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Tommie, 41

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About Me

READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING!!!First off, I'm 44. My birthday is October 15, making me a Libra. Still time to buy a gift. Lol! meetville will not let me change it. I live in St. Louis on the South Side. I work as a bartender and waitress.I like to go to films, out to eat, and concerts. I also like surfing the Web and reading.I love getting out in nature when time permits. Gardening, kayaking, biking, hiking, and just sitting in it.I enjoy spending quality time with friends, but I'd like to find someone special.Not to be negative, but I'd like to avoid certain situations. I know no one is perfect, but....If you are effed up emotionally, not interested. Get some therapy. Get over it. And then think about messaging me.If you are a douchebag, not interested. Not like there's any of those on meetville, though.If you are sexist, racist, homophobic, or otherwise bigoted, not interested. What is wrong with you?!?!If you no longer function properly, sexually speaking, not interested. A girl's got needs.If you have bratty kids who tell you what to do *** you telling them what to do, not interested. Don't get me wrong. I love kids. I just don't like spoiled ones.If you are a slob, not interested. I don't like spending time in filthy mancaves, so if you want me to come over, act like an adult and clean up after yourself. Finally, if you have no pix, not interested. I will immediately block you. I'm not talking to a head icon.On a more positive note, I am actually an upbeat, optimistic person. I love life and am looking for a straightforward, honest guy. A difficult endeavour, evidently, but, if you think it's you...No games!P.S. I cannot possibly respond to all the replies, though I appreciate your interest. I will respond, if interested. Please don't get offended if I don't. We all are attracted to who we are attracted to. P.P.S. If you are a Republican or Libertarian, we are not likely to get along. I have no time for that drivel and no interest in someone who subscribes to either of those political parties. All the cool girls are lefties!!! Yeah, I'm serious. No trolling! I'm not interested in a display of your stupidity, so don't waste your time. More importantly, don't waste my time. I'd like to go somewhere for dinner or perhaps a festival or something public. I'm pretty flexible in my tastes and am always open to trying new things. Maybe we can find something that appeals to both of us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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