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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm ambivalent about meetville. Not putting a lot of time into this profile, since I'm unsure I will remain on this site. I am single and am looking to see what dating options are out there. Between work, working out, and taking care of my house, my schedule is pretty busy. Despite that I make time for family and friends regularly. I love my job and despite it being a very busy few months, I wouldn't trade it. I work with children and adults, some specialty areas are loss and trauma. Currently, my workout of choice is Crossfit, pretty intense, but a lot of fun. I'm also doing an 8 week Paleo Challenge. In the summer I enjoy gardening and create a peaceful backyard patio that tends to be the gathering place on our block. Especially love being able to use my own herbs and peppers when I cook (which is a lot). I love to travel.-central part of the country. Hoping to eventually see more of Europe and South America eventually.I'm looking for a guy who works hard but also enjoys his downtime, someone who is active and strives to stay healthy. I think in an ideal relationship, two people choose to be together because it enriches their lives. It's not about needing the other person but wanting to spend time together and share life experiences.If you message me and I do not respond, please move on and do not take offense. And if you are over 50 or have not been to the gym in over a year, please do not message me. I look young for my 41 years, I am not interested in someone who looks as if he could be my father. If you have multiple pictures of your pet, we are probably not the best match. I like animals, but I do not want to sleep with them. My favorite pic is the bathroom selfie that includes an open toilet seat. I hate the disclaimer, but it seems necessary at this point. Best of luck to you in your search.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Most importantly I am a mother of 2 wonderful kids! I have a son who is 10 and a daughter who is 9. They have been faced with a lot of changes the past 2 years but they have bounced back better than most adults would! My kids, family and friends are very important to me and I am very blessed to have each and everyone of them in my life. I am not looking for a relationship at this point but I would love to meet new friends and hang out with other single people my age. I am easy going and not caught up in the superficial things in life. I like hanging out with friends, going out to dinner or just hanging out on the couch with some popcorn and a movie! So if you are looking to meet a new friend and your not just looking for a "hook up".... let me know! To me a first date should be about getting to know each other without all the pressure and expectations of it becoming something serious! I would be happy taking a walk down town or having coffee! Doesn't have to be dinner and candle light! I don't have to be treated like a princess to be happy. All I want is someone who allows me to be myself.

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