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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    About me... Hmm I am out of a very bad abusive relationship, no I don't hate men just that man. God works w me daily to forgive n believe happiness does exist. I work a lot of crazy hours due to my job. It's hard to keep a relationship but harder to keep a home without it.I met an amazing man on here and appreciate him for taking the time to get to know me despite my past n work schedule. However after a few great months it fell apart. I wish him all the luck finding the great girl he deserves.I truly believe everything happens for a reason. Blessin or lesson.I read the other day that u don't realize how boring u are until someone asks u what u do for fun lol how true is that?!?!I sat and pondered that for a moment n realized I need to find myself again so..This is what I've learned...Thanks to a friend I have finally tasted cheesecake, well a slight sliver gag but still refuse to touch coffee lol. and I joined a gym. I cant truly love anyone til I love myself n a better me is what I want for both me n the man I eventually meet.;I just haven't met u yet" ...And last but not least if yer not looking for a real relationships please don't contact me. I'm not here for a one night stand or casual dates for flings. Let's b honest were adults, chances are I can have a better sexual experience by myself than I can w some meaningless romp that's gonna leave me diseased, regretful n dirty. I have a job, home, car n bills so I don't need yers. I won't put my baggage on yers but hopefully we can help each other unpack.Oh and I'm a sucker for sappy movies, cry during wedding shows n laugh during reality showsPs... I know I'm short but I'd like to wear heels at my wedding if that ever happens so please decent height also pics showing off yer car or weights don't impress me. I'm interested in you not what u own or can do. Dying to go zip lining .. Made reservations but had to cancel due to break up so any takers?

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-41

    Hi! My name is Uhyt. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Juneau, Alaska, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a fun loving, outgoing, active person. I enjoy the outdoors when it is not so hot and love to travel but also like down-time activites such as reading, cooking and watching movies. I am a very honest, open person who is not into games or guys who can not express themselves. I am a loyal friend and value my family deeply. I am looking for a man to share himself openly and honestly. I believe respect must be mutual. This does not mean conforming to fit or losing yourself in your partners ideals but being able to enjoy being yourself and appreciating and supporting each others differences. I am happy where I am right now but am looking for someone to experience life with.

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