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Arlinda, 43

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About Me

Hmmmm.......what about me? I love my kids, my family and my friends, I consider myself lucky to have them in my life. No I'm not a military brat... I enjoy staying home snuggling on the couch, grilling with friends over or a night on the town. I'm very social which comes in handy with my profession. I consider myself able to adapt to most environments.Indoors/outdoors, I'm up for trying new things. I'm not afraid of a little dirt...and I can clean up nice. "She's a gorgeous mess of chaos and you can see it in her eyes..."My thoughts...* Communication is the key to ANY relationship* Honesty is the BEST policy (even if the truth hurts)* A great sense of humor is a MUST * NEVER go to bed mad (I'm all about the kiss and make up part)"Every girl wants a bad boy who will be good just for her...andEvery boy wants a good girl who will be bad just for him..." I like a guy with a plan...Surprise me! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charleigh

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    - By nature I'm artsy and love to draw, paint and create. I'm also a bit of a DIY'er -- painting cabinets, counter tops, furniture etc...love it all. :***I've lived in FL and AZ but have been back in Mass. since ***. I would love to do more traveling and see more of the world but I'm hoping to do it with a fun travel partner. :)- I like to eat healthy, and stay active and fit..this is very important to me, and should be for you as well. I try to eat organic as much as possible and I love farmer's markets. I'm not a vegetarian, but eat very little meat.- I guess my friends would say I'm genuine and kindhearted...I cannot hang with anyone who is pretentious or takes themselves too seriously. I'd like to think friends would also say I'm funny and a damn good time. :) I'm a strong believer in being/staying healthy, positive, and always striving to be the best person you can be. Gratitude, graciousness and random acts of kindness all rate highly with me as well. We're all here really just to help one another out, aren't we? - LOVE, love, love music...except country...sorry man, just can't do it. My preferred station is 92.5 or Alt Nation on XM...you get the idea. - A few more randoms about me: 1) I refuse to use "LOL"...there, I said it. 2) I'm not crazy into politics, but I tend to mesh better with those whose political ideology falls more middle of the road to left...no right wingers please. 3) Profiles written in all caps scare me...can't explain it.Lastly, good luck to everyone out there! Hopefully we can all find what we're looking for. *** why are there so many pictures of men in their bathrooms...??? I've never seen so many shower curtain rings in my life. :/ While we're at it, full disclosure...pictures of guys in or around their car/boat/motorcycle or flexing muscles in the gym = complete turnoff. I'm sure I'll get plenty of hate mail for that one...sorry, just being honest. Some gals are into that, I'm just not one of them...AT ALL. I'm sure not everyone digs brunettes with little white dogs either but I'm okay with that...c'est la vie! **I'm amending my comment re: men & bathroom photos...I've been informed countless women are also guilty of the "selfie bathroom pic"...complete with shower curtain rings...my bad. First meet for a drink/go for a walk and see if there's a spark. If no spark, no hard feelings...no sense in wasting each other's time, right? Giddy up! :)

  • Steffanie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello, I am a decent human being who enjoys and strives to lead a healthy life style, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I am in reasonable shape and seek someone who is too. If I do not appear approachable, do not let it intimidate you, it takes me a while to get comfortable with people but when I do it carries meaning :) On a lighter note I love to laugh and will appreciate my partner's sense of humour and silliness as there is a silly side to me as well.I am usually high energy and not always patient...! I walk fast and am goal oriented.I am adventurous, somewhat ambitious, tenacious, loving, responsible, passionate, loyal, and affectionate. I enjoy stimulating conversations, love to travel, love the outdoors, but also enjoys staying in with my special someone.I am looking for a man who is attentive, responsible, interested, affectionate, loyal, emotionally and financially secure. A man who knows himself, a good communicator (can talk about his feelings), goes after what he wants, and works at the relationship.I am looking to date and ultimately be in a healthy relationship that will lead to marriage. Of yes,..I am French (and no, I am not looking for a green card, i am a US Citizen).Thanks for reading. :)Ps: for those men who want to meet right away i understand that most men may be "designed" more visually prone but this is not how my brain works. I like to exchange a couple of ***, speak on the phone at least once, and then I will know whether or not i want to meet. That being said have you ever considered or experienced that as you get to know someone, sometimes they become really attractive? I have. Same goes for those who think that intimacy starts in the bedroom and ends there. I hold the "general" belief that real intimacy starts outside the bedroom and then leads you there.Thanks for reading my addendum! Probably for coffee in a public place where we can hear each other talk.

  • Sabina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    The best way to describe me is sassy, flirty, daring, bubbly, and even a little shy at times. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. I can also be serious when I need to be. Some people say that I am the angel standing there with the crooked halo winking at you-- Sunrises, sunsets, and the American flag can get me choked up at times. I love to feel the breeze and the sun on my skin. I am a kid at heart; simple things still amaze me--..he he he), roasting marshmallows, etc. I believe everyone should put in an honest day's work (if they are able) and should have fun doing it. Fitting inside the "box" is not my idea of life or of religion...we are all individuals and our lives should reflect that, as long as it doesn't harm anyone else. I enjoy lots of things....dancing when no one is looking and sometimes even when someone is looking, walking in the rain, sitting by a fire, cuddling on a cold rainy day or just any day, trying new things...I also like to fish, to go boat riding, and to play some sports. I am pretty much open to most Something that we both agree upon.

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