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My hobbies include yoga and becoming the best version of myself. I have realized I must look within and dare greatly. This is me doing that. One of my goals is to find a man who is of course attractive to me - that doesn't rule anyone in or out based on looks weight or if they have kids or not, etc. This is always unique, I'm excited about that. I aspire to be the best possible person as I have a tender heart and am eager to fulfill my own personal potential. I get huge joy from spending time with others but I don't crave it and don't want suffocation. After spending several years with two kids I have simply managed, looked for a replacement 'father' and tried to make my family whole. I didn't know what I wanted, needed or liked. I simply soldiered on and made it through. Those days are gone. Now I am curious about the things I like, the things I want and what interests me. It turns out I am fascinated by all things spiritual. The 'right' man for me is out there and is looking for me. Are you he? Music? I enjoy a lot of different music and I've learned my "yuck" music sometimes becomes like, then love music. Country for *** I must say I've started to enjoy some of the newer stuff. My favorites are often unique (or were considered so in their time) and have deep meanings. I don't want a mirror image of myself, I want: simply, your hand in mine as we navigate the rest of our lives happily together. I like a calm man who listens and learns and is a true lover of other humans. Compassionate and sweet and strong.- the sun seems to singe my skin and I was a red head, but years ago converted to blonde as that's what suites me best. I want to get away from physical beauty despite what you may think of me or what I may think of you. Of course we need that - attraction. Mostly I want a man who treats me with utmost respect and on the surface is old fashioned and is a gentleman. We all have hidden attributes. I will treat you with the utmost respect and together we shall see what life has in store! Blah blah blah right? I'm a girl - I could talk for hours. Much more *** what is next. What IS next?.. Dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Young

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Are you looking for a fun, well rounded chick, who likes to laugh, socialize, travel, try new things & cuddle on the couch? I'm ALL that & a bag of chips! I'm a softy & a romantic at heart beyond my independent exterior. Things that make me melt are sunrises and sunsets on the beach, lightening bugs, the sound of crickets chirping, full moons, but especially little daily gestures in life that are genuine acts of thoughtfulness. I like to dote on my man & I appreciate receprocity without suffocation. Career, personal growth, family & freinds are all very important to me, so I respect someone with a similar drive. I believe in living life to the fullest in the most positive way possible, life is too short to be negative and I belelive there is ALWAYS a silver lining to embrace! I'm a practical girl who likes a balanced variety in lifestyle, i.e. casual down to earth everyday living but with an appreciation for the finer luxuries/interests in life! Anything from a tailgate & sporting event; dressing up for a night on the town; the casualness of camping or boating; dive bar or fine dining with a cool view; almost any kind of concert OR being your Pretty Woman for the Theatre - its all 2nd nature to me. I play well w/others, enjoy socializing with groups of friends, but like to balance that with quality twosome time. I have a large group of friends and wide range of social activities around the metro area that we all enjoy trying or making annual events. My music tastes range as much as my social interests: Classic Rock, 50s/60s Motown, Sinatra/Dean/Buble, New Country, Top40, Jazz, Alternative Rock, and even a little Rap like JayZ and Eminem. Diversity & variety are the spice in my life!;Summer Girl" So, are you a weekend warrior traveler?...because exploring new places (and familiar places in a new way) is one of my favorite past times - booking the trip, looking forward to the trip, being on the trip and remembering the trip are all great ways to keep a smile on your face during the work week and cold temp blahs! I'm looking for someone open minded, quick witted and a well-rounded conversationalist...in general an intellectual match with matching ENERGY. A great sense of humor is a MUST, laughter in life is ESSENTIAL! I respect a guy that has a sense of responsibility, strong values & has an open sense of honesty about himself & his past, and uses that self awareness to better himself over time.- once I'm on a serious path with a significant other I'm happy to have them join and meld with my friends and family more and more as much as they want - or hang back if they'd prefer - but my friends and family are a protected treasure in my life that I bring into a new relationship gradually only after becoming more connected and commited in the relationship. I like a guy with a good & kind heart through a strong exterior. Although I'm an independent Millennium girl, a confident, capable, take-charge guy is a HUGE turn on for me! I'm not necessarily looking for a serious relationship, although if the spark is there, I'm willing to pursue it to its fullest potential. If there is no spark then we can have a new friend in life!My pictures are all within this year - are yours?? Fair is fair, I believe in the chemistry of attraction on the inside and out, but it starts with current pictures on this site :)****Warning! Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law****

  • Jestine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an easy-going, down-to-earth, fun gal. I love life and seeing what each day brings. I am determined to have fun in every situation, and my friends enjoy coming along for the ride. I can be goofy, but know when and how to be serious. I enjoy the simple things in life, and like the adventure of new experiences. I make it a point to have fun every day. My friends would describe me as smart, fun, and dependable--the person they can always turn to, knowing I will help them however and whenever they need it. I can be shy in new situations, but warm up pretty quickly. I love all kinds of animals and hate to see suffering. I am open-minded and non-judgemental, and I like to learn at every opportunity. I am loyal, and would never betray someone I care about. I have goals in life, but know how to be content in the present. I love to laugh, and am good at laughing at myself.I am looking for someone who takes life as it comes and enjoys the journey. Someone who knows how to find happiness and fun in most every situation. I love learning, and would like someone who can share their experiences and lessons with me, and with whom I can share mine. I am looking for someone adventurous, who wants to see what life has to offer. I appreciate a person with ambition, as long as they are able to be happy in the present. I hope to find someone loyal, someone who I can trust completely. I like people who don't take themselves too seriously, and don't let the little things in life get them down. I think a good conversation is a great way to spend some time, so that ability is a plus. Most of all, I am looking for a nice guy, someone honset, sincere, and with a good heart. Is that you? One more little thing; I am a woman of my word. If I say I am going to do something, I do it. If I say I am going to be somewhere or call at a particular day or time, I will. I think to act otherwise is disrespectful. I'm looking for a man of his word. I understand that things come up and life can get in the way on occasion, as long as unreliability isn't a habit or way of life. A few more things; I am 5'10" barefoot, and I usually wear heels, so I am at least 6' tall in public. My stated age is correct. I have consistently been told I don't look my age. I know I don't feel my age (I feel like I'm about 30). And while I am a very responsible person and can be serious when necessary, I prefer not to act my age (or at least how most people believe someone my age should act). Life is to have fun, and I intend to do that every step of the way. :) Also, if you do illegal drugs (and, yes, "420" is an illegal drug) please don't waste my time or yours by contacting me; because of my profession I can't be around that, and because of my beliefs (I have lost innocent friends to those situations) I refuse to be around someone who uses them. Intelligence is a wonderful thing, and I am aware that many intelligent people don't have a great deal of formal education. However, if you don't know the difference between "it's" and its", "their" "they're" and "there", "too", "to" and "two", or "women" and "woman" (yes, it seems men often make that mistake), or are unaware/unable to use the shift key or punctuation on their keyboard, I'm not interested; the way a person presents themself in writing (or typing, as with this online dating thing) speaks much about their intelligence and their respect for the english language. And if you're not interested in anything serious--and I understand these things can take time, but eventually develop--please don't waste our time; I hope to find someone to share my life with in a meaningful manner and am not interested in spending precious time (I believe time is the most precious thing in life) with someone who is only looking for something casual (I don't believe in casual relationships or casual sex--I'd rather spend my time alone). And, if you have children, that's wonderful, but I may not be the woman for you; I understand that children should come first in their parent's life, but I don't have any, and am not willing--at this point--to be a low priority in my partner's life. I'm more than happy to make my partner a major priority in my life and desire the same in return.I am someone who will jump into a situation or relationship with both feet. I am not a serial dater and don't play games. If you are someone who plays around or is looking for something casual, please look elsewhere. I have run into too many players claiming to be nice guys, and don't want to go through that again. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am not shy about showing my feelings. I am open and ready for that truly wonderful guy to come into my life. I am looking for my one great love to spend the rest of my life with. The usual coffee meeting just seems too much like an interview or audition. Happy hour, a glass of wine, lunch, dinner, just seem like better opportunities to get to know someone.

  • Roberta

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hmm,let me see....where do I begin? I am kind,sincere,active,adventurous and always smiling I am told I have a great personality and not too hard on the eyes either lol I am just looking to find someone similiar to connect with. Never thought this would be so hard to find...Gets a bit frustrating at times. So anyway,thats why i am on here..no games no agenda...just honesty and respect is all I want I am looking for A man that can make me laugh,but knows when to be serious. A good hearted loyal man with a slight edge that can keep me on my toes and make me melt as well. Settling is not an option,I believe I have a lot to offer that special someone I choose to spend my time with! I am open-minded and high energy, If this sounds like you..feel free to contact me..Please don't contact me if you are a smoker! ILENE Maybe a drink,or walk on the boardwalk. We should know pretty soon after meeting whether we have chemistry or not.Lets face it,this is definitely a bit awkward for us both.

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