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Opal, 41

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About Me

It has been brought to my attention that I should state right up front that I am a city person only interested in ";. Ok? Ok.So, It's summer and I'm having a blast with my friends, except that something is missing. Hmmmm. . . What could that be? Well, its not my keys . . .got my wallet. . . .and my phone. Hmmmm. . . well, maybe it's you! If it is you, then you must be a really fun guy, who likes to laugh and make others laugh too. You would be intelligent with a mix of booksmart and common sense (you'd be surprised) You are a good looking physically fit guy, but not a gym rat. If you were at the gym 2 or 3 hrs a day, how would you have time for me? You wouldn't lie about having an athletic build. I'm not expecting a perfect physique, as I'm not perfect either, but be honest please. If you are that guy, you would be a "city" you would love doing all kinds of activities, outdoors and in. You're not afraid to plan a date. You don't say things like "I donno, whatever you want to do is fine with me." Ughhh! You have your own ideas and perspective on things, like to debate issues if you have cause & you'd like sushi or at least be willing to try it.So about me, aside from the general statistics. I am a Clinical Massage Therapist, but don't get excited. I don't like to mix work & personal stuff. So, no free massages. Think of it this way. . . Imagine you were a brick layer, laying bricks all day, then you get home exhausted, and your GF asks you to build a fireplace. Get it? I love to laugh and enjoy dancing. Hope you like Scrabble. ;-) I enjoy deep philosophical discussions and light hearted banter. I play volleyball, although not very well, but still, I play. I like going to festivals, but I also like to dress up in my heels for a night on the town. Always riding my bike along the lakefront in the sumer. and open to whatever events come up. I can be spontaneous at times. My friends consider me intelligent, attractive, funny and a bit outspoken. Oh well.So, if I've piqued your interest, send me an *** is no specific date that makes it a perfect date. It really all boils down to chemistry. However, I've found that a "coffee date" feels more like an interview. A date should never feel like an interview, should it? Meeting at a coffee shop is fine, but then going on a date after meeting is much more enjoyable to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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  • Jonquil

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been on here for a while. I've. Met some cool cats and some real ***holes....im southern, strong, and have played or have had played on me, every game regarding relationships, so i have ZERO TOLERANCE for bullshit.....im only single because my mate was suddenly taken away...i don't date white men...never have...my kids are grown, im ready to find a strong, appreciative, man to compliment my life...im most attracted to the men that are the last of a dyin' breed......have fun....

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