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Chaya, 42

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About Me

I tried this site several years ago and didn't have much luck, nonetheless I've decided to give it another try...what could it hurt, right! My plan is to find a man that is searching for "one" and not "some."Where to begin....I'm a pretty laid back person with a witty, jokingly sarcastic sense of humor so not being too serious is a big thing for me. Don't worry, I can take it as well as I serve it. I am professional when the need calls for it. I enjoy going out, though staying in and just relaxing at home is fine too. I am pretty open minded and will try ALMOST anything at least once. I try to keep myself well rounded...I am family oriented, take care of myself and my looks, and can dress/act according to what the occassion calls for. As Ludacris says, "Lady in the streets but...", well if you know Ludacris' lyrics you know what I'm saying....if not, there's always Google, lol. I listen to a variety of music but lean towards R&B and Hip-hop...as you can tell by the Luda quote. I am independent but not to the point where I don't want a man. Please realize though, I don't need a man to make me who I am...the RIGHT man will only enhance what I already have to offer. I'm a single mother of 3. I have pretty much raised my children and am not looking to start that process over...I had my children when I was young so it's all about ME now...lol. I do not mind dating a man that has children although I do prefer for them to be a little older. Please, no drama or games. I have had my share and am full, thank you. Just be up-front with your intentions/wants/needs and let ME make the decision if I am "ok" with them and I will give you the same courtesy and respect. (In other words, don't assume...one way or the other...for me) I am looking to date a man with the potential for a serious relationship. If you think you could be that candidate, drop me a message. Good luck "fishing"!!!**Need to add...I have Tattoos...so if that is not you're thing then we will not mix well.** Meet at a coffe shop or somewhere casual where we can have a conversation and see if there is compatability and chemistry....they go hand in hand with a relationship....one or the other doesn't. If further explanation is needed, well.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marica

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I finally have time for myself, I have 2 boys who are 21 & 20. Both have great jobs & can take care of themselves. So with that said, I finally have my life back and can do what I want :) I still love hanging out with my kids but that seems to be few & far between, they are wrapped up with their own social life LOL. I would like to find someone into the same kind of things I'm into - I love beaches, boats, water, camping, canoeing, etc.... I want to do a Tough Mudder, Warrior Dash, something like that this year. I eat healthy 90% of the time, love Mojitos, steak, gardening, landscaping, home remodeling and hard bodies - LOL Looking for a guy who loves to workout and who would be around my age or younger. I love to be outside in the summer, the hotter the better, any outdoor activity I'm up for -!-- Love going to the games. I don't watch too much TV but my favorite show is SON'S OF ANARCHY - never miss it!!I am self-sufficient, independent, way too honest, I have a great sense of humor, family & friends are very important to me.Looking for a man who only wants to date one person at a time & can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens Don't be afraid to drop me a line, I won't bite unless u want me to!!! LOL First Date I have a couple unusual ideas - We could get up insanely early and be the first customers at a breakfast place – We'd be able to get a chance to chat and have time to do some people-watching when the regulars start pouring in. Second thought: Go for a walk outside *** the zoo - talk and look at animals, maybe a can match what animal you are like!Third thought: Visit a tourist hot spot in town that neither of us has been to before Fourth thought: Meet up for coffee or a drink somewhere both people have never been to.

  • Ardell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Sports fan and 80's girl to the core! Looking for someone honest and genuine to get to know. I am independent and motivated. I am currently furthering my career as an MLT! What you see is what you get with me. I always tell people they never have to read my mind because I will typically say how I feel unless I think it will hurt someone's feelings. I would like to find a man who is confident in himself and wants a real woman to treat with kindness and respect. I am not needy and do not want that trait in a partner. I also do not like the terms of endearment (sweetie, honey, etc) unless I've known someone for a while! Your first or second message is not the appropriate place for that! However, after I get close to someone, I am very affectionate! I enjoy going to Cinci for Reds games as well! I like working around the house on home improvement projects, and love building a camp fire in the back yard! I love travelling to the ocean as much as possible and going to the pool and lake when at home. As stated in my profile, I am a non-smoker and will not date anyone who smokes! This also includes the 'occasional' cigar or the likes, and I will NOT date someone who chews tobacco! To each his own!I would like to find someone mature who doesn't want to argue about every word spoken. It's terrible how many people I've spoken with that want to disagree with everything I say! I'm an adult who has had teenagers and I do not wish to have another person in my life that disagrees simply to disagree!I have one daughter in college and one son graduating high school this year, so I will have an empty nest before long and would enjoy having the right person to share my time with. Thanks for stopping by! I think a first date should be someplace where we can talk and get to know each other. Lunch or dinner would be nice.

  • Bobbye

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Loving life and in search for Mr Right he must be my everything best friend,soul mate and lover. I have many interests if we talk you'll find them out.My preference is black men so please respect that. And Please no married men or ones with gfs.

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