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**** I am having serious reservations about this site, I have to say.. I am a little unsure,, I think,, about the rules of online dating or how it is suppose to work...or maybe I am just a bit old fashioned.. when you're out somewhere and someone pays you a compliment you are polite and say "thank you" and move along or,, you stay and chat..on here is so different,, so here is the thing: yes I am looking to meet a nice guy who I am attracted to as well ,,to get to know-in person. I am not looking for a pen pal,, or a text buddy who I never actually see. It should be fun,, -my added 2 cents after being on here for a little bit-, back to your regularly scheduled profile ;) lol! I have a lot of different interests and a great sense of humor. I am just hoping to meet a nice guy to laugh with,, and enjoy life. Life is good and is even better when sharing it with someone who you can enjoy it with,, that has similar interests and maybe opens you up to new ones as well,,,,,,***** Back again after a little hiatus,, I think I should just say right here and now... if your SOLE form of communicating is texting.. I am not the girl for you.. it gets old for me and I lose interest,, I am sorry I cannot help it that is just what I have come to realize about myself --I do not like technology,, I like to speak with someone and get to know them.. Please respect my view on this and do not contact me if you plan on using text as a way of getting to know me. You are wasting both of our times. Thanks,,,,,,, I prefer the first meeting have no expectations,, I mean this is online dating so the first time we see eachother is really the first time we meet the real person behind the *** , right? something casual and light... and take it from there.**You only live once ,,, and there is no do over,, I have had that reality hit me in the face recently.. so I promise to not waste your time.. please do not waste mine if your intentions are not sincere or if you plan on buffeting through this site.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Estephanie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-36

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  • Amaryllis

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am an Italian American woman with a great sense of humor who is always smiling and laughing. I am an optimist who believes everything happens for a reason, and it's through our experiences in life that we learn. I have a very outgoing personality, and would describe myself as a spitfire who can dish it out just as well as I can take it. There are also times that I can be quiet and shy. I like to read and listen to many types of music including, but not limited to, a lot of 80’s, classic rock, dance and even a little country. I enjoy driving and taking day trips, and probably love my car just a little too much. :) I enjoy fine things, work hard for them, and appreciate what I have worked so hard for. I like to be spontaneous when I can and enjoy trying new things. Since I'm a mom, I prefer to schedule dates in advance. I think it's important to always be honest. I am a curvy girl in the process of slimming down. All my pictures are current, and I do update them often. I am told that I look much slimmer in person, and my pictures don't do me justice. Regardless, being healthy, active, and eating right is extremely important to me. I do enjoy cooking, and am quite at home in the kitchen. I am also very bright and have enjoyed the past ***years working in the Information Technology field.I'm looking for someone to share life with -- someone who shares in planning our dates, won't hesitate to open a door for me, calls when he says he's going to, and is true to his word. I like to go out, grab a bite to eat, go to a movie or a concert, go into the city for an evening, explore historical sites, and much more. I also like staying in for a quiet evening too.;the same place" in his life as I am in mine. I've been married before, and I have a couple kids including one who is an adult now. I've moved on from my past relationship, and I'm ready for something new.If you're interested in getting to know me, send me a message, but please send me something more than just a word or two. I'd like to hear why you're interested in me, or why you think we'll be a match. I want to get to know you for who you are and appreciate a man who wants to truly know me. I'm holding out for the right one to spend life with. I'm not here to just "hook up" or have a one night stand, so if that's what you're looking for, I'm not the one for you. I appreciate the compliments, but if your message is about what I look like or has even the slightest sexual undertone, I won't respond. Please don't take that the wrong way. I just want to get to know you for all the right reasons and in the right way. I'm a lady, please treat me like one. Life is way too short to just sit back and watch it go by. I'm happy and content with myself and my life, and ready for more. Are you? It would be nice to meet for a cup of coffee or at some place where we can just sit and talk. I think it's usually in the first few minutes of meeting that you know if you're interested in meeting again, and that's what meeting for the first time is all about. The first date comes after that...

  • Sharell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Respect is essential; common morals / values are essential; a sense of humor is a must. The golden rule is required. As far as everything else - there is compromise. In the sea of on-line profiles, the positive adjectives/adverbs are used endlessly - people either think/say they are, or want someone who is... intelligent, attractive & honest, with a great sense of humor & dynamically perfect in every way - I am not perfect. Einstein’s theory must be applied, intelligence, looks, etc. - it is all RELATIVE. Getting to know someone is NOT about a checklist of criteria. My goal is happiness and a life that includes as much laughter as possible, when possible. I am a certified teacher. If you have a picture of a typical teacher, I am not it. I tend to be down to earth, witty, and pragmatic, with a fun loving spirit / zest. I am a bit of a smart aleck - only in a fun way, no one should be mean. I try to sincerely compliment at least three people a day and do one random act of kindness. I think it is important to laugh everyday. I am diverse, I know how to sew & cook and other girlie things, yet I am resourceful and capable of getting my hands dirty. Ok I know how to figure things out and fix things in my head, some of us were just not built for "man"ual labor. Forget the philosophy of (physical) equality - think biology. Gilligan. I actually want to be treated like a lady; I will wait for you to open the door for me, even though I am capable of doing myself and do when I am alone or for elderly or others with their hands full.I like a man with old fashion values yet modern sensibility, a gentleman above all else; I prefer someone easy going, someone I can have an interesting conversation with about something, anything, everything or nothing at all. I am independent, but I have no problem being the passenger along the ride, so long as it is a good ride.BTW - I do not want to respond to IM's, if you want to communicate you have to send an actual message. If you have ever met someone (on-line or off-line) & had sex or tried to have sex the first time you met, DO NOT CONTACT ME. It is sad I have to clarify this, but this is extended to if you try to sext message or call at 3 am before ever meeting because you feel frisky - come on - seriously) YoU CaN StOP rEaDiNg HeRe; ThE FoLlOwINg TeXt Is FoR EnErTaInMeNt PuRpOsEs, FoR A LaUgH. = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = I had a political joke here, which was cleaver and funny, but it seemed to attract political /angry men – neither or which I want to invite into my life….= = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = If YoU wAnT To KnOw WhAt I LiKe or MoStLy Do NoT LiKe, Or ArE EnJoYiNg A LaUgH ReAD On.... Below see the meetville guys that are not FOR ME. For the complete list please feel free to e-mail me. 4X. If you have to blow in a straw to start your car: "there's a sign" you are not for me;2X. If you sound like a dog with loose dentures while eating, you are not for me22. If CEO and business owner of an IT company consist of you using Google from inside your estate home-office and rental properties are located in a trailer park - "there's a sign:" you're not for me; 17. If you need to go to weekly / daily meetings for a support group, (usually mandated by the courts) "there's a sign:" you are not for me;16. If you do not have anyone to take a picture, (hence the bathroom mirror shot, with no shirt BUT a hat on) and you do not have the sense or motivation to go to a photo booth or Wal-– where there are lots of pictures being taken and posted to “people of Wal-”; and you can buy a shirt there – "there's a sign:" you are not for me;15. If your birth certificate indicates any other gender then male, "there's a sign:" you are not for me...13. If you are looking for an internet pen-pal; you are un-dateable;12. If you consider yourself self-employed, or work in construction because you changed a light this year between reality shows; "there's a sign" you are not for me;11. If you’re in touch with your feminine side, and think it would be nice to borrow my clothes (which should not be your size), "there's a sign:" you are not for me 8. If you take medication for balance between your weekly counseling you are not for me; 5. If you stood on a step-stool to measure the height of 5’6”, then put you were 5'9" You are not for me (this is like women who claim to be about average, and weigh ***pounds ***that is just not right) 3. IF MY observations or SENSE OF HUMOR does NOT amuse you hence you want to e-mail me some profanity/inappropriate message, or tell me to go do some un-natural thing to myself – I work in education– I can go to work and get that treatment….2. Let me not forget: If you smoke crack, sniff bath salts, eat paste or some other use of drugs: you are now and never shall be FOR ME - even with the daily meetings; 1. If the life guard had to rescue from the cognitively inferior pool, and you were wearing a shirt that said “I are intelligent (and attractive, have a great sense of humor and ....” "there's a sign:" you are NOT FOR ME I truly would like to make a few friends along this journey (or adventure, in the temple of doom)In all seriousness, if you have made it this far you probably possess a characteristic I find charming - patience/easy going and ability to laugh at my sense of humor. I am looking to meet the one that thinks I am the best woman he has ever met and could ever find (whether it is true or not, so long I read something interesting that stuck with me it went something like this: Would you rather split a cracker and glass of low calorie wine with one of the Olsen twins at a fancy restaurant OR Jell- I have filled my quota of endless e-mails and phone calls with no meeting... I want to go do something, laugh, have fun, .... send me a suggestion, contact information - hint: a ##, let's make it happen. ....If you expect to meet me once and in the first 10 minutes expect butterflies, accompanied by music in the background, hence deciding if we are going to spend the rest of our lives, click away now...Meeting (is the goal): Best first meeting ... are those that involve an activity fun in nature, or made fun by the participants involved I prefer something non-pressure casual. If nothing else, friendship is a nice consolation prize. Not everyone can be "the one", so I hope to make a few new friends along the journey. Romance will happen on its own, so until then I am going to enjoy life, wanna join me?

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