done together, I'm all in. On the weekends, I like to fill my time outdoors, spending time with friends, enjoying live local music, watching sports depending on the season, or kicking back having a craft beer and shooting darts. Long bike rides to destinations which end in a good cup of coffee or paddle boarding exploring God's wildlife are all up my ally. I'm a pretty casual person but do like the occasional nice night out. But I have to admit I'm more comfortable at a sports bar, BBQ joint, or beach side restaurant than a night club or froo-froo martini bar. That's the sporty side of me. But I am classy and do know how to conduct myself in all sorts of situations. I'm serious when I have to be but love to act silly when the occasion allows for it. Laughter is great medicine. I love people and need my time to get out and be in the crowd or groups but then I need my quiet down time too, with just the two of us. I hope to find someone that is compatible with that. I'm also usually a morning person, not a night owl but do like the occasional late nights. I love coffee in the morning, crave sushi sometimes, and enjoy the tastes of fine wines and craft beers. Having said all that, you must know that I am a Christian and it's important that I share the same beliefs with the person I want to spend that rest of my life with (I'm in no rush but would like to be married again). It is too big of a part of my life that, lacking that compatibility, I know would not be a good thing. Compatibility in all areas is important, even faith. Best wishes on your journey on meetville. If you like what you see and "hear" on my profile, drop me a line. There is much more to me that I can't put in words here but that is part of the journey to find out :) I like to call it the first meeting. Coffee or appetizers/drinks. A place where we can talk to get to know each other then decide if there is enough interest to see each other again. Then the first date :)

  • Julietta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    i dont know where to begin. I am a single woman in my forties. I have two grown children. I work hard during the week so i can enjoy my self on the weekends. and just being lazy on sundays if i want. the first date......................dinner and a movie................backroad riding drinking a cold one................whatever we decide to do!!!!!

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