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Carry, 44
United States, Alaska, Juneau

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A guy on here wanted to know why I'd try this "waste of time website," when I could find a decent, honest guy more easily in the supermarket or walking the dog (I don't have a dog :/ ). I responded that it makes sense, and sometimes I do meet guys shopping, but not my guy, I guess. I can, however, see how people can become really cynical around here.I've been divorced almost 7 yrs and had a couple of on again, off again relationships. Nothing too dramatic. My sons are 16 & 18, so get around on their own, leaving me with some free time, so long as there's something to eat and everything's clean. It can't hurt, though, right? Funny thing is, I see MANY of the same photos today as I did years ago. This can't be a good sign. Seriously, though, if your pics are the same as 7 years ago, ummm, just ask your kid or neighbor to click a couple and update your profile. I'm definitely not a serial dater. Personally, I find dating exhausting. If I'm going on a date, I have thought about it and give it my all. I do know some men AND women who date whenever possible with whomever will have them, just to get out and get a meal and maybe get lucky. I suppose if that's the game plan and everyone knows the rules, then who am I to judge. I'd rather chill at home and make dinner and go for a walk or order a movie. We all have to like our own company if anyone else is going to. As much as I, like most, want someone (just one) special in life, I'm not so desperate to just settle. We're not going to hit it off with everyone we meet, hence us 'POF repeaters.'Wanted: T*A*L*L, loyal, refined, funny, not-stuffy, attractive guy who's kind to kids, animals and the elderly, outgoing, been-there-done-that, appreciates when his girlfriend happily goes out of her way to accommodate him and handle all those little details and he reciprocates every so often with kind, thoughtful gestures (pick up a gal of milk, send a random cute text) and knows that life is just too short to hold a grudge (always kiss/make up same day)...and honest - with himself and others. Like your recliner? Then share it with me. I appreciate a man who's equally committed to family, friends, career and significant other, not necessarily in that order ;). I can be a girly-girl, but mostly enjoy being one of the guys in cool shoes. I could easily watch football all day Sunday, but will probably be in the kitchen during commercials. I can be really sarcastic, so know when it's just 'a funny.' I love to be at home, but love to get out and people-watch. Being out watching a game & eating fat food allows us to randomly talk to strangers and gain a new perspective and oftentimes appreciate home lol. I'll try anything once, except camping.Prefer not to view your selfies, half naked, in the bathroom or of dogs/cats/sunsets/gardens/your vehicle/tattoos/house-condo-apt/cropped out exes/children. Have unobstructed RECENT pics of YOU with your handsome face....take off the glasses and baseball cap. "Hi, Sexy" or "You're hot" or "Let's do this" or "Ohhh, baby!" are not attractive. We're all adults here... We can meet at the park and read the bible for a bit over some chai tea.Or...an adult beverage at a local pub over perverse conversation...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So I am back on the market. The boyfriend after that turned out to be married and just this week I decided to delete my profile. But I still don't have a boyfriend! Well educated and well traveled. I am happy with who I am, but am always working to improve my body and mind. My to-do list includes learning to golf, dragonboat, fly, scuba dive & make salsa from my garden. Better yet, let's learn something together. So please be willing to hit the road for an adventure....but am open to suggestions. I haven't been to South America, Australia or the Maldives.- Only this morning I found out (late September) that we finally have a date to bury him. He was a jet fighter and I'm going to take flying lessons soon.Let's see. I am passionate and flexible. I am comfortable in pearls & silk or paint-covered jeans. You should be too but I'll wear the pearls, and maybe even the silk. On New Year's Eve I dressed to the nines in a glimmering gown & glittering heels and enjoyed Pink Martini at the Schnitz! I am height-weight proportionate, employed, a single mother & a homeowner. I work out daily in order to give you a reason to keep looking.; really dangly earrings. I'm happy, strong, stable, warmly devoted to my friends & family. You should be too.You should be a happy soul who is kind, open minded, respectful of women and balanced. Energy, intelligence and empathy go a long way with me. A sense of humor is a plus. Make me laugh, and I'm yours. Teach me musical theory and I'll never leave you. Please be able to carry your half of the conversation.Pascal wrote that "love has its reasons, of which reason has no part....";reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions." If you can appreciate these perspectives than we may have a foundation.If you decide to write to me, please do it well. That means you should take the time to write something about yourself and be mindful of spelling. Women will tell you that the details are vital. Three-word introductions will not be responded to...courtship takes a bit of effort these days, doesn't it? Be well, warm & hopeful!C. & I love the DC area for its history and architecture. I am a reluctant dater but in JULY between trips I started dating again. On every meet & greet since what I've been told is that I look much better than my pictures depict me. Until I post new photos I will share that I am a bit lighter than the big hip pictures here, but I still very hourglass shaped! This is the year I finally get out and meet people! A first date would probably be coffee, dinner or a glass of wine. Life can be so random and so enticing, can't it?Later dates?In fall, I would like to share a meal, a laugh and make angels in fallen red leaves while I read you poetry.In winter, I want to share a meal, good music, and find snow that makes us feel alive. In spring, I want to share a meal, merry words, a bouquet of flowers and a wealth of stories that make up our lives.And with every season I want you to remember the first time we kissed, the moment of unspoken passion that we shared under a full moon. The moment I trembled and you surged with hope.So pick your season and your words. Bring your truth, hopes, joy and passion.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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  • Beatrix from Juneau | Woman | 43 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Well as you can tell from my profile info, I am a single mother of ***yr old). Would love to explore much more of the state as time allows. And would love to have someone explore it with us.I have my daughter full time except an occasional trips to see her dad out west once a year or so, so you have to want a kid in your life full time too - please actually think about this before you say yes. I am more than willing to have couple time alone but she will eventually factor in and be around most of the time.I have dated men of all different physiques and I have always found something to appreciate with all of them. From thin to teddy bear, just be ok with you and healthy/clean. I work every day to be ok with me but still work to be better. I am very serious about taking off my extra pounds and have made progress. I am eating healthier and have cut out the junk so it is helpful if this is your mindset too. I love to grill and do so several times per week; fish, chicken, vegetables etc. I'm friendly and easy to get along with. I am working on worrying less and having more fun.... a tough thing for a responsible single parent. I don't want/can't have more children but mixing families is good with me. I would like to be with someone who likes to be appreciated and also appreciates others. I think that being in a relationship means you spend quality time with each other and consider each other in most things.I am an affectionate person. Love to touch and be touched, without being obscene of course. I have finally figured out that I am sexy in and out of bed and enjoy the things that go with that. I would like to be with a man who can at least keep up with me when we get to that point. I am in my prime after all. I work in the healthcare field and I enjoy my work. I generally like people and find them interesting. I would love to have someone around to have another set of eyes to see the world around me with. I enjoy dating and going out but that does not mean that I would like to spend a lot of money every time we do something. I am open to a lot of different things. One of the reasons that I would like to date is to have someone always there to do those things with that come up all the time; like a comedy show, local music presentation, and holiday gatherings (like fireworks on the 4th). I also really enjoy movies and like to watch one in a theatre once in a while.I read a lot - share your favorites with me. ***\\***Please ***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile if***You Know***\\\***Someone ***\\***Who has Died ***\***or has been Affected ***\\\***By Cancer***\\\We miss you Max! For a first date I usually like to keep it simple and face to face.

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