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Chaya, 42

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About Me

I tried this site several years ago and didn't have much luck, nonetheless I've decided to give it another try...what could it hurt, right! My plan is to find a man that is searching for "one" and not "some."Where to begin....I'm a pretty laid back person with a witty, jokingly sarcastic sense of humor so not being too serious is a big thing for me. Don't worry, I can take it as well as I serve it. I am professional when the need calls for it. I enjoy going out, though staying in and just relaxing at home is fine too. I am pretty open minded and will try ALMOST anything at least once. I try to keep myself well rounded...I am family oriented, take care of myself and my looks, and can dress/act according to what the occassion calls for. As Ludacris says, "Lady in the streets but...", well if you know Ludacris' lyrics you know what I'm saying....if not, there's always Google, lol. I listen to a variety of music but lean towards R&B and Hip-hop...as you can tell by the Luda quote. I am independent but not to the point where I don't want a man. Please realize though, I don't need a man to make me who I am...the RIGHT man will only enhance what I already have to offer. I'm a single mother of 3. I have pretty much raised my children and am not looking to start that process over...I had my children when I was young so it's all about ME now...lol. I do not mind dating a man that has children although I do prefer for them to be a little older. Please, no drama or games. I have had my share and am full, thank you. Just be up-front with your intentions/wants/needs and let ME make the decision if I am "ok" with them and I will give you the same courtesy and respect. (In other words, don't assume...one way or the other...for me) I am looking to date a man with the potential for a serious relationship. If you think you could be that candidate, drop me a message. Good luck "fishing"!!!**Need to add...I have Tattoos...so if that is not you're thing then we will not mix well.** Meet at a coffe shop or somewhere casual where we can have a conversation and see if there is compatability and chemistry....they go hand in hand with a relationship....one or the other doesn't. If further explanation is needed, well.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chere

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First time doing this on-line dating thing and i dont really know how i feel about it but, here goes! I love the beach and took up surfing over the summer. Im athletic and enjoy running. Im easy going and a pretty down to earth gal. I like camping and going to concerts. I love my doggies. I have two kids who are my world and the loves of my life. Well, thats the jist of it. Not to much info to share on here. Thats what conversations and dates are for right? :)

  • Kirsti

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just a good old southern girl that loves her kids....sweet tea....cool weather...bonfires....football...baseball...puppies....Christmas...snuggling on the couch....and the list goes on. All these things would be even better with a good man to enjoy them with! True love doesn't come around very often....grab it when you get the chance!!What you'll find is a HUGE heart with lots of love for that special someone. I am defintely a giver....not a taker. What's tough is finding that person that can appreciate *** taking advantage!!! With all that said....I want to be a priority in a partner's life...not just one of many options. I've always said that my best quality is also my biggest fault.....In the process of really moving my life forward. Great new opportunity with work....kids that have been more wonderful than I could ask for lately....and finally getting healthier for myself....lost 15 pounds the last six weeks and feeling better already. Opportunities in life bring us often to times of betterment!!Love isn’t perfect. It isn’t a fairy tale or a story book, and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go.Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it… together.You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again.But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh,cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes,hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking aboutyou every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze anddon't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."-- Bob MarleyLove is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude,it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ~ by 1 Corinthians 13:***~

  • Silvia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have two grown kids i spend a lot of time with. I have a large and very close family. I am very laid back and enjoy just hanging out.I enjoy riding motorcycles, camping,fishing, and music to start I'm not on here for a bootie call i have no problems with that.i am looking for someone i can hang out with get too know And have some fun with.who knows where it might end up.So there it is good luck and happy fishing.. Having a drink is always good.

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