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Hassie, 41

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About Me

I like to see myself as a global explorer, someone who's independent with a zest for life and infectious sense of humour. I'm originally from the UK but have been living in NYC for 9 years (so it's now definately my home). I'm outgoing and confident (key requirements for my job in entertainment marketing), kind hearted, intelligent, fiercely loyal and fun to be around. I love being in a relationship and enjoy the benefits that come from the intimacy, friendship, support etc. My true addiction is travel, I love visiting new places all over the world and experiencing other cultures. I've just finished remodeling my apartment and it's finally looking good. I enjoy training in kickboxing and jujitsu as my *** it fun. At the weekends, I like to hang out with my close network of friends and go to a lounge bar, a nice neighborhood restaurant for brunch or take a trip to the movies. I'm looking for a guy who is comfortable with who he is and where he is in life, who takes pride in his old world manners and loves to laugh. Ideally someone who is ambitious in whatever field that may be, is financially responsible (but can still do something for the heck of it), allows me room to grow while knowing when I need his shoulder to lean on, is passionate and has an active lifestyle. I'm looking to meet a guy who's emotionally available and wants a long term, committed relationship. Depends on the weather and time of year...I do like to get to know someone in a relaxing environment...so it could be a as simple as a glass of wine in a lounge bar or if someone is more active a visit to the golf driving range or watching a sports event

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Candis

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Disclaimer: I do not date outside my race! It's not some kind of a racist view of mine. It is simply due to physical characteristics of a man I'm attracted to. And shallow me, I want to be attracted to my significant other. ;)PLEASE, TAKE THE TIME TO READ MY PROFILE. I do think that it is important to find someone compatible and comparable! With a VERY RARE EXCEPTION, it's definitely going to be someone who has at least a baccalaureate degree! I am attractive, successful, outgoing, witty and at the same time passionate, affectionate, sweet and tender. I'm generally a happy gal, with a positive outlook on life. Drama-free, dependable, and and logical (!). Hopefully, you are too ;).I enjoy the fine things life has to offer. I am equally comfortable in a casual setting (BBQ, at home with a book, movie theater) and at a very fine upscale event. I am looking for someone who enjoys a healthy mixture of both and many things in-between. However, I should mention that sports is not my turf. I mean, I will go to a Blackhawks or Bulls game once in a while, but you will surely not find me at a baseball / football game. So it's safe to say if you are a sports fan spending most of your free time playing/watching/talking about sports, it's best to go on to the next profile. ;). Please, do the same if you are not looking for a potentially serious relationship and/or want to have children in the future!I've been fortunate to have a great family, a loving son (who's a teenager - nobody's perfect ;). Lol). I love my job and what i do.. I am looking for someone wonderful who is also content with who he is and where he is in life (not complacent though), someone who's willing to become a my confidant, lover, partner and friend. And most importantly, it has to be mutual. I'll stop here for now... It's not Christmas yet ;). Lol The short and long of it is: PROFESSIONAL, EDUCATED, TALL, ATTRACTIVE, INTELLIGENT, and CLASSY with a great sense of humor! If you can't say that you've got class, don't bother writing. It will not be a match! If you do, however, got the above, I would be delighted to have the opportunity to get to know you. Ultimately, it's the chemistry and attraction in addition to similar interests and lifestyle that determines if its a go or no go. I'm a mother to a 15 yo who will be a sophomore in HS next yr. Of course he comes first when it comes to attention and time availability. However, he's now older and I have a wonderful family very close by so I have great flexibility when it comes to dating. I would like to meet someone who also has time to devote to a relationship. A drink or a cup of coffee... for a no obligation setting where we can just casually meet and see if there are mutual interests. If sparks fly, then we could continue the evening someplace else. If not, no hard feelings if it's cut short :)

  • Dannette

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I believe that if we follow our heart when it comes to work and love, it will take us in the right direction. Hopefully straight to happiness and satisfaction! Family....that's a different story - more about commitment, and caring with effort. These are some of the things that have wised me up over the years. But the biggest thing: people are the most important parts of our lives. I love living here - I've met a lot of inspiring people here and find it a wonderful place to work and live. I work for myself as a creative director and designer, for clients all over the place, so that can get intense, but my garden is where I relax, or a walk down to the river to clear the head. My office is within walking distance from my home, so it's an easy, green commute. I bought a house a few years ago and have had a blast fixing it up, although I'm almost out of projects, and garden space :) There's a view of Mt. Yoga: I do lots of it, and I teach it too. I've helped people become more flexible in their body and their mind, and I get tremendous enjoyment from that activity. I also try to meditate every day but - ha! - I get busy during the week, and my grand plan goes right out the window along with the incense.Movies - especially good ones - are a blast for me. I love walking out in a completely different head than when I walked in. Good food is also important - I eat healthy (no meat) and I love to cook when there's time. I try to eat in a way that makes me feel great every day but it's way more fun when a meal is shared. There have been a few fun parties at my house. I like to be social and entertain - to make people feel at home.There's a lot more to say, but this description is getting long! If you want to know more, write me. Cocktails or coffee. Then a hike by the river.

  • Heidy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am attracted to blk men. First off I'd like to say im not looking for any players, one night stands or fwb If thats all you want move along and please don't waste my time. I am on here because I'm not originally from philly. I am a very loving, caring loyal person. I am a little shy until i get to know someone. I am looking for a manogomus relationship. I want someone to be my best friend lover and to enjoy life with. I enjoy dancing, bowling, pool, movies or just staying home snuggling up to a good movie. Some men on here are worse than women and so fake. They put up pictures of when they were in their 20's and 30's and lie about their age. If your 45, 50 or 60's just say so cause when a women goes to meet you and you look like an old grandpa its going to be very ackward. Be honest from the start.

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