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Lavenia, 41

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About Me

Really do I have to. Okay my friends wld say I'm fiercely loyal, sarcastic, funny, and honest but they think I'm fabulous so you shouldn't always trust them. I'm also stubborn, private, hate drama and think that the right thing to do is not always the easiest. I'm not looking for a hookup (why is that necc. to say). I truely am looking for someone who enjoys some of the same things I do and see where that goes. Physical attraction is important but I find different things in different people attractive. With that being said please please don't contact me if your teeth are missing or you don't have a pic posted. I'm sure I'll change this so if you wanna know just ask. Anything simple I don't need to be impressed but I do need to get to know you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dympna

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Abaigael

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    As I learned from someone on P.O.F. And I totally agree with what they had to say about woman on this site.... 1.) I don't pucker in every pic...Wait, I don't have one where I am puckering,huh. Damn it!I think it too looks retarded. 2.)I don't have a pic with my "best guy friend".If u are on a dating website why the hell would u put up a pic with another guy or girl? I don't get it. 3.)I don't think guys are douchebags or game players because I don't get my way.That's where drama comes in and we each have our part. 4.)I don't have a pic with me sprawled on my bed,looking for a long term relationship. Huh? 5.) And you don't have to worry about holding my hair back over the toilet because I'm to trashed.Nasty! 6.) No pic's with my pets...Why? Do you want to date them too?7.) And if you think that having a shirtless pic will get you more? I don't have a propped up phone looking down my shirt for a reason. Don't get me wrong,I can pull some shiz off! But there is a time and a place. Let's play the whole "meet u" game but never message... That will go far! I really don't bite hard,promise.;) Now that's out of the way.I have two teens who I adore,and are still a big part of my life! My son just completed boot camp. Boo ya! And very proud of him! YES,I do have a job!!! Love hanging with the girls,but is there more?Am I prissy.. Not so much,love nature and all that comes with it. Not afraid to get dirty. Give me a beach right next to the mountains and I'm good to go! I hate drama and want to have only real people in my life,ones who except me for me,hate fakeness and judgement!And just for the record,I am human,have struggles,and not always easy,I try to learn and grow from them! Some guys on here are looking for jesus in a woman form,meaning pretty damn and near perfect!... Good luck with that one! Honesty and communication are huge for me! Have had major issues with that on here!And if you think that the grass is always greener?... Go for it. It's because there is more sh*t on that side! I do know who I am and what I want. Go figure. This pretty much sums me up... I may not be the most beautiful or sexiest woman,nor do I have the perfect body. I may not be everybody's first choice,but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not,because I'm good at being me! I may not be proud of some things in my past,but I am proud of who I am today. So take me as I am,or don't.! Cut from the local high school basketball team. He went home,locked his door and cried....-down,and was defeated in 8 elections.......Who said "We don't like their sound and the guitar is on it's way out."... The Beatles A teacher told him he was to stupid to learn anything and he should go into a field where he might use his pleasant personality............. Then you have never lived!!!!

  • Airlia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I recently moved to the area…a transplant from SoCal. I grew up and spent most of my life in the beach cities outside of L.A. Although it was a beautiful place to grow up, I am thrilled about my new adventure up here in the PNW. I chose this area as I have family that has lived up here for the past 15 years. Additionally, I love the outdoors….driving, hiking, camping, spending time outside.Up through this past June, I worked 16 years as a teacher and *** at an elementary school. I look forward to exploring an alternative career path in health and wellness. Moving up here and recreating my life has given me the opportunity to make finding someone and creating a healthy relationship a priority. I’ve done the work. I’m extremely reflective. I believe most, if not all relationships, take communication, compassion, flexibility, and compromise. I’m sure I missed something….I’m open to learning and growing.I’m on this site to meet someone that I can connect with. I believe I am: positive, peaceful, encouraging, reflective, have integrity, hopeful, flexible, good listener, compassionate, strong sense of self, empathetic, passionate….as well, I know where I need extra support and have to keep an eye on myself. Are you willing and able to call me on my stuff? I’d like to find a man that has integrity, is compassionate, self-aware, emotionally generous, able to communicate, patient, empathetic, honest, passionate….could this be you? I want someone to share my life with…from the mundane to the complex. I want to find a best friend...leading to an intimate relationship. I’ve had many experiences which have led me to where I am today. I enjoy what I do and how I spend my time. It would be nice to have someone to share it with. I’m low key (not a couch potato) and would like to find someone with a similar energy. On a practical note, I prefer not to spend much time *** Let’s meet sooner than later and see if there is a good energy between us. If so, we can take it from there.My favorite quote.... "Be the change you wish to see in the world" GhandiThanks for taking the time to read my words. I wish you the best in your search. Something casual, likely a coffee shop....maybe a short walk. Keep it simple and see what the energy is like.

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