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Frances, 42

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About Me

I am a single mother of 2, who works full time as a corporate trainer for a software company. I like to have a good time laughing, dancing, hanging out, going to movies but with "life's duties", I don't always have time for ME. I enjoy watching sports especially football on Sundays and watching my daughter's basketball team during the winter months.As I said, I have 2 kids, I am NOT looking for a third. I am a strong, independent female who is looking for my equal...someone who makes me a better person. There are times with my job that I am required to travel, so I understand and respect a person's busy schedule, but if there is a willingness to make the effort for the "small" things/times that person will appreciate and work at the "big" things/times.I am a honest, upfront person who would love to find the same. I am tired of dealing with the BS and drama so if that's what you are about OR are just trying to get a 'lil something, it's best we don't meet. BUT on the other hand, I love to meet new people. Getting to know someone is the best part of any friendship. The strongest relationships start out as a solid friendship. PS. I will not respond to anyone who doesn't have a picture. NO, I am not that shallow or superficial, but let's be honest, initial attraction is based on what is SEEN (Both from the profile AND from pics posted) so please post or send one. Thanks! Going to a low key, chill spot for a happy hour or a coffee. Nothing too fancy; meeting someone for the first time is nerve racking enough, why add too much pressure. LOL

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kirsti

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just a good old southern girl that loves her kids....sweet tea....cool weather...bonfires....football...baseball...puppies....Christmas...snuggling on the couch....and the list goes on. All these things would be even better with a good man to enjoy them with! True love doesn't come around very often....grab it when you get the chance!!What you'll find is a HUGE heart with lots of love for that special someone. I am defintely a giver....not a taker. What's tough is finding that person that can appreciate *** taking advantage!!! With all that said....I want to be a priority in a partner's life...not just one of many options. I've always said that my best quality is also my biggest fault.....In the process of really moving my life forward. Great new opportunity with work....kids that have been more wonderful than I could ask for lately....and finally getting healthier for myself....lost 15 pounds the last six weeks and feeling better already. Opportunities in life bring us often to times of betterment!!Love isn’t perfect. It isn’t a fairy tale or a story book, and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go.Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it… together.You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again.But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh,cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes,hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking aboutyou every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze anddon't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."-- Bob MarleyLove is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude,it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ~ by 1 Corinthians 13:***~

  • Dara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Please don't message me if there is more than a 5 year age difference between us. I am just not interested so please don't take it personally.You'll never know until you try! I have never been one to be aggresive and make the first move and I know how difficult it is to do so. Figured what the hell got nothing to lose and that's how you should feel too. I apologize up front if I don't respond back, but I know the type of person I'm looking for but try anyway cause it might be you!I know that I want a passionate, caring relationship. Of course, it should be exciting as well. I want an equal. Someone who will be there for me when I'm down and can just bring me back up by just by hearing their voice on the phone. I want to *** when that person enters the room. I want to see in their eyes their joy in seeing me. I excel when I feel I am making someone happy, but not because I aim to please, but because I am just me. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor with a sarcastic side as long as it is not hurtful. I also need a man to be serious when the situation dictates it. I am extremely jealous of people who have "quick wits" as I tend to think of the good zingers way after the moment has passed.Living life as positively as possible is very important to me. I am a glass half full kind of girl and try to be as open, understanding, and positive as I can be. Don't get me wrong....I am an extremely confident person who has no problem telling you what I think. I am easy going, but if I want something you will know it. At this stage in my life, I am beyond sweating the small stuff and don't deal well with drama. Life is too short. I'm a take it as it is type of person. Not into beaches, but love to spend time at my pool. I found a niche in cooking in the past few years and have experienced trying foods I wouldn't have dreamed of eating just a few years ago. I am not big into sports but will engage in the viewing as long as my life is not required to sit by a television every Sunday between September and January.I love animals and have 3 cats. I was raised with both cats and dogs. Would love to volunteer at a shelter or similar organization, but hesitate because I would take them all home with me.I am financially stable and have an extremely stable job as I work with extended family so they can't fire me! I truly enjoy my job and don't mind getting up each morning to go. I love the people I work with although there are a few who can drive me crazy!!! I would think the best first date would be to hang out for a drink and just get to know one another to see if we click. No pressure.

  • Kimiko

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like spending time with my children and going to their games. I enjoy spending time at home by our pool hanging out in the summer, but also enjoy going out at times grabbing a bite to eat, havin a few drinks and listening to a band. I enjoy laughing, having fun, and spending time with people I care about. I just need to find that special someone to love and to love me back.

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