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About Me

It has been brought to my attention that I should state right up front that I am a city person only interested in ";. Ok? Ok.So, It's summer and I'm having a blast with my friends, except that something is missing. Hmmmm. . . What could that be? Well, its not my keys . . .got my wallet. . . .and my phone. Hmmmm. . . well, maybe it's you! If it is you, then you must be a really fun guy, who likes to laugh and make others laugh too. You would be intelligent with a mix of booksmart and common sense (you'd be surprised) You are a good looking physically fit guy, but not a gym rat. If you were at the gym 2 or 3 hrs a day, how would you have time for me? You wouldn't lie about having an athletic build. I'm not expecting a perfect physique, as I'm not perfect either, but be honest please. If you are that guy, you would be a "city" you would love doing all kinds of activities, outdoors and in. You're not afraid to plan a date. You don't say things like "I donno, whatever you want to do is fine with me." Ughhh! You have your own ideas and perspective on things, like to debate issues if you have cause & you'd like sushi or at least be willing to try it.So about me, aside from the general statistics. I am a Clinical Massage Therapist, but don't get excited. I don't like to mix work & personal stuff. So, no free massages. Think of it this way. . . Imagine you were a brick layer, laying bricks all day, then you get home exhausted, and your GF asks you to build a fireplace. Get it? I love to laugh and enjoy dancing. Hope you like Scrabble. ;-) I enjoy deep philosophical discussions and light hearted banter. I play volleyball, although not very well, but still, I play. I like going to festivals, but I also like to dress up in my heels for a night on the town. Always riding my bike along the lakefront in the sumer. and open to whatever events come up. I can be spontaneous at times. My friends consider me intelligent, attractive, funny and a bit outspoken. Oh well.So, if I've piqued your interest, send me an *** is no specific date that makes it a perfect date. It really all boils down to chemistry. However, I've found that a "coffee date" feels more like an interview. A date should never feel like an interview, should it? Meeting at a coffee shop is fine, but then going on a date after meeting is much more enjoyable to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have been divorced for quite some time now and I'm at the age where I would like a permanent loving and healthy relationship. I have 2 daughters ***that are with me every other weekend. I'm not into the bar scene but its nice to go out once in a while. I enjoy different types of foods, fishing, a good cup of coffee, camping, the beach, road trips and live music and dancing. I mostly listen to country music, but I can handle almost everything else. Depends on the mood. Im not afraid of PDA, and neither should you. I'm a caring person and I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm open to suggestions...

  • Babe

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm not into endless text messages. I'm more of a chit chat and meet up kinda gal. If an offer of a meet up doesn't come forth after a few chats then I lose interest. What i want: I want someone *TALL* to hang out with who thinks I'm awesome and vice versa and some really hot sex. (Too honest?) I like creative weirdos and non conformist type people because thats how I am. I'm not really ready for a live in and am enjoying living by myself for the first time in my life. So what's that called? My friends say its called a "boyfriend"....now how weird does that sound?About me: I have a somewhat saucy sense of humor. I'm straight forward to a tee. I say pretty much exactly whats on my mind. A dear friend of mine says "I never need to guess what you are thinking".One of my ambitions is to become a kick ass pool player. I have potential.I'm adventurous. I should have more fear of danger than I do. I like to go out and meet friends for drinks or see a bands in bad neighborhoods. I like to take my dog for a walk. I like the outdoors neatly contained in a city so I'm not really a camping kinda gal. But a dude needs stuff to do with his buddies right? I'd love to meet up to play a game of pool or have a drink.

  • Annika

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I decided to change it, once again, to reflect a bit of my humorous side. So, attempt #3. Here goes: Let's just be honest here. I could tell you that I like long walks on the beach and romantic candle lit dinners and bubble baths, but who are we all kidding? We all know that stuff rarely ever happens. You want to know what I am really like minus all of the fluff and circumstance. I throw my clothes in the bathroom floor and gather them up from there to do laundry. Yes, I do own a hamper or 4. I don't mind washing and drying and folding clothes but I detest putting them up. Don't ask me why...I have no clue. My car stays in a constant state of disarray. Having a 4 year old does that to you. I have learned to pick and choose my battles wisely. I love to cook but I am in dire need of learning to cook healthier as I mostly cook southern comfort foods. I love to bake and decorate cakes as well. I am very emotional and cry at just about any sappy TV commercial or movie there is out there. I'll definitely be the first one to laugh and cry. I have a very warped sense of humor that tends to get me into a bit of trouble at times. I also speak sarcasm fluently. If speaking this type of language offends you in any way, we would definitely not be a good match. I am very playful and fun loving and affectionate and not only want someone that is as well but NEED someone that is. I do not have a Barbie Doll type of body. I am curvy and have a nice butt. (So I keep getting told) I am currently waiting to get released from my Dr to start a new workout program. (Insanity) It would be nice to find someone that is crazy enough to do it with me and motivate me as well. I am conservative in my views so if you voted for Obama we would probably not get along that well. I do not date outside of my race. I understand that this may exclude a lot of wonderful men, however it is my preference. My friends would tell you that I am very sweet and girly, devoted, and love deeply. I would love to meet a man with similar values and interests and get to know them slowly. I want to believe in the fairy tale. I still believe that Mr. Right is still out there waiting to find me too. I believe I told someone that he has GOT to be the WORLD'S greatest Hide and Seek champion...however his seeking skills suck....every once in a while I can be heard yelling, "" just in case he is within ear shot. I believe that relationships all take work. That should never stop. I want to find a man that is happy to wake up next to me every morning with a smile on his face. A man that knows how to please a woman in every way. A man that is not always looking for the next best thing or peering at other pastures to see how green the grass is in case he decides he wants to jump the fence. My theory is your grass can be just as green if you put as much time, effort and fertilizer down as the other guy did. Try it sometime. I am not a jealous person. I am working on myself....and plan on improving many things, not just physical. I am all girl. I do not like conflict and tend to be a people pleaser. Don't get me worng, I love getting my way and will do whatever I can to get it...such as bargaining, and pouting! I have a 4 year old daughter that is the love of my life. I want to find a man that would love her as if he were his own. I am not looking for a daddy for her as she already has one....but I am looking for someone that would step up to that role because he loves me and her. I am rambling at the moment and I am not sure what else I really want you to know about me. So I will just stop here....if there is anything you would like to know....ask me. I promise I won't bite...and if I do, it won't hurt. ;) A meet and greet in a public place and then discuss a first date.

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