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Hassie, 41

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About Me

I like to see myself as a global explorer, someone who's independent with a zest for life and infectious sense of humour. I'm originally from the UK but have been living in NYC for 9 years (so it's now definately my home). I'm outgoing and confident (key requirements for my job in entertainment marketing), kind hearted, intelligent, fiercely loyal and fun to be around. I love being in a relationship and enjoy the benefits that come from the intimacy, friendship, support etc. My true addiction is travel, I love visiting new places all over the world and experiencing other cultures. I've just finished remodeling my apartment and it's finally looking good. I enjoy training in kickboxing and jujitsu as my *** it fun. At the weekends, I like to hang out with my close network of friends and go to a lounge bar, a nice neighborhood restaurant for brunch or take a trip to the movies. I'm looking for a guy who is comfortable with who he is and where he is in life, who takes pride in his old world manners and loves to laugh. Ideally someone who is ambitious in whatever field that may be, is financially responsible (but can still do something for the heck of it), allows me room to grow while knowing when I need his shoulder to lean on, is passionate and has an active lifestyle. I'm looking to meet a guy who's emotionally available and wants a long term, committed relationship. Depends on the weather and time of year...I do like to get to know someone in a relaxing environment...so it could be a as simple as a glass of wine in a lounge bar or if someone is more active a visit to the golf driving range or watching a sports event

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Roxanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I believe if the chemistry is there anything is possible. I did not realize that "dating" means sex until I found this site. I plan on dating until I find the right guy but I updated my profile with a more accurate intent.I find fun in everything do. I have a great variety of interests and enjoy new challenges whenever they present themselves. I love to have fun and stay active. I enjoy quiet time - reading, movies, music, dinner with friends.....I will try anything at least once. I enjoy challenges and live outside my comfort zone daily.This is my lil' kid section - I want: someone that enjoys laughing - even if it is at ourselves; someone that knows how to enjoy life; some who takes care of their responsibilities first and fun second; someone that is honest with themselves and others; someone that knows the meaning of integrity and holds themselves accountable; and someone that takes care of their health. I want the total package - intelligence, physically fit, and funny. There is nothing hotter than being able to have a great conversation with someone - intellectual foreplay :***ok - I am kinda full of crap on that point, but will find someone attractive because of intelligence. Conversations can be very hot with the right person....everything is hot with the right person. I want to fall in love and live happily ever after...I realize that has different meaning for everyone. Conversation and laughs.

  • Lainey

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Alright ya'll-This isn't my first time at this particular Dog & Pony Show...A girl is a lil' wiser this time around! Sooo, if you're not really looking for a relationship-please look at someone wanting to just hang-out. That's not me. I don't want to get to know you, only to have you disappear...??? My time is valuable and I hope yours is too. I'm a girl, so I won't tell ya I'm simple-ain't no such thing!! ;-)I'm a lot of things, but easy ain't one of em... That doesn't mean I'm a Diva or a Drama Queen. It means I do my own thing and color outside the lines. I have a brain and know how to use it. I question authority, in my book that's a good thing. I have opinions and expect you to also. I'm not looking for a "yes" man. I know we won't always agree but do expect respect for our personal point of view. I will treat you the way I'd like to be treated. I don't like to do things half-hiney'd. Go big or go home. I don't pull punches. I fight fair but if ya box me into a corner, I'll come out swing'n... I'm Irish & Italian-so you're danged if ya do & you're danged if ya don't... The hair is red for a reason. :-pCowboy-up! Cuz you're look'n at 10 pounds of sugar in a 5 pound sack!! :-**UPDATE*Here's a baseball analogy for ya boys:A girls look'n for the DH. There's only one on the team for a reason. You can be the DH on a Minor League team, that's just fine. Noone starts out at the top. However, you must be the DH & When ya step up to this plate, ya better not bunt...ya best be knock'n it out of the park... ;-) If you're think'n what I really need is a Closer-nope cuz that's me! I can't hit worth a dang but if you've read all of the above, ya know I can pitch it to ya just fine... :-D 70% of life is showing up... Impress me... :-)

  • Citlali

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i am a single mom of 4 kids and 1 grand baby they are my pride of joy and do keep me busy. i like the outdoors like camping, swimming, cooking in and out doors and i like hanging with friends and maken new friends. i been told i have a wonderful personality and i do get along with all. i can be shy at first untill i get to know someone. if theres anything you like to know just ask.. Lets get to know each other over coffee, tea, or even hot coco. Or even a meal will do fine.

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