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Orpha, 45
United States, Arizona, Benson

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 13:55:20

About Me

I am new to the area so just stepping out some and trying to meet the locals. I will not fill this space with all the wonderful things about me (there nearly isn't enough space..lol) Seriously, I love to read profiles (I am a people person) and what I am finding is most (not all) people pretty much say what they think others want to hear to ensure they are more desirable. The ones who state "no games" in their headline (mostly are the game players) ...I do love diversity so I'll hang around a bit...lol Having phone conversations is very important to determine a persons personality....Please know how to communicate/converse, It is the single most important factor in relationships (lovers or friends or family). Having good conversations with good people has nothing to do with "what you're working with" lol (I kill myself) I love to laugh (life is just too serious) I have many interests and talents, I am a nurse, a hairdresser, a painter/designer, dog trainer and have a restaurant (love to cook). UPDATE: I closed the business..it was time! (this is a direct reference to my headline.A few interesting facts about me: I am passionate about anything I do. I do see the world a bit different than most (that is a good thing) I love a bald head on a man! (yet totally not exclusive to it..I am a talker, can have a full conversation with a complete stranger (and often do). I am very unique, I am funny, and I am very open so no telling what will come out of my mouth.(NEVER OUT OF ANGER) I hate fighting and wished everyone had the dicipline to NOT say what they want out of anger and just think of the damage it will do to the relationship) ....I have what I call musical tourettes... (all kinds of music is always milling in my brain and sniplits just come out throughout the day.) UPDATE 2? : Guys PLEASE ...Be self sufficient,( living on your own,with your own transportation) without some messy breakup at current or nearly current status. I am hoping that you know what a healthy relationship feels like or at least knows what it looks like. I do.HAPPY CHATTING ALL!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Punk Mexican Vietnamese Crime Fantasy
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