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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Heidi

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a fun loving- girl who enjoys spending time with friends and family. I seem to always be on the go for everyone else. I love my job and coach cheerleading during the football season. I have two teenage boys who are soon going off to college. After giving 110% to raising them to be fine men- it's time for me to live a little and hopefully find that special someone. I love to go on adventures, road trips, especially on motorcycles, and will try just about anything once.I'm new to the dating scene- especially online-but as I stated prior- ill try anything. I want to have fun! I am a people person and enjoy anything from a cup of coffee - to dancing to live music. I think if with the right person a date does not need to be full of glamor and frills- it's about getting to know the true person and building a friendship.

  • Chantell

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single Mom of 2 ,I enjoy quite evenings at home or spending time wit the family . I like to go fishing, beach, trail riding, Cook outs. I prefer listening to Country music but will listen to hip hop . I am looking for a honest man who is not into playing mind games and who is Drama free... want to know more just ask.

  • Sherry

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy life! but I would like to have a great man by my side to share the happy moments and enjoy life even more.So here I am, looking for a man who will share my love for jazz and classical music, who is practical yet romantic, well-read and a pleasure to talk to, respectful, who feels comfortable in suits as well as in jeans.I am of Eastern European descent. I have a great job, my own place and have a car. I've worked hard to get to where I am, so I'm not looking for someone to support financially. Nor am I looking for a "sugar daddy". lol Please have your feet firm on the ground, be past your middle age crisis and be ready to accept the fact that I have a child.I am a normal person, with my own good and bad days, successes and failures, joys and ...joys :) I love reading and travelling; my favourite wine is Chablis; I enjoy good restaurants and a properly made espresso with a bit of foam on top...Well, I am what I am...and if you like what you've just read, you are welcome to drop me a line :)If I don't respond to your message, please no offence! It just means that I didn't feel this "click".

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