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Carry, 44

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About Me

A guy on here wanted to know why I'd try this "waste of time website," when I could find a decent, honest guy more easily in the supermarket or walking the dog (I don't have a dog :/ ). I responded that it makes sense, and sometimes I do meet guys shopping, but not my guy, I guess. I can, however, see how people can become really cynical around here.I've been divorced almost 7 yrs and had a couple of on again, off again relationships. Nothing too dramatic. My sons are 16 & 18, so get around on their own, leaving me with some free time, so long as there's something to eat and everything's clean. It can't hurt, though, right? Funny thing is, I see MANY of the same photos today as I did years ago. This can't be a good sign. Seriously, though, if your pics are the same as 7 years ago, ummm, just ask your kid or neighbor to click a couple and update your profile. I'm definitely not a serial dater. Personally, I find dating exhausting. If I'm going on a date, I have thought about it and give it my all. I do know some men AND women who date whenever possible with whomever will have them, just to get out and get a meal and maybe get lucky. I suppose if that's the game plan and everyone knows the rules, then who am I to judge. I'd rather chill at home and make dinner and go for a walk or order a movie. We all have to like our own company if anyone else is going to. As much as I, like most, want someone (just one) special in life, I'm not so desperate to just settle. We're not going to hit it off with everyone we meet, hence us 'POF repeaters.'Wanted: T*A*L*L, loyal, refined, funny, not-stuffy, attractive guy who's kind to kids, animals and the elderly, outgoing, been-there-done-that, appreciates when his girlfriend happily goes out of her way to accommodate him and handle all those little details and he reciprocates every so often with kind, thoughtful gestures (pick up a gal of milk, send a random cute text) and knows that life is just too short to hold a grudge (always kiss/make up same day)...and honest - with himself and others. Like your recliner? Then share it with me. I appreciate a man who's equally committed to family, friends, career and significant other, not necessarily in that order ;). I can be a girly-girl, but mostly enjoy being one of the guys in cool shoes. I could easily watch football all day Sunday, but will probably be in the kitchen during commercials. I can be really sarcastic, so know when it's just 'a funny.' I love to be at home, but love to get out and people-watch. Being out watching a game & eating fat food allows us to randomly talk to strangers and gain a new perspective and oftentimes appreciate home lol. I'll try anything once, except camping.Prefer not to view your selfies, half naked, in the bathroom or of dogs/cats/sunsets/gardens/your vehicle/tattoos/house-condo-apt/cropped out exes/children. Have unobstructed RECENT pics of YOU with your handsome face....take off the glasses and baseball cap. "Hi, Sexy" or "You're hot" or "Let's do this" or "Ohhh, baby!" are not attractive. We're all adults here... We can meet at the park and read the bible for a bit over some chai tea.Or...an adult beverage at a local pub over perverse conversation...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Morgan

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    -profit association that puts on cycling events fot wounded soldiers, and yes, I still have a southern accent. I will also say that i'm worth the time stuck in traffic to see me. I would describe myself as a highly energetic female who loves God, Family, and Fitness. (yes, in that order) I spend most of my time off either on a bike ( the kind you peddle) or running. When I take time to relax I love horror movies, reading, and listening to music (rock, heavy metal, techno, some country, and contemporary christian). I have 18 tattoos (just got a new one on 25 JAN), two cats, one Son (who is 25), and one Granddaughter (who is 2). I am a former High School teacher so I have a BS in Biology and I am currently working on my MS in Sports Performance. What I would like to find is someone who will share my passions both in and outdoors. I want a man who values fitness and a healthy body as much as I do. Who has ambitions and goals in life. I have a good sense of humor and I hope you do too. I'm not looking to hook up, to be anyone's sugar mama, or to find a sugar daddy. I am looking for someone to share my life with. I'm sorry if this turns some people off but I am not going to be attracted to you if you don't take care of yourself, if you are not reasonably smart, if you use tobacco of any kind, if you ALWAYS act like a big kid, if you are mean to anyone, or if you are not at least moderately interested in cycling and/or running. Also, you young men flatter me..but... I have a 25 year old son.... so I don't date men that are that young....I don't want to take care of another child man... ***is about as young as I will date..... What makes me unique? I am addicted to pop-sicles, fruity sugarless gum, and old Saturday Night Live? It depends on the weather and our interests (of course). I think a nice bike ride *** the beach would be a great start. I enjoy good food that is combined with stimulating conversation with a little flirting thrown in.

  • Gaylene

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    You think women can drive you crazy? Guess what... I'll drive you nuts!Just a thought.. kidding.. I think.. ;)Another thought - what are the chances here for us to bump into a man (or woman) of our dreams and not to walk by? Hmmm...So here I am. Walking. Hoping to meet strong, honest, good hearted, good looking guy to enjoy life with. To make each other laugh. To drive each other sane (or insane??) To find a great love.. Simple. Nothing fancy and uncomfortable.

  • Sherry

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy life! but I would like to have a great man by my side to share the happy moments and enjoy life even more.So here I am, looking for a man who will share my love for jazz and classical music, who is practical yet romantic, well-read and a pleasure to talk to, respectful, who feels comfortable in suits as well as in jeans.I am of Eastern European descent. I have a great job, my own place and have a car. I've worked hard to get to where I am, so I'm not looking for someone to support financially. Nor am I looking for a "sugar daddy". lol Please have your feet firm on the ground, be past your middle age crisis and be ready to accept the fact that I have a child.I am a normal person, with my own good and bad days, successes and failures, joys and ...joys :) I love reading and travelling; my favourite wine is Chablis; I enjoy good restaurants and a properly made espresso with a bit of foam on top...Well, I am what I am...and if you like what you've just read, you are welcome to drop me a line :)If I don't respond to your message, please no offence! It just means that I didn't feel this "click".

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