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Sonja, 44

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About Me

About me: I'm a single mom, who works ***hours most weeks and keeps her son busy with cello, Boy Scouts and baseball. So, as you can see my free time is limited and valuable, which means I don't want to waste it. However, I do love a good time...from going dancing to hanging out with friends enjoying a good meal to taking in live music or sports to a lazy kayak trip to catching a play or the latest scifi. As for food, I'll try anything once; however I really don't care for beef. I believe learning and being active keeps you young and though my body will age so long as I am engaged my spark will shine. I think life is a grand adventure and better when shared. I think that the worst feeling in the world is being with someone and feeling completely alone and the best feeling is knowing you're not alone even when you're continents apart. About you: Well, you're a hands on man with old school charm and a quick wit who is not afraid to get dirty, but loves a good Jazz club...you enjoy quiet canoe rides or an evening on a sail boat lost at sea...you can find your way through Istanbul and not feel lost. You will tell me exactly what you think even when it's not what I want to hear. You will open my car door because you want to not because I can't and you'll understand that weakness is telling lies because you can't face the truth. You love a good read and a great ball game (which I want to share with you, because I love sports). You have your own interests and understand my need to have mine. You believe in partnership and equity in a relationship and you're willing to give what you want to get. You know that putting me first does not mean putting yourself last and that a real relationship is built on compromise, trust, open communication, respect, appreciation, grace and forgiveness. And, though you never want to start a needless fight you don't run from a challenge. I'm not close to perfect and I recognize you come with your own history, which I hope to learn but that I also hope you have left it in the past. I am not that other woman whomever she may have been and you are not any man I have ever met (well unless we actually have met before), so let's start our history by leaving the rest behind us and moving life forward. So, how about that elusive first conversation...you know the one that starts with hello...NOTE: No pics is because, I just changed computers...pics will be added soon Depends on the day...wine and sushi...great conversation...strolling the DIA all sound good to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kary

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A Life Path #2 and a Destiny #4. Myers- Oh...I'm also a right handed, yellow aura'd, lion spirited, blue eyed...ummmm.. rooster. I think that about covers it... and its gotta be true cause the internet says so. Am I bored much? Haha..sigh* ;)Seriously though...are you still reading? I am an independant, happy, nurturing person, who can be a dork^^ at times. God, my family and close friends are very important to me. This is seemingly very cliche but-- I too love camping, bonfires and bbq'ing. I also love long drives and walking the trails in the mountains or exploring the beaches of the ocean. Nature! I am literally in AWE of it and it energizes me. I love red licorice, bubble gum flavored ice cream, levis, t-shirts, converse or flip flops. -Sandal and socks guy...we love youRomance...an embrace to keep me warm and safe. Holding hands and forehead kisses weakens my knees. Anything given from the heart, no wallet needed.. a single flower, a note..Your eyes will capture my attention first cause they offer me a glimpse into your heart. Will I see kindness there? Interested in a man who is independant and confident, is outgoing and fun... Romantic, kind, and adventureous but dependable. Has integrity, works hard, plays hard, loves hard. Please have a positive and respectful attitude towards yourself and those around you. Ugh.. no time or patience for whining, negativity, drama, jealousy or arrogance, just be grateful. a horseback ride would be wildly romantic

  • Garnette

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a long-lasting relationship. Not dating around, not multiple guys on the hook, not a hook-up. I want a connection, chemistry and compatibility in one relationship. I really want to find someone who is somewhere close to the stage of life I’m in (which, after plenty of dates with plenty of good guys of various ages I’ve come to see is related to age…lol…duh!) Hence the profile rewrite.I have to admit I’m a little hung up on age, but only because I work hard to stay fit and current and I’ve found that a lot of people (men and women) close to my age have sort of given up. I’m aging and it shows, but that’s not a free pass to quit caring about my health and appearance. I feel good about who I am right now. I’d like a similar attitude in my partner. You don’t have to be a triathlete, just practice healthy living habits.Both my kids are still living with me. My daughter is 20 and my son is 15. So, I’m still very committed to being a good mom, (and I find it really attractive if you’re into being a dad) but as they’ve gotten older I find myself with more time available to develop a social life…yay! :) I just rewarded myself with a birthday vacation in Vegas and loved it! (Posted some pics to my profile.) I want to do more traveling, but have always felt like the kids or the home should come first. I see that changing a lot in the next few years. I say this so you know I have time for you and that I want to make room in my life for the right man. I realize I can’t get a complete picture of who you are from a few paragraphs and some pictures, but I’m probably not going to respond to a guy who only posts one pic and doesn’t take the time to write more than, “Hit me up if you wanna know the rest.” C’mon…you have to at least try!There’s a lot more to me than what I’ve written here so please don’t think you know me just yet. If after reading my profile you think we are on the same page, please reach out. I promise not to be rude or stupid...unless you are…and even then, probably not. Lol. Thanks for reading. I think the first date is actually the second date. I mean, really, the first time you get together it's usually for coffee or a drink. Does that count? Well, maybe if it lasts longer than an hour or you kiss each other goodbye. I think a date is when you actually make a plan to do something together...like take a drive with no destination on a misty autumn morning when the sun is still trying to break through with a hot mocha in my hand, music in my ears, my hand on my guys thigh. No talking, just breathing it all in. You in?

  • Kym

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Autumn is my favorite time of year...I love walking in the crisp fall weather holding hands and stopping for kisses with someone great! If you have time and desire for great conversations, the excitement of someone new in your life and not just looking for a hookup, please read on! Here's what I'm looking for... I enjoy a southern boy/country boy/good ole boy.....laid back and country at heart but like the perks of a city. However, I'm open-minded in general and open to different types of men and seem to get along great with men from the UK, so you don't have to be a southerner. I really love long reciprocal conversations about anything and everything and would hope you do too! A little about me...I don't smoke, nor do I drink too often, but like a glass of wine with a special dinner or night out. I love long kisses and warm hugs and snuggling on the couch. I'm a proud mom of three amazing (adopted) kids, but have more freedom than other single moms. I'm not not looking for you to be a new daddy to my kids or my sugar daddy, I just wouldn't expect that from you. I'm looking for something that has the potential a long term relationship (but that doesn't mean marriage) with someone with a high drive, but who is not looking for just sex. I have time for someone in my life and promise I will make time for you. I like flirting, banter, humor and sarcasm. Bonus Points if: You have an iphone You like to eat healthy You like to exercise with others You like coffee You like to cook with others You have a great relationship with your family You have a pick up truck You like spicy food You love quiet Sunday morningsAll of my pictures were taken since May.

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