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Dara, 42
United States, Utah, Hurricane

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About Me

Please don't message me if there is more than a 5 year age difference between us. I am just not interested so please don't take it personally.You'll never know until you try! I have never been one to be aggresive and make the first move and I know how difficult it is to do so. Figured what the hell got nothing to lose and that's how you should feel too. I apologize up front if I don't respond back, but I know the type of person I'm looking for but try anyway cause it might be you!I know that I want a passionate, caring relationship. Of course, it should be exciting as well. I want an equal. Someone who will be there for me when I'm down and can just bring me back up by just by hearing their voice on the phone. I want to *** when that person enters the room. I want to see in their eyes their joy in seeing me. I excel when I feel I am making someone happy, but not because I aim to please, but because I am just me. I am attracted to men with a great sense of humor with a sarcastic side as long as it is not hurtful. I also need a man to be serious when the situation dictates it. I am extremely jealous of people who have "quick wits" as I tend to think of the good zingers way after the moment has passed.Living life as positively as possible is very important to me. I am a glass half full kind of girl and try to be as open, understanding, and positive as I can be. Don't get me wrong....I am an extremely confident person who has no problem telling you what I think. I am easy going, but if I want something you will know it. At this stage in my life, I am beyond sweating the small stuff and don't deal well with drama. Life is too short. I'm a take it as it is type of person. Not into beaches, but love to spend time at my pool. I found a niche in cooking in the past few years and have experienced trying foods I wouldn't have dreamed of eating just a few years ago. I am not big into sports but will engage in the viewing as long as my life is not required to sit by a television every Sunday between September and January.I love animals and have 3 cats. I was raised with both cats and dogs. Would love to volunteer at a shelter or similar organization, but hesitate because I would take them all home with me.I am financially stable and have an extremely stable job as I work with extended family so they can't fire me! I truly enjoy my job and don't mind getting up each morning to go. I love the people I work with although there are a few who can drive me crazy!!! I would think the best first date would be to hang out for a drink and just get to know one another to see if we click. No pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Hardcore Canadian Indonesian South American Comedy Romance Dirt Bike Racing Motorcycle Racing Snowboarding
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