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Dara, 42

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About Me

Please don't message me if there is more than a 5 year age difference between us. I am just not interested so please don't take it personally.You'll never know until you try! I have never been one to be aggresive and make the first move and I know how difficult it is to do so. Figured what the hell got nothing to lose and that's how you should feel too. I apologize up front if I don't respond back, but I know the type of person I'm looking for but try anyway cause it might be you!I know that I want a passionate, caring relationship. Of course, it should be exciting as well. I want an equal. Someone who will be there for me when I'm down and can just bring me back up by just by hearing their voice on the phone. I want to *** when that person enters the room. I want to see in their eyes their joy in seeing me. I excel when I feel I am making someone happy, but not because I aim to please, but because I am just me. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor with a sarcastic side as long as it is not hurtful. I also need a man to be serious when the situation dictates it. I am extremely jealous of people who have "quick wits" as I tend to think of the good zingers way after the moment has passed.Living life as positively as possible is very important to me. I am a glass half full kind of girl and try to be as open, understanding, and positive as I can be. Don't get me wrong....I am an extremely confident person who has no problem telling you what I think. I am easy going, but if I want something you will know it. At this stage in my life, I am beyond sweating the small stuff and don't deal well with drama. Life is too short. I'm a take it as it is type of person. Not into beaches, but love to spend time at my pool. I found a niche in cooking in the past few years and have experienced trying foods I wouldn't have dreamed of eating just a few years ago. I am not big into sports but will engage in the viewing as long as my life is not required to sit by a television every Sunday between September and January.I love animals and have 3 cats. I was raised with both cats and dogs. Would love to volunteer at a shelter or similar organization, but hesitate because I would take them all home with me.I am financially stable and have an extremely stable job as I work with extended family so they can't fire me! I truly enjoy my job and don't mind getting up each morning to go. I love the people I work with although there are a few who can drive me crazy!!! I would think the best first date would be to hang out for a drink and just get to know one another to see if we click. No pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I tried this site several years ago and didn't have much luck, nonetheless I've decided to give it another try...what could it hurt, right! My plan is to find a man that is searching for "one" and not "some."Where to begin....I'm a pretty laid back person with a witty, jokingly sarcastic sense of humor so not being too serious is a big thing for me. Don't worry, I can take it as well as I serve it. I am professional when the need calls for it. I enjoy going out, though staying in and just relaxing at home is fine too. I am pretty open minded and will try ALMOST anything at least once. I try to keep myself well rounded...I am family oriented, take care of myself and my looks, and can dress/act according to what the occassion calls for. As Ludacris says, "Lady in the streets but...", well if you know Ludacris' lyrics you know what I'm saying....if not, there's always Google, lol. I listen to a variety of music but lean towards R&B and Hip-hop...as you can tell by the Luda quote. I am independent but not to the point where I don't want a man. Please realize though, I don't need a man to make me who I am...the RIGHT man will only enhance what I already have to offer. I'm a single mother of 3. I have pretty much raised my children and am not looking to start that process over...I had my children when I was young so it's all about ME now...lol. I do not mind dating a man that has children although I do prefer for them to be a little older. Please, no drama or games. I have had my share and am full, thank you. Just be up-front with your intentions/wants/needs and let ME make the decision if I am "ok" with them and I will give you the same courtesy and respect. (In other words, don't assume...one way or the other...for me) I am looking to date a man with the potential for a serious relationship. If you think you could be that candidate, drop me a message. Good luck "fishing"!!!**Need to add...I have Tattoos...so if that is not you're thing then we will not mix well.** Meet at a coffe shop or somewhere casual where we can have a conversation and see if there is compatability and chemistry....they go hand in hand with a relationship....one or the other doesn't. If further explanation is needed, well.....

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you are looking for someone average you are not looking for me:)I know that everyone online is looking for something different. I am looking for a relationship. When you message me I will assume you are looking for the same. I am looking for someone who is not afraid to have some initiative in finding a relationship and is not afraid of falling in love.I am independent, intelligent and well educated. I have a career I enjoy. I am hard working in my professional and my personal life. I am financially stable. I am very liberal in my beliefs. I am a good conversationalist. Although it's fun, I don't think text messaging counts as conversation:)I can be funny and spontaneous. I love to laugh.I enjoy trying something different.I love to travel and would enjoy meeting someone else who feels the same.I am honest and up front. I am not going to play games.I am looking for someone close to my own age. I am a very caring person and when someone or something is important to me I am a very passionate person.I enjoy simple things like summer rain, thunder, leaves blowing in the air, the sun on my skin, the smell of pine trees, the sparkle of the stars, a full moon, a child's hug.I am fortunate to have a great deal to share with someone and recently realized I am still looking for that someone.I am looking for someone who is physically and emotionally healthy. Someone who wants to enjoy everything life has to offer. Someone intelligent and socially savvy. Someone who is independent and responsible but knows how to share. Coffee or a drink. Let's talk. Let's make it comfortable and get to know one another.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello. my friends keep trying to convince me that online dating is a great idea, but so far i am not convinced .I am looking for someone who is laid back but likes to have fun. I am pretty easy going and I like to think I am adventurous. I am looking for someone around my age who wants to go out and have fun. If you think that sounds great, drop me a line!I guess I should also say that I like to go out with my friends. I like to eat, I like to drink, and as much as I would like to work out, I don't . Maybe with the right incentive I could be persuaded. I have a snarky sense of humor and crack myself up quite frequently . Hopefully that gives you a better glimpse of me. (I am NOT looking for a hook up, so if that is your intent, please don't contact me.)

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