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Joelle, 45
United States, Arizona, Benson

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Mar 2026 21:41:19

About Me

Hi there, I'm not a big fan of online dating, I much prefer to meet someone in person, but here goes.....I am 5'4" , 45 years young :), (yes pictures are recent and that is my real age!) curly haired, thin athletic female with a lot of energy! I am always "on the go". I enjoy ice skating twice a week, taking long walks, and love to be out on the water, boating or sailing. I love to dance and enjoy listening to live music, in particular classic rock, and pop music. Anything from Pat Benatar and Foreigner to Pink, Sara Bareilles, and Colbie Caillot.! The right person's company can make any activity a lot of fun! It's not where you go but who you are with!!I am fun- loving , passionate, and romantic and seek the same in my partner. You need to be a positive person who embraces life and knows how to have fun ,yet also knows how to be serious when necessary. I was married for 17 years, single for the last 3 years. I have two boys. One is away at college and the other is a sophomore in high school.If you are looking for an angel with just enough devil to be a lot of fun drop me a line. :-) Anything is fun with the right person!Lol but I am afraid of heights, no sky- diving!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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